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9 signs a shy guy likes you

Updated on June 24, 2010
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1. He tends to stare but look away when you look back

 

This classical symptom may apply to both guys and girls. Guys can't help to admire at your beauty but look away when you look back. If the guy is a bit bolder he may just keep looking at you and smile.

2. Talks to his friends about you

If you have a common friend you can ask if he talks a lot about you.

3. Does any favors for you

A guy will try to do anything for you. Simple favors such as carrying materials or just about anything you ask. Believe me, if he starts helping you out even when you don't need it, it's definitely a sign that he likes you.

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4. He ends up in the same places you frequent

If you happen to go to the library at certain times, you may see him there. If you frequent the Starbucks, you may run into him. Not a coincidence that he happens to find him there often ordering your favorite drink.

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5. Compliments you when others don't

If you got a really bad hair day or a humongous zit on your nose, he will still go out of his way to compliment you. He will be love blind.

6. If you go, he goes. If you stay, he stays

 

If your group of friends decides to leave to go somewhere, he will try to go with you guys as well, even if he doesn't want too.

7. He will appear to be at loss for words

If sometimes he can talk really well with others but then he seems to stumble or be at loss for words, it may be a good sign that he's all over you. After all, you can't talk when you are nervous.

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8. Finding anonymous notes

Whether in your notebook, email, or anywhere, you may find anonymous notes such as "you are beautiful", "i love you", etc.

9. Try to touch you

If you know him a little bit, he'll try to accidentally bump you or touch you whenever he can. He may say a joke and push you in a friendly manner.

If you want to be with him too, tell him that you care! Don't miss the opportunity, you may never find a guy like him! HE may be the PERFECT GUY, just too shy to admit it.

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      A curious 5th grader 4 years ago

      I have loved this boy dearly for two years now and have only talked to him twice. There is a girl he talks to and likes to talk to her a lot which made me jealous! But sometimes we stare at each other and we both look away quickly. One of his friends told me that he did like me which made me very happy. There was also a time when we were sitting together at the computers and when I logged on the computer it made a very loud noise. The boy that I liked laughed and turned down the volume of the computer. How do I talk to him without people laughing at us and without me getting nervous?

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      tay 5 years ago

      what if he hugs you all the time and doesnt hug anyone else he also goes out of his way to do it what does this mean??

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      angelika 5 years ago

      thankyou for this hub page really hoping to getmore information and advice.

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      JOANA NCHO 5 years ago

      DIS GUY N I OFFER D SAME COURSE IN SCH. HE STARTED STARING @ ME SINCE WE WENT 4 OUR 1ST LECTURE WHICH WAS A MISTAKE MADE BY ME DAT IS 2 SAY DAT I WAS SUPPOSED 2 B IN A DIFFERENT GROUP. I NEVA SAW HIM UNTILL WE HAD A JOINED LECTURE WITH D OTHER GROUPS. THE GUY STARED @ ME THROUGH OUT D LECTURE N EVEN AFTER HE CAME I STOOD A BIT CLOSER 2 ME, WAS STARING WITHOUT TALKING,WITHOUT SMILING BUT WATCHING ME AS IF HE WAS SHOCKED @ SOMETHING. EVEN IN D EXAM HALL HE DOES D SAME THING....AM SOO ATTRACTED TO DIS GUY SO MUCH DAT ANY TIME HIS AROUND ME MY HEART BEATS FASTER....BUT HE DOESNT LUK LIKE D SHY TYPE N SO I WONDER Y HE ISNT MAKING ANY APPROACH N ALL DAT HE DOES IS 2 STARE @ ME

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      JOANA NCHO 5 years ago

      DIS GUY N I OFFER D SAME COURSE IN SCH. HE STARTED STARING @ ME SINCE WE WENT 4 OUR 1ST LECTURE WHICH WAS A MISTAKE MADE BY ME DAT IS 2 SAY DAT I WAS SUPPOSED 2 B IN A DIFFERENT GROUP. I NEVA SAW HIM UNTILL WE HAD A JOINED LECTURE WITH D OTHER GROUPS. THE GUY STARED @ ME THROUGH OUT D LECTURE N EVEN AFTER HE CAME I STOOD A BIT CLOSER 2 ME, WAS STARING WITHOUT TALKING,WITHOUT SMILING BUT WATCHING ME AS IF HE WAS SHOCKED @ SOMETHING. EVEN IN D EXAM HALL HE DOES D SAME THING....AM SOO ATTRACTED TO DIS GUY SO MUCH DAT ANY TIME HIS AROUND ME MY HEART BEATS FASTER....BUT HE DOESNT LUK LIKE D SHY TYPE N SO I WONDER Y HE ISNT MAKING ANY APPROACH N ALL DAT HE DOES IS 2 STARE @ ME

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      Sassyxx43 5 years ago

      HELP!!!! Btw this may be long!! Okay so there is this guy in my class... Me and him has been friends for years! I've never really developed feelings for him and I probably never will because he is a good friend. It's going to be harder to explain because he just kinda started this recently. First you have to know him. He's really funny but in a weird way... When he was I think 4 he had leukemia and he had leukemia when his father had cancer and his father died at I think whe he was 5 so he's had a rough life!! Ever since then he's been weird. Anyways he had a girlfriend and after 8 months dumped her. About a week after he dumped her hes been doing weird things. He is cute but I like another guy an he knows that. Well I was sitting in the cafeteria working on my math and it was just my EA teacher me... "him" and 2 other students well lets call him bill...... "bill" was sitting at the very end of the caf and I was at the other end and we were facing each other but in a distance lol so sometimes I would glance over and I would catch him looking at me or if I laughed he would look over but he's never focused on his work so this could be curiosity lol but he would look at me a lot and it would make me feel kinda awkward! Then there was another time, I have naturally curly hair and most people love it but I don't lol anyways he says I love your hair and he says I have "honeylicious" curls...... Then he sometimes follows me and I've noticed he does sit beside me to but not all the time.. Mainly music. Then he always calls

      My name and says " don't smile" and he knows I always

      Smile because I laugh all the time and when I smile he smiles lol it's weird and he says it to me all the time. And we actually recently had this dance and he was sitting in the chairs and I was dancing all of a sudden I see a big flash of light and it was a camera flash and I look over at "bill" and he puts his head down and laughs because he was taking pics of me. Now this is why I believe he doesnt like me, 1 because I can never tell with "bill" because he's just naturally weird and I guess he does this stuff to be weird lol and also me and my friend always tease each other about liking a person even if I don't like them, so she says Eddie likes you and he always says no I don't. Also we live in Waterloo and he dumped his girlfriend because he likes another girl but she lives in bayfeild which is far away so y would he like me if he likes another girl?? Do you people think he likes me? Help please :)

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      cecilg212 5 years ago

      the thing is that i need to get over aguy name noe or akablazer101

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      to rebecca

      when ur shy guy icnores u dose it seem like he dosent want to end the covo cus shy guys pfer it when theh girls do the talking and when he stares at u dose he look away quikly and when u talk 2 him dose his face go red?? but i think there might be a small something thare but its hard cus theres not much details bou everything els sorry i couldent help so much

      this is for everyone who comes on this!!!! can u plz just give every tiny little detail even if ur coment take up the whole page thn thths ok i dont mind reading long coments because even the littest tiny detail makes a BIG help.

