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6 secrets of a long distance relationship: How to maintain happiness in long distance relationship?
Love is the most beautiful and eternal feeling of this world. There is no doubt that the real zest of love is to live together but there are very few who are lucky enough to hold their beloved ones in their arms throughout the life. Sooner or later, most of us have to suffer the pain of long distance relationship due to some unavoidable circumstances. The period of long distance relationship is the most testing time for any relation.
We have heard from most of the people that long distance relationships don’t work. But trust me after reading this hub, there will definitely be a change in your thinking. If you are also one of those people who are suffering from the pain of long distance relationship and finding yourself clueless on how to maintain your long distance relationship? Then just take a long breathe and read this hub and there will definitely be crackling solutions to your problem.
Now, let me come to the main theme of the hub and let me sail this ship to the destination.
Communicating every day is the biggest tool to maintain your healthy long distance relationship
Most of the long distance relationships don’t work because people just don’t able to communicate with each other daily. Remember just a single good morning or good night can work wonder for your long distance relationship. When you communicate daily with each other then, there remains an ambience in the relationship.
Remember, that communication doesn’t mean just to be formal in your relationship but to share all the sorrow and happiness of your whole day with your beloved one. This will help you to maintain the firmness of your long distance relationship. Just keep one thing in mind that more you communicate in your long distance relationship stronger will be your relation.
Maintain trust & avoid jealousy in your long distance relationship
Trust is also one of the most indispensable things for maintaining a long distance relationship. Remember that you are not living together and you can’t make doubts clear by face to face interaction. In my view, love is the closest synonym the word trust. So, if you can’t trust your partner then this means that you never ever loved your partner.
Also, there comes a word, possessiveness and for me this is the most important word in a relationship. Possessiveness is always good for the betterment of your long distance relationship as it gives the feeling that you are expressing your deserving right on your partner. But the real problem starts when this possessiveness is mixed with jealousy which can destroy even the strongest relationship. So avoid jealousy and show possessiveness to have a rocking long distance relationship.
Truth & honesty are key elements of your strong long distance relationship
Two bodies and one soul is the simplest definition of the love in this world and I am sure most of you are familiar with this definition. This definition is not a hypothetical concept but has a deep meaning for those who can understand it. Now, suppose if you and your partner has have one soul then how can you lie with your own soul? This simple means that if you are in a deep love with your partner then there is no place of lie between you.
This path of truth will also develop the habit of honesty in you. Trust me, once you will have the truth and honesty in your relationship, the flower of love in your long distance relationship will blossom like never before.
Stay positive and sail the ship of your long distance relationship to the destination
People who always maintain the positive attitude can face any problem in their life. It is said that there is always a solution to every problem in this world but there is a need to approach it with right positive attitude. Positive attitude is one of the main secrets of a great personality.
In a long distance relationship, there will be lots of instances when you will face lots of problems in your relation without any solid reason. At that moment your attitude and approach towards the problem will be tested. Whatever problem you face just keep telling yourself that you can go through this hurdle easily and love your partner very much.
Remember, sometimes a small misunderstanding can lead to a painful break up just in the absence of a positive attitude and right approach.
Little surprises are the stepping stones of a cute long distance relationship
Imagine a situation when you are calling your beloved one in midnight to your partner for just saying three words I love you or missing you. Although these two or three words seems very simple but they will be of great weightage in expressing your love.
Little surprises always act as condiments in your long distance relationship which just make your relation more tasty and beautiful. Use your creativity to give little surprises to your loved one and it will work wonder for you.
Keep your emotional bond strong enough to compensate the weakness of physical bond
Physical attachment and emotional attachment are two pillars of a strong relationship. But as in long distance relationship, there will be no physical intimacy as two creatures are far apart physically. So, make the emotional bond between you so strong that you can overcome the physical need between you.
I have seen many couples who live apart from each other from so many long years but still the bond of love between them is as strong as the bond between night and moon. The only reason for such a strong bonding in their long distance relationship is that they have superb emotional dependency on each other.
Last but not the least, it doesn’t matter that you live with your partner or you live a long distance relationship. The only thing which matters is that how much the bond of love between the two souls? So, if you are in a long distance relation, then follow the above secrets and you will be go through it easily.
If you have anything to say then just feel free to jot it down. I will be happy to gather your views
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