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7 types of women you should never marry

Updated on August 27, 2011

7 types of women you should never marry

Men, when you are interested in a woman so much and she has clear faults in her character and perhaps her compatibility with you, one question I would like to put across to you is will you fall for the catchphrase ‘love is blind’ and agree to be blinded by her beauty?

Whatever the case it is important to know which kind of woman to go out with and eventually marry and which one you should dump like a sack of waste. Please note this article applies to decent, god fearing men who are ready to get married and not trouble makers and players.

Miss arrogant

This type of woman is always trouble for any decent man. While acting confidently (there is always a fine line between confidence and arrogance) she is nothing more than an overrated ego-centered woman. She more often than not looks down on others especially people she perceives as poorer, less educated or less attractive as herself. Women like this think good things should only come to them and are naturally envious and treacherous. The problem with marrying women like this is that they will not heed good advice, will undermine the husband’s role in the family and may even try to take over as head of the family. Expect quarrels almost everyday as she tries without fail to downplay your role as husband. If however you are in a relationship with one of her type then it’s your choice to marry her however only if you are a man of steel and can crush her the moment she tries to spread her wings.

Miss I before others

This very selfish woman always wants to know how she can profit at other people’s expense. Her loyalty and friendship is with herself only in as much as she acts ‘nice’ to many people. Never willing to make personal sacrifices for anyone, she however expects the same from others. For instance she could be called upon to help cook for a sick friend but will find an excuse to give so as not to do so, when it’s her turn she will expect the same from the same friend she refused to help, it is okay for her to insult or talk bad about others but not so when it is done to her. She could gossip, lick another person’s secret and try to backbite another person but when it is done to her it will be immoral to do so. She expects rules to favour her but not others and will insist that others are subjected to it. The danger in marrying this woman is that she could question your moral choices as a husband or father and could really disgrace you if she has her way.

The Pretentious woman

You cannot really tell if this woman loves you or not since she isn’t really good at being herself. Always trying hard to impress everyone including those that don’t matter, this woman has two sets of behavior and character. One for the public and one for her closest and dearest, most people will be shocked to know her true character and this is not surprising since she always strives to deceive and mislead people about who she really is. If this woman had a moral choice to make between retaining her reputation and leaving you she would prefer the former. You will only know whether she loves you or not after you get married to her by which time it may be too late.

Miss I will spread my legs for any man

There are two of this kind; those that love to have sex and those that are ambitious and selfish. The first kind is looking for sexual gratification and may decide to try their luck with different men to find the right match. The second kind wants favour, especially if you can’t offer her what she wants. She may sleep around for money, expensive gifts or might even sleep with her boss in order to be promoted. It can be really humiliating knowing that all manner of men have crossed her after you get married to her and if you have any children at all you may need to carryout a paternity test to know if they are really yours. This woman is highly unfaithful, cheap and lacks dignity.

The Materialistic woman

The materialistic woman only cares about money and the things it can buy. She may not sleep around to have it but will be careful not to fall for a man who isn’t rich enough for her. Usually these women are very pretty and attractive and are aware of this so they simply have to look their best at all times since they know men will chase them, however they have an idea of what kind of man they need (one who can buy them all the expensive things of life they crave for). Most women who belong to this kind are gold diggers and are usually lazy, not willing to work hard for the level of income they expect will sustain their lifestyle. The characteristic feature about them is they will leave you when the money goes.

The excessively possessive and jealous type

This woman wants you for herself only unfortunately she doesn’t realize that as long as you are a social animal you are bound to encounter different women at work, in the church and even at social functions. You may just be having a harmless conversation with your boss who may be a female and this woman suddenly becomes angry with you. She wants to see every text message you receive, from who and why it was sent. Whenever a female colleague of yours comes calling at your house for an official matter, she might turn her back even when you are home. Even after reassuring her of your love to her she wouldn’t want to believe you won’t cheat on her or runaway someday with another woman. Everyday with her could be a nightmare especially since she could also be stubborn and quarrelsome.

Immature and oversensitive type

This woman can be easily influenced by her friends especially when she is having issues with you. Being naturally immature and too sensitive, she is easy to offend and worries a lot about nothing. She is too quick to take a stand on an issue and will constantly nag and bother you about things that aren’t worth the trouble like coming home late for your anniversary celebration when you may have had an emergency at work and notified her about it. She could accuse you of loving your job more than you love her or even say you wouldn’t mind leaving her for a younger woman if you told her she didn’t look good in an outfit.


These are just some of the unpleasant women out there you may know of others but this 7 are surely not a good man’s choice for a life partner. However some women do change and perhaps they may after getting married change for the better but until then keep your eyes open for suitable substitutes.


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      no gambler 7 years ago

      um looks like you pretty much

      described all women

      now what do we marry

      i've tried very ugly women

      that didn't work lol

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      Anthea Carson 7 years ago from Colorado Springs


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      Sherman 7 years ago

      The truth is, Miss I, who is so self-confident that she frequently comes off as arrogant, masked her inner self well for years. She masks it no more. Considerate? When it will get her what she wants. I kick myself for not seeing this coming--even after her mother said before I married Miss I that Miss I was probably spoiled. Boy, did I miss a red flag!

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      JosephJohnson 7 years ago

      Very good Hub. Although I believe most men spoil things up for themselves by having week inner game, I also believe there are some type of women men should beware of. Very good explanation.