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      taylor watkins 5 years ago

      This helps what if a guy stares at you but you are not sure and girls tell you he does like you they think but you are not sure.

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      Sarah1234 5 years ago

      @annonymous...

      Thank you soo much!! I've always though that he liked me but whenever I tried asking my friends if they thought he liked me they would never give me a straight forward awnser! Thanks again, I appreciate it a lot.

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      sarah1234 5 years ago

      @Helper1

      You sure do help alot, i will go get my face checked!!! Atleast im actually dating him now! But good luck to u in the future, im sure you will find someone! k byee **smiles**

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      sarah1234 5 years ago

      @Helper1

      You sure do help alot, i will go get my face checked!!! Atleast im actually dating him now! But good luck to u in the future, im sure you will find someone! k byee **smiles**

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      Helper1 5 years ago

      I Ment what was wrong?.. but yeh stop asuming things no wonder ur looking up for help! go get ur face checked!

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      Rebecca 5 years ago

      There's this one guy who stares at me all the time, and it's been going on for over a year. I really like him, and sometimes he starts a conversation, and when i make a reply he just ignores me. It's pretty confusing, and since, at school, we kind of come from different social groups he might be embarrassed about maybe liking me or something. I really don't know....Help? Were going to different schools next year so I only have a couple of months to maybe try to make a move.

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      Sassy23 5 years ago

      K so I like this guy and I thought he liked me cuz he flirts with me and my friends even thought the Same thing! I recently told him I liked him and he said it was shocking! my Friends have went up to him before and said you know she (me) likes you and he said no she doesn't. Like he wouldnt believe anyone! So I told him over Facebook and I know I shouldn't have did it over Facebook but I did and he didn't say much but I asked him If we can still be friends and he says yes BFF! I really like him and I thought he liked me but if he did why hasn't he asked me out? Also I told a couple of my friends the other day to go up to him and say do u like her (me) and he basically says creep and runs away... He's strange, just thought I'd throw that our there lol but anyways If he liked me y hasn't he asked me out!!!! I need help! Please I'm in desperate need! I love him!

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      InariObsidian 5 years ago

      Another reason I don't want to date him: One of my friends has a crush on him. But we just have so much in common. And ilovehariborandomsLOL, if he DID ever blush, you'd never see it. His hair is always in his face. I think I've only ever seen his face once or twice. He's always hiding behind it when I'm around.

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      Sarah1234 5 years ago

      @helper1

      What Is my problem? Im honestly not quite sure, maybe I should get that checked :) so tell me what's your problem? Get rejected to many times? Hmmm, u need help :)

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      InariObsidian 5 years ago

      I don't know if they're friends anymore, but YES, that's one of the reasons I don't want to date him. And now, I don't talk to my ex anymore. He moved a long, long way away. Last I checked (which was about six months ago) he was still there and he hadn't even talked to Ayden. All I want to know is if he likes me. Then I'll make a decision based on that knowledge. I don't want to date him for three basic reasons: One, he was/is a friend of my ex. Two, he's just one of those guys you wouldn't get over and I always look at the "if we break up" side. Three, I don't WANT to like him. I want to keep him as a friend and if we dated, that would screw everything up. Idk, I'm weird, I guess, and yes, I know it would put his friendship with him at risk! I'm considered "one of the guys" so I know the "Bro Code" crap. I know that dating your bud's ex is off-limits. I know all that. The only way around it is to get permission, but I don't WANT permission because I don't WANT to date him. Again, I guess I'm just strange. . . . Sorry for the confusion.

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      heres a tip for u shy guy lovers every time u talk 2 ur shy guy his face goes RED thats the BIGGEST give away (that ones a keeper)

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      Annoymous.. 5 years ago

      to InariObsidian

      If you go out with your ex's friend, that could make there friendship at risk.. and that would make things worse.. I'd Think things through a bit more.. do you and your ex still talk?, if so, i dont think you should.. if not it could make things a bit better.. because boys are strange.. if you Ignore them and get over them they want you more its a boy thing.. so if you go out with ur ex's friend ur ex would want you more and be jealous.. think carefully.. give us more details about what happens..

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      to InariObsidian

      thats ok i do tht all the time and i dot think u can delete it but tht dosnt mattr

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      to InariObsidian

      so u want 2 go out with him but u dont. ok i understand bou u wanting and not wanting 2 go out with him but do u still hang with ur ex? i dont want 2 sound mean or enything but why do u want to go out with him? wen u dont want a bf and u and ur exs friend seem 2 be like comfuy talking. i need a bit more details on the situation right now and stuff cus i might beable 2 something out cus its a bit hard 2 right now

      i wish i could help u out a bit more ill ask my friends to see if they have an answer hope this helps a little bit tho :D

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      InariObsidian 5 years ago

      If that posted twice, I'm sorry. I didn't know it did and I'm not sure how to delete it.

