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9 Fantastic Online Dating Description Examples for Christian Men
Are you finding it hard to write a great profile description that will help you to attract women? Well, this piece of news might encourage you—you are not the only guy with this problem.
Many other Christian men find it difficult writing their profile description in a way that women, especially Christian women, will find irresistible.
In this article, I want to give you a few online dating description examples for Christian men to help you get a date on ChristianCupid and other Christian dating sites.
Now, what are those strategies?
1. Show That You Can Be Fun
Many Christian men tend to put themselves down and try to avoid having fun thinking that it is when they give the impression of being, or when they act like, a killjoy that will make them look spiritual. However, our Master Jesus was not a killjoy! He went to weddings, didn’t He? And He attended feasts, did He?
So, feel free to show that you are a fun-loving Christian man who can give the woman who will contact you unforgettable moments she will remember for the rest of her life.
Therefore, you may write something such as, “Hello beautiful and smart woman. I love Jesus with all my heart and I try to live for him. Concerning the work I do, I will tell you that I work with figures, balanced sheets, assets and liabilities and so on. Guess what I do? That’s right! I am an accountant! And a very hard working one as that. I pay my bills, I wear socks that don’t match sometimes—just kidding!
However, that does not mean it’s all work and no play. Of course I don’t want to be like Jack and became a dull guy! My job sometimes sends me around the country and even to other parts of the world. I’ve met some exciting people on my travels and seen beautiful cities and taken part in exciting events. Feel free to send me a message so that I can tell you some of the interesting stories of my trips to Tamale, Cape Coast, London, or New York. Who knows, we may drive together to the scenically beautiful Lake Bosomtwi and have a swim in that spectacular lake. Or, we can enjoy the best khebab you can buy in the whole of the Ashanti Region one of these days at Asonomaso restaurant as we listen to good highlife music from the resident Asonomaso Highlife Band.”
Do not appear too spiritual or else you run the risk of making many women, even born-again Christian women, think that they will just waste their time if they date you. Show that you are a balanced guy who takes his spirituality seriously , but who also knows how to entertain a woman so that you can make women feel that you will be worth dating.
2. Let Them Know The Spiritual Activities You Engage In
Spare some space to let your potential date know that you cherish your Christian values and hold them very dear to your heart. Therefore, you may include something such as, “On Wednesdays after work, I attend church service. You should be there to see me dancing to the glory of God. I have a passion for Evangelism and so spend Saturday dawns doing street Evangelism and internet Evangelism. And at the end of every month, I visit the elderly in my community.”
By doing this, you are more likely to attract women who also share your Christian beliefs and who love Jesus, increasing the likelihood that you may form a cohesive relationship bond with the woman who will be attracted to you.
3. Do Not Be Negative In Your Dating Description
One of the things that the dating process will do for you is to help you know the kind of women you will be comfortable with and the kind of women you will find it hard to live with. Therefore, do not focus too much on what you do not want in a woman or the kind of woman you do not want, but rather on what you want in a woman.
For example, instead of writing, “As I have stated , I am a born-again Christian and so I don’t want a woman who does not have a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ because I can assure you I will not go night-clubbing. And please, if you think having pre-marital sex is okay, don’t even bother to send me a message,” write something such as, “I have a personal relationship with Jesus and I wish everybody else could experience this too. It is such a wonderful experience! My doors are open to all women, especially women who have resolved to dedicate their whole bodies for the glory of the Lord and who think sex should only be done within marriage. However, other women are also welcome to get in touch, provided they will respect my values.” This is a more positive, less judgmental description. It may give you an opportunity to win someone over for the Lord.
4. Do Not Give Away Everything About Yourself
You do not need to outline everything about yourself and your life to attract the right woman. Your online dating description just gives the potential date a preview of the kind of person you are and not the whole picture.
So, just mention the most salient points about your life and interest and leave the women who will read your profile wanting more. By doing this, you will give a woman who wants to get to know you better a reason for sending you a message.
5. Use Lists and Stories
You can use this tool to make certain parts of your dating description stand out so that any woman reading your profile can make it out easily. It will make your profile easier to read which will make it stand out thereby increasing the chances that more women will like to get in touch with you.
