The Top 7 Things Men Want Most From Women
Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus
Just like other male mammals that live on this planet, a male human's genetics consists of an X and a Y chromosome and will always produce X and Y chromosome sperms to determine the sex of a fetus. All females have an XX chromosome makeup and will always produce an X chromosome ovary for reproduction. Men favor and produce 20 to 30% more of androgen, also known as the testosterone hormone. Women favor and produce more of the estrogen hormone. Both men and women's bodies do contain both hormones, just more of one over the other depending on the gender. Men do have a smaller hippocampus, which is where memories are stored, compared to women. This is why many women will remember almost every word said, every argument, and every major event that happens.
Men and women definitely are different beyond just their sexual organs and physical differences, such as size, weight, and strength. The biggest differences other than the obvious is thought processes, actions/reactions, and even needs and wants. Men process information differently. Men also make decisions differently and also act/react very differently to certain types of circumstances or situations. Men also differ in a big way in terms of relationships, feelings, and even in their wants and needs. Men always have their own way of doing things and at their own pace, which can be frustrating for women at times. Men and women have always expressed themselves differently and even live life differently.
Some Facts About Men
- Men refuse to go to the doctor.
- Men die sooner than women in most cases.
- Men have more car accidents from speeding.
- Men refuse to ask for directions (had to put it on the list)
- Most men do not shower every day.
What Do Men Want?
While putting the pieces together, incorporating wisdom on this topic, and studying the facts that do exist, there are certain conclusions about certain topics that do hold true. Men like things in certain ways. Men have different a different way of communicating and bargaining. Men are also much simple than most women believe. Men don't want anything out of the ordinary, but in fact, it's usually simple and to the point. Sometimes it will be odd and challenging to obtain but men always will find a way if it's something they want bad enough. Men sometimes can want what they can't have but that is human nature. To simplify, the basic necessities men want daily are sleep, food, and love. Just like with women, men will also have their bad days when they don't know what they want.
Do Men Even Know What They Want?
Do men know what they want from women?
The Top 7 Things Men Want Most From Women
This article is about men and what they want most from women, for women that may need more insight on this topic. The top 7 things men want most from women can be surprising and also inspiring at the same time. Men aren't all about sex all of the time, in fact they are much deeper than that. Men do have wants from women on a different level than average stereotypes and generalizations. So let's dive right in and see what's first on this list!
1. True Respect.
Respect is defined as due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others. Respect is also defined as a feeling or understanding that someone or something is important and serious, and should be treated in an appropriate way. Women always want respect from men, but men also want that same respect in return. Men want to know that their feelings and opinions matter just as much as a woman's. Some great ways to show a man that he is respected are to:
- Give him your undivided attention when he talks.
- Do not interrupt him when he's talking.
- Always welcome him home with a kiss after a day at work.
- Tell him that you love him as he walks out the door in the morning.
Doing these things everyday will improve the way he feels about the relationship and about his woman.
2. Loyalty, Always.
This needs no explanation. You either got it or you don't.
3. Complete Trust, Both Ways.
The act of a woman trusting a man, with little and big things, means so much to men. To trust or not to trust a man is interpreted as a sign of a woman's overall respect for the relationship. As mentioned above, respect is very important so that is why it is on the top of the list. There are always certain circumstances when a woman must choose to trust her man or have her own way. This is when a woman must swallow her own pride and trust her man, aside from feelings. Complete trust makes for a healthy relationship, open communication, and also great memories.
4. No Nagging.
Men hate nagging and it is the quickest way to turn him away and turn him off. This can ruin the good energy and good moments. Nagging can consist of any the following:
- Consistent reminding.
- Objecting with a whiny tone.
5. Home Cooking.
As the old saying goes "The quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach" and it is incredibly true, even to this day in modern times. Men enjoy eating food, but they love it when it's home cooked and when it is their favorite dish being served. This is especially true when a man comes home from work only to smell a hearty dinner cooking. Some home-cooked dish ideas to impress a man are:
- Steak, any cut.
- Marinated lamb chops
- Classic cheeseburgers.
- Spaghetti and home-made meatballs.
6. Spontaneous Make Out Sessions.
As we all know, men love sex but it is a deeper connection that men want most from women. Men want to feel connected to the woman they love on a different level than everyone else. Making out is much different than kissing. Kissing is usually little pecks like a mother gives to her children. Making out involves more than that, like opening the mouth and gently using the tongue. Some tips for spontaneously making out are:
- Find a unique location.
- Time it just right when little to no people are around.
- Keep eyes closed so it is just the two of you in that moment.
7. To Have a Good Time.
Men are simple and to the point. They live their lives that way each and every day, Men do not like nagging, complaining, gossiping, drama, or whining. They want to have a good time, laugh, joke, and just be themselves. Men want most from women is for them to join in on the drinks, food, and jokes. Men are really good friends for women to have because they don't like drama. A good time for a typical real man will usually include one or most of these things:
- Beer, sometimes imported.
- Sports, of any kind.
- Food, like wings and pizza.
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