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      InariObsidian 5 years ago

      Okay, here goes. . . . I'm the "shy girl" or the "emo" and the "rebel." I'm not good with feelings and I don't like them. But about a year ago, I was dating someone. Let's call him "Jesse." ANYWHO, he had this friend that usually would hang with us. At first, he was really quiet and shy. He didn't talk or say anything to me. But by the end of the day, we were talking just fine. Okay, also, to tell the story completely, I'll have to describe the car Jesse drove. It was a little broken-down. The car door wouldn't open unless the handles on both the outer side and the inner side were pulled at the same time. If you did it wrong, you were still stuck inside. Usually, I was in the front seat, so I had to roll my window down to do it myself. But after I helped him with the car door once, he started helping me with it, a lot more than Jesse did. Jesse didn't help at all. I thought that was nice of him, so I thanked him every time. And one day we were in the car and Jesse talked about girls and what kind they liked. I'm brown-haired, okay, and the shy guy, who I'll call Aiden, said he liked fair-haired girls. And I now know that was a lie because he has a thing for brunettes. And I'm not sure, but there was this other girl who would hang with us, a blonde, and I'd thought he was constantly staring at her, but I'm not sure because she was usually always beside me and I noticed that he looked over at me whenever she wasn't around. Whenever I met his eyes, he'd flash a smile and look away. And he's quiet around most people--just keep that in mind. When we went to the mall, he was, as always, quiet. But when it was just us because we lost the others (I'd run off because I was bored and he came looking for me because apparently Jesse sent him to look), he was real talkative, joking a little, and I stroked a soft carpet and said it was soft, so he stroked it, too. And since I did that, he started going through the soft things, pillows, carpets, stuff like that. And he would inform me if something was soft or not. And I came across candles. I'm a candle lover. So I stopped and ran over and started smelling them. He did the same. We laughed about some candles that smelled really bad, or "ooh"ed when they smelled good. And he would pick out particular candles, if they smelled good, and hand them to me. And then there was this day that the three of us went on a picnic. I went for a walk, not far, staying in sight, and I heard him ask Jesse if they should go after me and Jesse asked, "Why, where is she?" I saw him look around for me for a minute, but Aiden knew where I was. And when we went to our friend's house, whenever we were alone, we'd catch eyes. If the other two with us were doing something that we didn't like, or understand, we'd shrug. Or if it was just catching eyes, we'd smile. I didn't think about it at the time because I was dating Jesse, but Jesse broke up with me about almost a year ago and I put a "in a relationship" status up on social networking site with a friend because I kept getting boyfriend offers. I did not want any other boyfriend. I wanted to just be me. But two days ago, I took that down and he sent me a friend request yesterday. I don't know if it's coincidental, or not, but we started talking again and he was real talkative again. He called me a pet name three times and it took about three or four minutes to say goodbye because I guess neither one of us wanted to leave. I told him I'd missed him and he said that it had been awhile since we'd talked and he'd missed it, too. He "lol"ed a lot at what I said and agreed with almost everything and I just don't know what to think. Whenever it was just us, it was comfy, relaxed, and it felt like, I don't know, like we understood each other without needing words. I don't know what to think! I'm scared because I don't want to get involved with him, honestly. Not because I don't like him. I do. I just don't want to . . . I'm afraid to fall for him because it would be so easy to. And the fact that I'm ALREADY afraid of that tells me I've already started falling and I'm afraid to actually hang out with him because I'm not sure I can deal with "just being friends," and I also don't want to fall for him or date him because I don't want to ruin the comfort between us and the fact that he's one of my ex's friends confuses me. I don't want to like someone that's involved with me ex! And I feel bad about it because you're not supposed to like your ex's bud, right? Honestly, this guy terrifies me because I'm afraid to fall for him. I'm just not sure what to do or think. Please help!

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      InariObsidian 5 years ago

      Okay, here goes. . . . I'm the "shy girl" or the "emo" and the "rebel." I'm not good with feelings and I don't like them. But about a year ago, I was dating someone. Let's call him "Jesse." ANYWHO, he had this friend that usually would hang with us. At first, he was really quiet and shy. He didn't talk or say anything to me. But by the end of the day, we were talking just fine. Okay, also, to tell the story completely, I'll have to describe the car Jesse drove. It was a little broken-down. The car door wouldn't open unless the handles on both the outer side and the inner side were pulled at the same time. If you did it wrong, you were still stuck inside. Usually, I was in the front seat, so I had to roll my window down to do it myself. But after I helped him with the car door once, he started helping me with it, a lot more than Jesse did. Jesse didn't help at all. I thought that was nice of him, so I thanked him every time. And one day we were in the car and Jesse talked about girls and what kind they liked. I'm brown-haired, okay, and the shy guy, who I'll call Aiden, said he liked fair-haired girls. And I now know that was a lie because he has a thing for brunettes. And I'm not sure, but there was this other girl who would hang with us, a blonde, and I'd thought he was constantly staring at her, but I'm not sure because she was usually always beside me and I noticed that he looked over at me whenever she wasn't around. Whenever I met his eyes, he'd flash a smile and look away. And he's quiet around most people--just keep that in mind. When we went to the mall, he was, as always, quiet. But when it was just us because we lost the others (I'd run off because I was bored and he came looking for me because apparently Jesse sent him to look), he was real talkative, joking a little, and I stroked a soft carpet and said it was soft, so he stroked it, too. And since I did that, he started going through the soft things, pillows, carpets, stuff like that. And he would inform me if something was soft or not. And I came across candles. I'm a candle lover. So I stopped and ran over and started smelling them. He did the same. We laughed about some candles that smelled really bad, or "ooh"ed when they smelled good. And he would pick out particular candles, if they smelled good, and hand them to me. And then there was this day that the three of us went on a picnic. I went for a walk, not far, staying in sight, and I heard him ask Jesse if they should go after me and Jesse asked, "Why, where is she?" I saw him look around for me for a minute, but Aiden knew where I was. And when we went to our friend's house, whenever we were alone, we'd catch eyes. If the other two with us were doing something that we didn't like, or understand, we'd shrug. Or if it was just catching eyes, we'd smile. I didn't think about it at the time because I was dating Jesse, but Jesse broke up with me about almost a year ago and I put a "in a relationship" status up on social networking site with a friend because I kept getting boyfriend offers. I did not want any other boyfriend. I wanted to just be me. But two days ago, I took that down and he sent me a friend request yesterday. I don't know if it's coincidental, or not, but we started talking again and he was real talkative again. He called me a pet name three times and it took about three or four minutes to say goodbye because I guess neither one of us wanted to leave. I told him I'd missed him and he said that it had been awhile since we'd talked and he'd missed it, too. He "lol"ed a lot at what I said and agreed with almost everything and I just don't know what to think. Whenever it was just us, it was comfy, relaxed, and it felt like, I don't know, like we understood each other without needing words. I don't know what to think! I'm scared because I don't want to get involved with him, honestly. Not because I don't like him. I do. I just don't want to . . . I'm afraid to fall for him because it would be so easy to. And the fact that I'm ALREADY afraid of that tells me I've already started falling and I'm afraid to actually hang out with him because I'm not sure I can deal with "just being friends," and I also don't want to fall for him or date him because I don't want to ruin the comfort between us and the fact that he's one of my ex's friends confuses me. I don't want to like someone that's involved with me ex! And I feel bad about it because you're not supposed to like your ex's bud, right? Honestly, this guy terrifies me because I'm afraid to fall for him. I'm just not sure what to do or think. Please help!