For example, use lists to inform potential lovers about your hobbies, your achievements in school or at work, and your favorite things.
Furthermore, tell interesting stories about some of your experiences in your Christian walk and the lessons you learned and how others can relate those stories to their lives to help them live good Christian lives. This will help to make your online dating description compelling enough to make one woman want to get to know you better.
6. Talk About The Way You Relate To Other People
Show how you relate to your close male friends so that you can let the women who read your profile see that you are a sociable guy who likes people, who feels comfortable around people, and who has good human relations skills. If a woman sees that you are a friendly person, she will feel that she will have a better chance to develop a strong romantic relationship with you and that may inspire her to start a friendship with you.
So, you may write something such as, “I spend Saturday evenings with Kofi and Kwabena, two friends I have kept since we met at Primary School. We have had our ups and downs, we fight sometimes, but I always make sure we can settle our differences in order for us to reestablish our friendship. And you will never find me alone in my room when Accra Great Olympics is playing—I feel bored watching soccer alone and so watch their games with my guys at our favorite meeting place in the town hall.”
7. Talk About How You Relate To Women
Give the women who visit your profile an idea about how well you understand women or how well you relate to women. A woman is more likely to desire to contact a man who shows that he respects women and who also shows that he has experiences with women and knows how to handle them.
When you let your readers see that you handle women well, it will tell the women that if they start a relationship with you, you are more likely to understand her. As a result, you are more likely to treat her with tenderness and affection.
So, you may write something such as this, “I am the only guy among three girls. And I can tell you I adore them! Years of observing and relating to my mother and sisters have made me appreciate women a lot. I remember the way my mother and sisters showed compassion when I dislocated my arm when I was a small boy. It touched my heart and I resolved from that day to treat women like queens. I would love to introduce you to my numerous female friends. If you want to be treated as a queen, just send me a message and you will become the queen of my kingdom.” Let them see that relating to women is not a problem for you at all.
8. Show That You Are Warm And Competent
A study conducted by Social Psychologist Susan Fiske suggests that people judge others based on their warmth and competence—people who show warmth and who appear competent are attractive to others.
Therefore, if you can give your readers the sense that you are a friendly guy, women who read your profile are more likely to trust you. When a woman feels you are a guy who can be trusted, she is more likely to want to become your friend.
So, you may write something such as, “Hello, gorgeous women out there! I am Ike, friend to the lonely, the guy you will always see smiling, and who has a handshake for every friend he meets. I never forget to keep in touch with friends. I am the kind of guy you call when you are feeling down—you are assured of words of encouragement to lift your spirits. I hold a Masters degree in Economics from University for Development Studies. I have been working for three years now with Asonomaso Commercial Bank where I am head of loans.” Including your economic or educational status will make women respect and admire you and they are more likely to want to have a relationship with you.
9. Reveal Some Of Your Flaws
Researcher Elliot Aronson conducted a study in which she discovered that people like you more when you show that you are a fallible person who also makes mistakes. When you remind women that you are not perfect, they will feel that they can relate to you better because you will be prepared to be vulnerable at times to make a friendship, or a subsequent relationship, succeed.
Therefore, you may write something such as this to show women that you are far from being an angel, “Lots of my friends have told me that I am impatient. I realize this and so I hope you will bear with me when I get irritated easily. I can assure you that I am still working on my attitude. Who knows, you may be the one to help me overcome my weakness. And I must add that I don’t speak the kind of English that is spoken by Harvard graduates. I dropped out of senior high school. I hope you don’t mind. So, please send me a message and let’s talk.”
These are the online dating description examples for men that I have for you. If you show that you are an interesting guy, exhibit positivity, give away only part of your life story, make you profile easy to read, show that you have great human relations skills, and let others know that you are a friendly guy, you will be able to attract a woman for a relationship.
Additionally, learn about other descriptions for men, how to increase your chances of finding love, as well as some strategies you can use to find a lifelong partner so that you can have the complete experience.
9 Online Dating Description Examples for Men
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