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7 things to attract the right partner by Alexander Thandi Ubani

Updated on April 21, 2015
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Alexander Thandi Ubani is a graduate of Theatre Arts. He is a Poet, Creative/Content/Script writer, blogger and a Social media expert.

7 things to attract the right partner by Alexander Thandi Ubani


Attracting the right partner can prove very difficult for most people sometimes. But, it's feasible if precautionary measures are taken. Most people understand the importance of starting a relationship with the right person. You will not only be avoiding the many headaches people encounter by settling with/for the wrong person but you will have peace of mind and happiness that radiates when you attract and settle with the right person. It is important to note that, a life with the right person will mean so much for anyone in search of a fulfilling and happy life. Find interesting points below to help you achieve your set goal of attracting the right partner.

Show Commitment In All You DO: Focus and commitment is an essential feature for any man/woman. It shows seriousness and gives out a gladdening attitude anybody would love. When you show focus and commitment in all you do, it defines your character and pits you as responsible in the heart of others.

Be Your Happy Self: Always reflect your happy nature. This is important because, showing your real happy self is like a burning light everyone sees. Showing a happy attitude and joviality is an attractive feature everyone loves.

Stay Far from quarrels/Troubles/Fights, Be peaceful: Fights, quarrels and trouble is like faeces littered on the floor that smells like death. Nobody wants to associate with a quarrelsome person. But, we easily get attracted to peaceful and calm people because they have a positive aura. Be positive; be peaceful. Then, you will get the right person.

Show A Sense Of Reasonableness: Sound thinking, good reasoning and sound judgment is a good way to attract the right partner. When someone sees this attitude reflected in you, it goes a long way in upgrading your suitability.

Discover Yourself And Watch It Reflect: Do what you love most and always be yourself. Do not try to be another person which you are not. When you reflect your true self, it will attract the right person.

Work On Your Appearance: Your appearance will tell people the kind of person you are. Good dressing is an attractive perfume no one will frown at. Wear it well.

Portray A Good Image Of Yourself. Say No To Flirting: Avoid flirting! It doesn't only put you in bad light but will earn you a notorious image among your mates which will only make a mockery of you. Be guided and responsible! Set boundaries and make sure you guide your utterances, speech and image well.

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      Alexander Thandi Ubani 

      3 years ago from Lagos

      Well said, Ruby and Frank. Thanks for stopping by.

      I hope people read and learn.

      #smiles.

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      Frank Atanacio 

      3 years ago from Shelton

      you have hit the nail on the head with your 7 things to attract voted up and shared

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      3 years ago from Southern Illinois

      All of your suggestions are ' spot on ' I think being yourself is the most important aspect of any relationship. Great article and written well! Voted up and shared..

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