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      i think u could bring up going out in the convo thn ask him who he likes in the class and if u every ask him out and says NO!!!! then thts no but if he dosent say enything or just says no... then thts litraly a yes

      hope this helps u :D

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      Annonymous.. 5 years ago

      @sarah1234

      sounds like he actually likes you! i think you should try it, he seems pretty close to you, guys do that, they tease you for a joke, but im pretty sure you should do it, thats nearly all signs he likes you!

      hope this helped!

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      Helper1 5 years ago

      @Sarah1234

      Whats Your Problem?

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      i dunno what 2 do 5 years ago

      its not that im impatient but my coments been thare for a week now and im still confused why my shy guy acted like tht so can sum1 plz help me???

      its just kinda frustrating cus i dunno if i should get over him or not cus if he dont like me....

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      Sarah1234 5 years ago

      How am I supposed to know? I'm asking you people for advice!

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      Hehe 5 years ago

      Ur true luv is only some1 u long for some1 u crave 2 c again some1 u can't live without some1 that u only notice in a big crous

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      Tha girl 5 years ago

      sarah1234: really...what do you think? Do u think he likes you?

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      Sarah1234 5 years ago

      Thanks guys... Much appreciated... U can't even help me? I'm in desperate need right now! I'm worried about me and him! Nobody cares :(

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      artka95 5 years ago

      There's. This guy I like and hes on my track team and we went out once and I was soooooo. Shy and I don't know what to do I shan't to ask him out but I'm scared. :( HELP ME pLZ. And thank u

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      anynomus 5 years ago

      TO MICHA.

      Oh well thank you atleast im not nuts :)

      So back to your problems. Well i dont understand? You like her and want to go to prom with her but you dont love her and dont wanna be near her? However i understand you dont wanna "be in love" its really scarey. My advice 1:is to dont worry.

      2: although i dont know if ur a christian...ask God for gudience. (its no joke!!)

      3: just give her some signs you dont wanna get to close (like not obviously but like make an effort to sit by a boy)

      4:go to prom, have fun

      5:tell me what happens afterward :)

      -anynomus XOXO

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      Chloerockslolz 5 years ago

      ok so my shy guy recently broke up with me.. and i still love him, wats the best way to get him back? please help

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      i dunno what 2 do 5 years ago

      i 4got 2 say tht i swear i saw him smile at me!!! 2day

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      i dunno what 2 do 5 years ago

      ok i like this shy guy and im pretty sure he likes me cus he has done most of the things on every list i have found my friend asked his 2 go out with me a few times but he just acted pissed of and i kno he has a friend tht knos cus we did this thing in school in the libary and we went round the class talking bou a book we read most ppl gave me 2-3 but my shy guy gave me 5 thts the best score and his frind said oh u just gave her a five cus u.... but when he found out he acted like he was pissed of and his face was BRIGTH RED but it might be bcus his frind he was sitting beside didnt kno but this happened 2 months ago and he still hasnt asked me out i dont mind if this means he dont like me i just want 2 kno

      but its really confusin

      :D

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      Micah S 5 years ago

      @anynomus

      Hey im sorry that i havent replied to your question i have been away from the computer for AWHILE :/ sorry but if the guy you were helping point something out in the Bible was not your crush i would highly agrue that he is showing you jealously. But he may not be, but i myself was the #1 guy when it came to being jealous and that sounds like something i could very do if i like a girl.

      Could you help me again please? :D

      Its worse now. I asked her to Prom and she said Yes, then asked "What do you want me to tell people?" i just said something stupid like i dont know because i frankly i didnt know. I didnt and still dont want to date her but she believes that i must Love her. I really do like her but i like the feeling of not being in a realtionship with her because i will just keep on hurting her. 2 weeks ago she invited me to her house and my parents had to FORCE me to go, because i was dreading it so bad. Since i asked her to prom, no lie EVERYDAY she walks into break and i have to sit like a log and talk to her. I enjoy her company but i dont want to be dating, and i have to go to her house AGAIN this saturday, and one more thing every wednesday we have chappel, she says we should sit together and i DONT want to. I like to be alone, im weird. But i dont know what to tell her - i DONT WANT TO hurt her feelings but now its gotta out of hand

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      Sarah1234 5 years ago

      okay so i really like this guy, like REALLY like him and im getting really confused about all of it! so this is what he does:

      1) He usually tries to get my attention. today i was sitting in class and my back was facing him and i was talking to another one of my guy friends and my crush kept yelling my name repetitaviley and i turned around and asked him what he wanted and he asked me randomly if i had any sugar water.... and i said no and then sad re you sure and i said yes then i turned back around and started calling my name again then i turned back around and said wha and he said are you sure so this is actually really annoying!!

      2) he teses me: sometimes he will call me ugly, fat, loner and all those names...... but he is one of my best frieends so i wouldnt think he is just being flat out mean!!

      3) cant make eye contact. when i talk to him it seems like he could never make eye contact as soon as i look into his eyes. its hard enough for me to make eye contact but im actually getting quite used to it now. but he will look into my eyes for like 2 seconds and look away at the ground or whatever, but he will eventually look back u into my eyes for like another 2 secnds and then again look away.

      4) He always sits beside me. in class he sits beside me. when we had learning buddies he sat at our table and there was more than enough room at the other end of the table but instead he sat between me and my friend and he was like watching everything i was doing and was really close to me like sittng really close. and he accidentally touched my leg at one point and quickly pulled away when looked at him. do u think he likes me? cuz i really like him... like love him i need help!! shoul i sk him out and how should i ask him out?? help would be soo much appreciaed :) please answer this!!

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      Your~eyes 5 years ago

      Do you think I've gathered enough evidence to know of this guy likes me?

      • I catch him staring at me slyly. (he has longish hair and he tilts his head sideways on the desk and stares at me)

      • I caught him staring at me from a distance in a crowd.

      • He always smiles at me.

      • He is showing + body language.(Feet pointing towards me, leaning in, pulling up socks, preening)

      • His best friend joked to him about me a few times.

      • I caught him staring at me a few times. But it was a VERY heavy lidded gaze, and his lips were slightly apart.

      • He says he likes the same football players, films & books that I like.

      • He shows off when he's near his friends.

      • He touches his face a lot and smooths his hair.

