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5 Signs He's Not Interested in You

Updated on April 4, 2016

A true relationship has a lot of strength in it and both the boy and the girl know it. It will have intimacy in it. These are some things that you will not find in each and every relationship you get into. When you will meet the love of your life, you will know him to be the one for you at that very moment. If you do not feel about him that way then this means that things are a little bit shaky. Now, we will discuss 5 signs to warn you that he isn't that interested in you.

He hasn’t introduced you to any of his friends or relatives

This is a very clear and big reason of him being non-serious with you. If he hasn’t introduced you to any of his friends or colleagues then this means that he is not thinking about being with you for a very long time. If this happens then you should focus on reassessing the situation.

Not answering your calls

If you call your boyfriend and he does not receive your call then there is nothing to worry about. All of us get busy some times. You call him again after sometime and he again does not receive your call. Now, here is something you should worry about. There can be two of these situations. Either he is an extremely busy person or simply, he is really not that into you. This is a fact and you should try to deal with it.

He does not tell you all of his plans

A true relationship is all about sharing. Those of us who have been through it know that a person who is in love with someone can’t wait to tell his partner about his plans and ideas. If none of this is happening between you two then things are not serious between you. He is just trying to pass some of his time with you. If you know him for a very long time and have been dating him for two to three months and still you don’t know anything at all about him, then he really does not want to share anything with you and wants to keep things the way they are. If he's not willing to share some of his plans, it's unlikely he's unprepared and not resolved to share the rest of his life with you.

Your boyfriend only calls you late at night

This is one of those things that should sound an alarm in your mind. The important question to ask in this regard is what he was doing the rest of the day. Why can’t he call you earlier? So, if he never calls you in the day hours or in the early evening then you have to start thinking of where you stand in his scheme of things. Surely, you don't want to be treated as an afterthought? Such a situation only shows you where you stand in terms of his priorities.

You Invite Him, He is Always Busy – No Rain Check

If he is always busy whenever you set something up or invite him to do something together, and he doesn't make any effort to make up for the missed activities, then time to stop wasting your time and efforts. If he can’t even pay a little amount of attention and make some time for you and your plans, then there is no doubt that he is not in this for the long haul.

So, whenever you start seeing any or a combination of these signs, save yourself some heartbreak. Quickly assess, be strong and be bold enough to move your life on in another direction without the guy.


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      6 years ago

      you are equally right, but remember that a guy wont tell you at earlier stage or gives all the signs sometime, they can show it many years after, but my advice is simple, if he does show all this signs as it is rightly said, be bold and move to another direction because going into such relationship may cause a great problem to such person in marriage, love with your brain and not with your heart, sometimes heart can go against what your mindset tells you, and see that you have no reason to cry in any relationship you may find yourself, remember your soul-mate is awaiting you somewhere,somehow

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      Moira Garcia Gallaga 

      6 years ago from Lisbon, Portugal

      You raise a very valid point there Ish Mael. Thanks for sharing that insight. It only goes to show that when it comes to relationships it isn't that simple.

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      Ish Mael 

      6 years ago

      Good advice and hub. Voted up! If it is just the start of the relationship how would you know that he/she is the right one for you? Should the feeling be mutual on both sides? Or, maybe one may know that he/she is the right one but the other one still assessing the situation if he/she is the right man/woman for him/her? Probably, he/she is afraid of commitment or long term relationship or not ready yet?

    • moiragallaga profile imageAUTHOR

      Moira Garcia Gallaga 

      7 years ago from Lisbon, Portugal

      Thanks for your comment and good insight Jemi, I was putting this together in the context of the early stages of a relationship. I was thinking of this as advice to spot warning signs to allow a person to move on before things get really serious and complicated, sort of an early warning process.

      When there are years behind the relationship and some of these signs show up, it is also a warning sign of trouble. However, at this stage, the solution is not as simple as moving on and it is a little bit more difficult to resolve.

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      7 years ago

      Some good advice, but seems to be for short-term relationships. What about when there are years behind the relationship and some of these signs show up...


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