- Gender and Relationships
7 ways to make him propose
Have you been dating the same guy for years and he hasn’t proposed? Are all your friends married and you are still waiting to be proposed to? Are you ready for marriage but he isn’t, here are simply tips to make him ask you the big question
- · Ensure he is the right man; finding out if he is the right man for you is the first step because if you apply all the tips in the world on a wrong man, it wont work, even if it does, and he finally propose, the marriage will not last for a long time. Finding out is easier than you think; ask yourself the following questions, does he respect you? Does he like your family? Does he like kids? Does your inner mind tell you he is the right one for you? What do your family and friends think about him? And many more, and if you think he is the right one for you, then move to the second tips.
· Find out what is delaying him; it might be you and/or your character that is stopping him from proposing, so find out what you might be doing to make him not want to propose and correct it. Find out what the problem is and solve it at once
· Make him feel at home with you; make him feel you are the right one, cook dinner for him some times, wash and iron his clothes sometimes, be his friend and make him feel he can share his life and problems with you, listen to him when he is talking and share your problem with him too. Be his girlfriend and his best friend.
· Stop nagging; the most common problem most ladies have is nagging, and not all men wants to have a nagging wife, so it might be that nagging habit of yours that is stopping him from proposing, so stop nagging, its not easy to stop I know, but if you want to be married, you just have to stop it.
· Introduce him to your family; introducing him to your family and friend will make him feel you value him and that will encourage him to introduce you to his family and friends too, and that is a bold step.
· Be his mom friend; make his mo like you, visit his mom regularly, and behave yourself while visiting because if his mom like you, she will make him marry you
· Give him space; following him around everywhere he goes/being with him every time will not make him marry you, it will only make him get bored and tired of you in no time, so give him space, let him live his life.
· While finding out how to make him marry you, be careful not to force into marriage, because the marriage will not last
· Move out, if you are living with him,because living with him and having sex with him any time he wants will make him feel there is no need to be married since he has all he want
· Good luck