      I don't think he's that self confident. I don't know how to put this but I like unusual looking guys. (I think 1D are plain looking and unattractive.)

      He's the type of guy the majority of girls will think is unattractive. (trust me, I've heard a few of them say it) and I think he thinks he's ugly because of this. But oh my... He's not. Honestly he has the most enchanting deep brown eyes. Which I noticed the other day have a little green in them...:)

      Anyway does anyone think I've gathered enough evidence to know if he likes me?

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      Sarah1234 5 years ago

      sarah1234 23 hours ago

      okay so i really like this guy, like REALLY like him and im getting really confused about all of it! so this is what he does:

      1) He usually tries to get my attention. today i was sitting in class and my back was facing him and i was talking to another one of my guy friends and my crush kept yelling my name repetitaviley and i turned around and asked him what he wanted and he asked me randomly if i had any sugar water.... and i said no and then sad re you sure and i said yes then i turned back around and started calling my name again then i turned back around and said wha and he said are you sure so this is actually really annoying!!

      2) he teses me: sometimes he will call me ugly, fat, loner and all those names...... but he is one of my best frieends so i wouldnt think he is just being flat out mean!!

      3) cant make eye contact. when i talk to him it seems like he could never make eye contact as soon as i look into his eyes. its hard enough for me to make eye contact but im actually getting quite used to it now. but he will look into my eyes for like 2 seconds and look away at the ground or whatever, but he will eventually look back u into my eyes for like another 2 secnds and then again look away.

      4) He always sits beside me. in class he sits beside me. when we had learning buddies he sat at our table and there was more than enough room at the other end of the table but instead he sat between me and my friend and he was like watching everything i was doing and was really close to me like sittng really close. and he accidentally touched my leg at one point and quickly pulled away when looked at him. do u think he likes me? cuz i really like him... like love him i need help!! shoul i sk him out and how should i ask him out?? help would be soo much appreciaed :) please answer this!!

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      Jake 5 years ago

      I fancy this boy in year seven am i a pedo?

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      sarah1234 5 years ago

      okay so i really like this guy, like REALLY like him and im getting really confused about all of it! so this is what he does:

      1) He usually tries to get my attention. today i was sitting in class and my back was facing him and i was talking to another one of my guy friends and my crush kept yelling my name repetitaviley and i turned around and asked him what he wanted and he asked me randomly if i had any sugar water.... and i said no and then sad re you sure and i said yes then i turned back around and started calling my name again then i turned back around and said wha and he said are you sure so this is actually really annoying!!

      2) he teses me: sometimes he will call me ugly, fat, loner and all those names...... but he is one of my best frieends so i wouldnt think he is just being flat out mean!!

      3) cant make eye contact. when i talk to him it seems like he could never make eye contact as soon as i look into his eyes. its hard enough for me to make eye contact but im actually getting quite used to it now. but he will look into my eyes for like 2 seconds and look away at the ground or whatever, but he will eventually look back u into my eyes for like another 2 secnds and then again look away.

      4) He always sits beside me. in class he sits beside me. when we had learning buddies he sat at our table and there was more than enough room at the other end of the table but instead he sat between me and my friend and he was like watching everything i was doing and was really close to me like sittng really close. and he accidentally touched my leg at one point and quickly pulled away when looked at him. do u think he likes me? cuz i really like him... like love him i need help!! shoul i sk him out and how should i ask him out?? help would be soo much appreciaed :)

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      i dunno what 2 do 5 years ago

      ok i like this shy guy and im pretty sure he likes me cus he has done most of the things on every list i have found my friend asked his 2 go out with me a few times but he just acted pissed of and i kno he has a friend tht knos cus we did this thing in school in the libary and we went round the class talking bou a book we read most ppl gave me 2-3 but my shy guy gave me 5 thts the best score and his frind said oh u just gave her a five cus u.... but when he found out he acted like he was pissed of and his face was BRIGTH RED but it might be bcus his frind he was sitting beside didnt kno but this happened 2 months ago and he still hasnt asked me out i dont mind if this means he dont like me i just want 2 kno

      :D

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      sarah1234 5 years ago

      d hunk

      my advice to u would be just straight out talk to him!! when u bump into him again just casually say something like "hi, looks like your working hard" or just something like that.... by saying more than hi it may lead u on to not being as shy nd u can become better friends :) can u awnser my question?

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      d hunk 5 years ago

      in my work place there is a guy...i realy like him bt realy shy to talk...he usually say hi when i we bump tp each other...and gives a smile,...its like he is realy shy to talk like me...wat to do ..can any one give me an advice

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      d hunk 5 years ago

      in my work place there is a guy...i realy like him bt realy shy to talk...he usually say hi when i we bump tp each other...and gives a smile,...its like he is realy shy to talk like me...wat to do ..can any one give me an advice

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      sarah1234 5 years ago

      okay so i really like this guy, like REALLY like him and im getting really confused about all of it! so this is what he does:

      1) He usually tries to get my attention. today i was sitting in class and my back was facing him and i was talking to another one of my guy friends and my crush kept yelling my name repetitaviley and i turned around and asked him what he wanted and he asked me randomly if i had any sugar water.... and i said no and then sad re you sure and i said yes then i turned back around and started calling my name again then i turned back around and said wha and he said are you sure so this is actually really annoying!!

      2) he teses me: sometimes he will call me ugly, fat, loner and all those names...... but he is one of my best frieends so i wouldnt think he is just being flat out mean!!

      3) cant make eye contact. when i talk to him it seems like he could never make eye contact as soon as i look into his eyes. its hard enough for me to make eye contact but im actually getting quite used to it now. but he will look into my eyes for like 2 seconds and look away at the ground or whatever, but he will eventually look back u into my eyes for like another 2 secnds and then again look away.

      4) He always sits beside me. in class he sits beside me. when we had learning buddies he sat at our table and there was more than enough room at the other end of the table but instead he sat between me and my friend and he was like watching everything i was doing and was really close to me like sittng really close. and he accidentally touched my leg at one point and quickly pulled away when looked at him. do u think he likes me? cuz i really like him... like love him i need help!! shoul i sk him out and how should i ask him out?? help would be soo much appreciaed :)

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      Chels95 5 years ago

      Im ten and I like this guy and after reading this I know he likes me????????????

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      flirty 274 5 years ago

      So there is this guy i like and i don't know if he likes me.

      1. He looks over at me and when i look he looks away.

      2. He always blushes around me.

      3. looks at me when ever i laugh or smile in lunch.

