- Gender and Relationships
7 Things Men Want Most From Women
What is Up With Men?
Being a man means having an XY chromosome make up like other male mammals, while women have only an XX chromosome make up. A man is one who thinks differently, feels differently, acts and reacts differently, along with many other differences when being compared to women. A man likes to do everything his own way and during his own time frame, which is not the same way as a woman's. Being a man also involves having a deeper voice and an "adam's apple" which women lack completely. Sometimes it may seem like a man and a woman are on totally different pages in all aspects, yet always seem to meet in the middle, find love, and a future with one another.
A man and a woman always seem to maintain a certain, special balance for one another and their unique temperaments, which is why a relationship between these two different sexes seems to exist, along with attraction. A man is the strength and every thing else that a woman needs, while a woman can provide a man with the softness and the tenderness that only a woman can. This creates a natural balance for a relationship that will always exist between these two opposite sexes. Being a man is most difficult at times and may seem overwhelming, but most men would agree that there is nothing better.
Do You Make Your Man Happy?
Do you think you satisfy your man?
Every Man Has Wants
Every man has things that they want in life and out of life, which may include but are not limited to toys, tools, and even certain wants from a woman. These wants that every man has may seem difficult for women to understand and complex to figure out, but the reality is that they are just like what a woman wants except in a different form and based on a guy's likes. Every man wants to feel good about themselves and about the relationship that they are in, especially from a woman. Satisfying a man's different wants may seem impossible, but it is exactly what women want with different levels of importance.
A man is the most simplest person to figure out, which is another way men and women are different. A man likes to get right to the point, and have it done which can get no easier. Every man has wants, and sex is not high on the list!
What Do Men Want Most From Women?
The answer is obvious! All men want is to be happy and to feel respected and loved, just like women do, while focusing on what only a man enjoys doing. What men want most from women is not that complicated to satisfy or difficult to solve, but is just the exact opposite of what women want most from men. While men are taking the time to give women what they really want, like cuddling and talking, women should also be taking the time to give the men what they really want, like not talking and just chilling on the couch together. This will cause team work and the relationship will increase in strength, without even doing much but making the other person happy.
This hub is a list of what men what most from women, published by a woman, but seen through a man's perspective. The list is compiled of input from my husband combined knowledge from other hubs based on facts about men and about their habits. This list may not be accurate for all men, as every man, woman, or person is not the same. The bottom line is that what men want most from women is what women want from men, to be happy in their relationship and with the one's they love.
Just like women wanted to be respected by men, men also want to be respected for their opinions, thoughts, and decisions at all times. They want to feel respected for all of the hard work that they do and for all of the household responsibilities they manage on a daily basis. This includes listening to what they have to say when they express themselves and respecting how they feel, even if and when you don't agree with it. Men who do offer the same respect for women should get that same respect back in return, without there ever being any question. Respecting a man also shows that you respect yourself as a woman, which is more attractive to men than women who have no respect at all. As soon as men notice that they are being respected in return, women get much more respect and so the cycle of respect goes. This topic is a two-way road, but men want it most from women more than any thing else.*
*This is not true for any man who is disrespectful to any woman.
2. Home Cookin'
Men enjoy eating good food and love the women who cook good food for them. A married man loves coming home after working all day long to a hot home-cooked meal with his dear family. Some men may even enjoy take-out or fast food every night, as long as their woman feeds them when ever they are hungry. This is a high priority to men and a man's mood may be affected by his hunger. Keeping the fridge stocked and the food coming to your man is also another great way to make him want to come home. Men also enjoy having something nice to look at while waiting for the food to be prepared and served, so try to dress it up a little. Men are very visual creatures.
Men want sex from women, and that is a known fact, but it's actually later on their list because a man does not want to have sex with a woman who is being disrespectful and unappreciative towards him. Men are always turned on by women and the many different things about them, but are also turned off by certain things as well. This can go for appearance, scent, or even attitude. Men want sex from women, and every one knows this fact. But it's not as high on the list as many people would have thought it to be. Men view sex differently, like being a man's way of showing a woman how her feels about her and the love he has for her. Some men also see sex as a way of bonding with a woman.
Just like women, men also want to feel appreciated for all of the hard work and responsibilities that they accomplish every day. One of the things men want most from women is to feel and hear more appreciation from them for the things that they do. Especially when a man went out of his way, with extra thought and time, to do some thing nice for the woman that they love. Saying "thank you" followed by loving comments is a great way to show thanks for the effort he puts into every day. Giving a man extra hugs and kisses is always another great way to show how him how appreciative you are of him and what he does. Appreciation is also a way of encouraging a man and motivates him to do more good things, which creates a circle of happiness in working together for happiness and satisfaction within the relationship. Some men believe that appreciation and respect go hand-in-hand, but both tasks should not be left unaccomplished daily. Men enjoy feeling appreciated because it will make them want to do more good deeds for the woman they love, while feeling great while doing them.
5. No Nagging or Complaining
This goes for every woman because we have all done it at one time or another!! Men really don't like to hear women continuously complaining or nagging about projects, obligations, or other responsibilities and especially when they come home after working hard all day. Women think it's just trying to get things done, but men will always take it as nagging and this is their biggest annoyance. Men usually know what is going on and what has to be done, and will procrastinate because that is how they are made, and will accomplish the task with perfection, but on their own sweet time. Complaining and or nagging only makes men feel annoyed, bothered, and unhappy so then they do not want to do what is being asked of them. A man wants to hear that his woman is satisfied and is happy. Then in return, he will be more willing to do what is being asked of him because he will know that you be happy with it. This concept may need extra patience, and with practice, but it can be done. The ending results are amazing. Once the negative outlook and responses are removed from the relationship, it will work more smoothly and your man won't be in such a bad mood all of the time.
Men are not as affectionate as women are, but do enjoy the occasional hug and kiss especially for no reason at all. This physically shows men that their women love and care about them. Don't overdo it because it may be taken as being clingy, which guys can not stand. Gently playing with a man's hair or a deep massage also counts as wanted affection from many men that they usually lack and go without. Show your man that you care and he will too in return.
Men like simplicity to be happy, which includes within their life and even within their relationship. Since men are logical and realistic people, this means they are simple and easy to get along with for the most part. Men like it when things are simple, but not necessarily easy. Men want their relationships to keep kept simple to avoid drama, problems, and trouble from happening. Men are not into much gossip and drama like women are, they just want it kept simple and to the point. This want from men is simple, and keeps every one's life simple also.
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