      What should i do? so cute

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      Kitkat 5 years ago

      I like a guy and i have no clue if he likes me.

      We sit together on the bus sometimes but we barely talk to each other and if he says something, its something random and we start a conversation. Help?

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      Chloe 5 years ago

      I like a guy I think likes me but he says he dosent we're both 11 and I like him a lot he knows I do some times he jokes around with me and satires at me sometimes in class our eyes meet what does this mean please I'm confused

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      Chloe 5 years ago

      I like a guy I think likes me but he says he dosent we're both 11 and I like him a lot he knows I do some times he jokes around with me and satires at me sometimes in class our eyes meet what does this mean please I'm confused

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      im confused bou my shy guy cus when we were in S.E my frind had writen it in her diary tht i heart shy guy and shy guy found it but his frind was there and i dont think he knew but he dose have a frind tht dose kno but my frind wuz thare 2.but my shy guy acted as if he was pissed of bou it & thn his frind said tht shy guy didnt fancie me but my shy guy has done almost everything tht shy guy do and he never denided properly tho but im still confused y he hasnt asked me out by now this happened bou month ago

      i found out his other frind knew cus we did this thing in the libary wen u had 2 talk bou a book u were readin and i hardly sed enything and his frind said "oh u just gave her a five cus u......." and said nothin btw 5 wuz the best score so im really confued but im surprised he hasnt asked me out yet but the rest of the class didnt hear it so my secrets safe the other dude belifed my story bou my friend rightin tht in her diary 2 piss of shy guy

      so can sombody tell me if he still likes me or dosent but i dont mind if he dont cus theres pleanty fish in the sea!!!

      but can sum1 help me with this cus im very confused

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      Brittany 5 years ago

      I am 12 years old and i have a crush on someone in my class-.-

      He keeps looking at me when he gets a chance to...

      His friends keep telling me that he likes me!

      I need an advice from someone who has faced this problem before!!!

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      Tristyn 5 years ago

      So there's this guy and idk if he likes me cuz he looks at me acazonally and when he catches me staring he'll stare at me as like a joke and he's told me he likes some girl in his town named Vanessa and he was gunna ask her out was he just trying to make me jelous??? And also his friend told me he was gunna ask me out a couple weeks ago but he never did does he like me??

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      anynomus 5 years ago

      ugh, Micah

      its not so bad. Just ask her to prom because im pretty sure she will not think your dating. Im a girl i know. And if she does..well tell her what you told me that you dont wanna disapoint. I think its sweet you dont want to hurt her feelings. This will get you closer than not say anything at all. Relax :)

      Would you awnser mine??

      so i was helping a boy look something up in the bible at church, but i was kinda close to him. So i really didnt think my crush was paying attetion but 20 min later after class he starts up about some girl staring at him while he was looking up the bible.

      Jealousy? Just a coencidence?

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      anynomus 5 years ago

      ugh, Micah

      its not so bad. Just ask her to prom because im pretty sure she will not think your dating. Im a girl i know. And if she does..well tell her what you told me that you dont wanna disapoint. I think its sweet you dont want to hurt her feelings. This will get you closer than not say anything at all. Relax :)

      Would you awnser mine??

      so i was helping a boy look something up in the bible at church, but i was kinda close to him. So i really didnt think my crush was paying attetion but 20 min later after class he starts up about some girl staring at him while he was looking up the bible.

      Jealousy? Just a coencidence?

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      Micah S 5 years ago

      Okay disreguard my last comment but here is my real problem

      Hey im a junior and i like/LOVE this sophmore elizabeth but the thing is i am really shy and convicted about prom. First off she has spoken to me but she did it three times FIRST. I the afternoon after the third time finally managed to say hey to her. But its Febuary and prom is on April 20th. EVERYONE at my school has basically told her that i want to ask her to prom, to be honest i dont really want to go to prom because im a weird kid. I like hardly ever talk to anyone in my grade or up and when i do its usaully almost always negative. So if i ask her to prom she will probally say yes but i dont know if im ready for the girl i liked for 13 monthsn in secret to see what kind of guy i really am. I dont want her to get hurt by having her hopes up and then hate me later next year but i dont KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!Its torrmenting me everyday... can someone please help.......Let me say again i REALLLLLLY like her but i dont want her to think were dating because im not EVEN close to be in a relaionship with someone...ive already had two and they ended terrible both girls hate my guts now..... PLEASE HELP

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      youneedhelp 5 years ago

      Dear amber, please tell me that u r joking...yuck.

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      youneedhelp 5 years ago

      Dear amber, please tell me that u r joking...yuck.

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      amber 5 years ago

      hey! so i really like my dad and i dont know what to do. hes so handsome and funny. i think he likes me back, he comes into my room every night and says goodnight. hes so thoughtful and he always tries to be so nice! im so confused i dont know what to do! but this article really helped straighten things out between us. Now i know that liking your father is creepy and stupid so i found a new crush. i think im in love with my brother.

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      Kyra 5 years ago

      i love guy named gilbert and he is my monkey's uncle. he also looks like my dad which makes like him more. i want to kiss him. thanks for the help. bwt his mom is grand spanken too.

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      Hii 5 years ago

      I met this guy at a family friends cabin in the mountains. We were staying there for only a week end but I got really good contact with this guy. Plus he is an exchange student from Australia!! Anyway he's super shy and I first started the conversations and he looked very nervous when talking to me but then seemed to gain confidence once I started talking. He didn't really look at me that much but he was always interested in what I had to say and tried keeping the conversation going. He did smile at me though, yet I'm not sure if he means in a friendly way or a flirty way. I know for sure that hes a shy guy because (this freaked me out) i googled "how to make a move on a shy guy" and went on this link for yahoo answers, looked at the answers ans there i see a reply from a person with the same name as him. His comment was that he was a shy guy and wanted the girl to make a move because it'd take ages for guys like him to ask a girl out. I pressed on this person and found that the questions hed answered were totally relevant to him... his host family lives quite close to me and I desperately want to meet him again! We've been chatting on Facebook and he starts the conversation but I still don't know if it's just friendly! I also really wanna get together soon because he is only staying here a year... Is it wierd if I ask him to hang out? Also I'm not very pretty and have almost never had anyone liked me or had any experience with guys or a bf so I don't know what to do! Plz help, I have been looking for a guy like this forever

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      Micah S 5 years ago

      Okay i like love this girl but ive only ever said excuse me and im sorry to her before. One time she came up to me and started a conversation, i got to talked to her but ended it realllllllllly quick because i couldnt help myself. Now its prom season and EVERYONE i mean everyone knows that i like her and everyone has told her what do you think of going to the prom with Micah????? and i heard she said shed love to and that she likes me......I LOVE this girl but i dont know if i want to be at the prom with her becasue im a bad person to be around, im always negative and other stuff. How can 1. i be able to stop being shy and tell her at least hey or i really like you and more important 2. How do i let her know im really shy to talk to her and ask her to prom but its not that i dont like her i Love her but i dont know what to do. I dont want her feelings to get hurt!! Please help

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      Greenlover 5 years ago

      I've been liking this guy since the first day of school. He's smart, nice to girls and responsible that's why I like him. I don't know if he likes me or not. Whenever he talks to me, he can't look me in the eye and he slightly stutters. He jokes a lot to other girls and he treats girls very nice. Sometimes, I know that he can see me but pretends like I'm not there. Our conversation always starts with a dead question then it's done. We never talk formally and never had long conversations. When I try to crack jokes, he never laugh while his friends do. He acts like he doesn't care about me but he treats other girls nicely. One time, he sat beside me and I saw that he never looked at me and he faced backward while sitting. He looks at me when I'm not looking 'cuz my friends see it. He smiles at me when I'm sometimes near him. Can someone make me understand why is he like this?

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      Grace =) 5 years ago

      Ok so i reeely need sum help with this...

      So ive liked this guy for about a year now but hes a freshman in hs now and im in eighth grade yet so i hardly ever see him but when we do meet hes always like "hi grace" and i smile and say hi but thats it and idk much about hs so its not like i can start convo but idk if he likes me or not cuz hes kinda shy but an awsum runner so everyone respects him but mayb im just love blind. And im reely excited for the summer cuz we go to the same swim club and i can try and talk to him more then but i want to know how i should act cuz hes shy and doesnt say much and im usually loud and chatty except around him cuz i like him sooo much! So can u pleez tell me any tips on how 2 talk 2 him if i dont know him very well? Pleez!!!!!!!!!

      Sorry its so long =)

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      halo 5 years ago

      what do you do when a guy likes you but you like his friend. they both like me and i dont know that to do

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      lol 5 years ago

      Dunno

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      mystery person 5 years ago

      what if you are to embaressed to ask him out?

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      jessica 5 years ago

      i like this guy named spencer and he has the signs but every time my friends ask him to ask me out he give a lame exuse im so confused is he just not intrested or what please i need some edvise... and when im nice and really close to him he like acts all wierd and ocwared

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      lI 5 years ago

      can anyone help me this boy in my call

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      Teen habesha 5 years ago

      Well....dere's this guy i lyk nd i've liked him 4 a while nd few weeks ago we kinda hang out nd he walked with me and he offered to give me his jacket...nd than again today he came up nd said hi...and he is the only guy i can be my self with but both of us are really shy .....OMG what should i do...how do i try to hang out with him more,nd i dnt want him 2 think am not into him or anything.

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      Saloni 5 years ago

      This isnt true for me?

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      Shereen 5 years ago

      i think it soo true but what i hate the most is when i try to get closer to him and he just pretend that there is nothing between us :(

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      sharna 5 years ago

      i dont care really i got a boyfriend and he always stares at me so i dont see what the problem is. when we first started going out he used to talk to his friends about me, which i liked. all boys have different ways of showwing they like you.

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      ThisGirl 5 years ago

      well everything is bright and dandy but.... i cant talk to my crush without getting EXTREMLY nervous! im sure he likes me back and he can talk to me without showing alot of signs of getting nervous like me. i really want to talk to him but physcially cant. do u have ANY tips or tricks to help me not get soooo nervous. thanks a ton!

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      meag 5 years ago

      So theres this guy in my chem class and he can talkto everyone else but me. I can feel him staring and when i turn around he holds eye contact but never smiles and hes always super nervous what does that mean?

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      lol 5 years ago

      I LIKE THIS GUY AND I ONLY MET HIM =( SUMTIMES HE ACTS AS IF HE LIKES ME (EXAMPLE) HE STARES AND GIVE ME A SMILE, CHOOSE TO SIT NEXT TO ME, I TOLD HIM TO DO STUFF SND HE DID IT. HOWEVER THERES TIME THAT I THINK THAT HE DOESNT LIKE ME( EXAMPLE) HE SMILES AT EVERYONE =( HE ALSO SWEARS =( I MEAN IF YOU LIKE SUM1 YOU WUDNT SWEAR IN FRONT OF THAT PERSON. HE IS ALSO COMFORTABLE WITH ME I GUESS BECUZ HE KNEW ME FIRST AND SHY TO TALK TO THE OTHERS.. IN CONCLUSION: THERE ARE MORE THINGS OF THE HE DOESNT LIKE ME MORE THAN HE LIKES ME. I GUESS HE DOESNT LIKE ME THEN == life is so sad

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      OK :D

      thnx anynmos!!!

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      anynmous 5 years ago

      1:dont cuss..its not helping

      2:just ask some questions to see if hes loookin for a gf

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      ilovehariborandomsLOL 5 years ago

      hi im back with another prob

      i want 2 ask out my shy guy but ik he`ll act like wat the hell no

      wat should i do?

      :(

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      KINDA NEED HELP -anynmouos 5 years ago

      Look peeps, i help you guys alot..i need some now.

      What do you think:

      so i was helping a boy look something up at church, but i was kinda close. So i really didnt think he was paying attetion but 20 min later after class he starts up about some girl staring at him while he was looking up the bible.

      Jealousy? Just a coencidence? PLZZZ HELP!!! -anynmous

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      Anynmous 5 years ago

      TO CHARLIE: look, my experince with shy boys is that they do seem to hide feelings. Maby he did tell your friend that, realized what he did and now is covering himself. Or just doesnt want you to know yet. Red face kinda declares a yes if you ask me. Just look for more hints.

      IPPY: sadly it looks like he doesnt like you. Maby he really just doesnt want a realtionship. Or maby he thinks higly of you but just as a friend..However if you truly like him wait a while and just see. Or move on and forget it..your pick. :)

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      Ippy 5 years ago

      My crush and I met eachother and have been friends for a rather short amount of time now. At times he seem to be flirting with me (e.g. i think you look really pretty/you are nice and friendly,etc.)

      We text eachother everyday. A few days ago,I asked him if he had found any pretty girl at medical school,he said there aren't any (lol). Then I asked him i he was going to stay single for the next 5 years. He said,"I HOPE NOT!! But to be honest,I'm not looking for a relationship or commitment right now,so it's cool if there aren't much girls around".

      What do I make of it? Does he like me?

      P.s. He is a shy guy.

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      Charlie 5 years ago

      I like this guy... yeah, they all start like this... The thing is, I'm totally and completely over confident around my friends and loud and obnoxious but around boys. well this is a different story. i get along with them if they are'nt shy back but if they are shy back then i am absolutely and positively terrified of being around them. This person i like is so shy and he never talks and i've caught him looking a few times and both of us kinda turned red but he told my friend he liked me a month ago and then last week i was devastated because over FB he told me he didn't and he told my friend he didn't too. this made me sad and all that jazz but i'm also confused because i still find him looking at me and going red?? help... ROFL!!

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      anynomous 5 years ago

      Maria: WELL, considering you have only talked to him once then aparently you dont know him that well. so talk to him and make an effort :)

      1ejm3: well you did the damage first so..DAMAGE CONTROL. kepp doin wat your doing and if all else fails and u really like him be the bigger person and ask for a 2nd chance :))))

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      maria 5 years ago

      i really like this boy and im to shy to tell him i talked to him only once. i feel his interseted in his friend cuz he always lets her wear his jacket and stuff. what do i do??????

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      love doctor 5 years ago

      He def likes you i think you should listen to your friends because they have a view from the out side and they can tell whats going on. This shy guy sounds really sweet and I think you should go ahead and ask him. I ve been in the same situation and ended up ahving to go to prom with the ugly connfident guy because I missed my chance with the shy cute guy ;P

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      hiptsergirl23 5 years ago

      Alright, so i really need an unbiased opinion on this.

      So, there's this guy. And he is like perfect and shy and soo sweet. I, as you may have guessed, am deeply infatuated with said guy. And my friends all say that he likes me, lake way more than usual, and my bestfriend says that he's always staring at me and looking for me, and we constantly make really weird eye contact, and he even sniffed my hair once. I have really long hair, it wouldn't be hard, trust me. Anyway, I'm really afraid of messing this whatever-it-is up, and I am terrified of talking to him and making myself look like a b!tch or something, and I'm really familiar with shy people, because I am one, so I know how sensitive we all are. Also, I ruin everything I touch. Yeah, I'm one of those people. Anyway, we are on like opposite sides of the social spectrum, so we never get a real opportunity to talk, and Even if I did, I'm really positive that I would run away or something, because I really hate awkwardness, and I swear, when we come within like, a yard of each other, the tension is so thick you'd break your face on it. Also, there is this other guy that really likes me, and when he talks to me I kind of forget about the whole concept of flirting, and just participate in the conversation(I do not like this guy.), and my friend tells me later that I was totally flirting, and the shy guy that I DO like, was glaring at him the whole time. Also, we had a band concert a few weeks ago, and I got all dolled up and fancy, and he(the shy one) was the first one to see me when I got there, and the only way to accurately describe his face at that moment would be, "HOLY SH!T", y'know? It was like he just saw Christina Hendricks naked or something, it was insane.

      So if someone could tell me if he likes me or not, that'd be amazing.

      Thanks.

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      1ejm3 5 years ago

      there is this guy who i have known for almost a year and a half now he is really good looking and is in a lot of my classes we used to flirt all the time but i couldn't tell if he fancied me then i went out with someone else for a few days but dumped him because i still liked this guy i try to flirt with him now but he doesn't really start the flirting if you know what i mean how do i make him like me more??

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      Anymous 5 years ago

      TO 84:

      Ok ok..this behavior is tottaly normal. *wierd though my crush is at church and ive known him for 3 years* any hoo yeah alot of shy guys do that. so dont freak...just..drop some heavy signs you like him like..try to make a convo next time or make an effort to sit by him. I know its scarey but if u really like him its worth it huh? :)

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      84 5 years ago

      Ok so this guy at my church is amazing and we had to go to this nursing home and I have liked him for almost 4 years or more and we went out to eat and I had to sit next to him and he totally ignored me... I wanted to talk to him but I was too shy to Then I went to his house after the nursing home and we kind of talked I guess my sister and I were in his sisters room watching a movie and he came in then we went back to my church and he was talking to me there so idk what it means plez tell me if he likes me or not... My sister says that he does like me and whenever I am in the room he is always looking at me I really want to ask him but can't get up the nerves to and I don't want tO drive him away..... Plez help me I mean this tips helped bit I'm still not sure and whenever I try and talk to him he acts like he is emmbaressed and this I'd driving me crazy and I just want him to talk to me and actually make the move and show that he really does like me... :(

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      Confused girl! 5 years ago

      Katie, i think shy guys are typically somewhat Mammas boys. And moms do seem to know pretty much everything so i would listen more to her than a friend who is known to lie sometimes...

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      Confused girl! 5 years ago

      Katie, i think shy guys are typically somewhat Mammas boys. And moms do seem to know pretty much everything so i would listen more to her than a friend who is known to lie sometimes...

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      Confused girl 5 years ago

      Katie,

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      Katie 5 years ago

      well i am sooo confused about the guy i like. i wrote sum stuff last week but my mom workd with him mom so they talk to each other. from what his mom is saying my crush likes me. but my guy friend asked him why he doesnt have a gf yet and he said i dont like katie i dont want to go out with her. [my friend has know him since kindergarden and hes know for lying] i dont know who to believe.... his mom is really sweet and sooo nice..... but idk if i should listen to him ...HELP ME PLZ!!!if u need more backround i can tell u another story.... oh and to the person who wrote above me . u should wait for more signs from him but kinda flirt and see how he reacts. good luck.

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      confused girl! 5 years ago

      Ok so i like this guy. Hes a year older than me but we r friends. Some things that he say make me think he likes me but sometimes he talks to me about other girls too. It kind of seems like hes more shy around me than others...but i cant really tell for sure. We are like the perfect match though...hes really cute, anf hes football captain, we are both interested in music so we sing together sometimes, and hes just the sweetest thing everrr...but i really want to know is i should tell him how i feel. i mean, if i did tell him i think he would think it was sweet cuz his favorite movie is the Notebook anhe likes chick flicks and cries at emotional things, like a song i wrote about my dad leaving me. So hes really sensitive too...WHAT SHOULD I DO??

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      Anyonmous 5 years ago

      TO ABBY,

      Honestly i would not want to ask him right yet because that could screw things up before they get started. Yeah i think there is a good chance he likes you, some signs point to yes other to no. But shy boys send mixed signals. Could you give me like..a story of you two? :)