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90+ First Messages You Can Send on Eharmony to Help You Attract a Life Partner

Updated on March 12, 2019
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Messages you may send on eHarmony
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You want to meet your soul-mate, right?

Someone who will love you and make you happy most of the days of your life, right?

Someone who will adore you and admire you, right?

And so you’ve joined eHarmony.

And you’re wondering what kinds of messages can help attract potential mates.

Here are examples of messages that can help do the trick.

Messages For Men

  • If a Miss eHarmony beauty pageant were organized right now, you’d win legs up!
  • Miss eHarmony, my arms are stretched out to you. Fall in them and let me cuddle you!
  • Are you willing to experiment?
  • Do you communicate consciously?
  • I wanna wake up your sleeping feelings today.
  • Let’s start by playing it lightly.
  • Do you let your mind rule your heart when you are dating?
  • Make it happen today or you may regret this missed opportunity for a lifetime.
  • Forget about this potential relationship failing. It will work out. Trust me.
  • I like you just as you are.
  • I will always treat you like the great lady you are.
  • I will give you unimaginable rewards.
  • My dog walked into my room, whistled, and said, “Wow! What a beautiful lady! Wish I was human. I would have married her.”
  • I assure you I will cherish you more than I love myself.
  • You’re easy on my eyes and I hope you will be easy on my heart.
  • Every time I close my eyes I see you and you alone.
  • Every time I leave eharmony you take a part of me with you.
  • I feel so cold and I want you to burn the coldness away with your hotness.
  • Let me give you some sunshine.
  • Let’s create a breeze, a warm breeze together.
  • Come, comely melon, and sit by my higher fire ‘cos I wanna warm your affections.
  • You seem to beam golden rays of sunshine from your golden- looking eyes.
  • It’s a big risk to lay your love on the line, right? But, oh, what joy you will experience when you make you and me happen.
  • Let’s swim together in the lake of love with a cake in our hands.
  • Oh, how the daylight grows much brighter anytime I see you on eharmony.

Messages For Men

  • Hear the wedding bells ringing? I hear them in my ears.
  • I wanna light that fire in you.
  • Let me shatter the over-mastering loneliness you feel inside.
  • Let’s go to the coast together and roast a toast.
  • I wanna rock your world.
  • You take my breath away.
  • We may not be perfect as individual, but don’t you think we are perfect for each other?
  • Do you know you’ve committed lacerny? You’ve stolen my heart.
  • Adorable sweetie, I want to outdoor our relationship to my friends—that’s if you will allow it.
  • Making you happy will be my only happiness.
  • Let’s open a new page together in our lives and together write the most beautiful love story anyone could ever read.
  • You will not have to pretend with me. You can always be yourself around me.
  • I wanna make you the happiest woman in the world.
  • Tenderness, loving-kindness, thoughtfulness, consideration, dedication, fun—that’s what you’ll always get.
  • Have you ever experienced true love before? If not, you will experience it with me.
  • I am all that you need.
  • Can you show me the way into your heart?
  • I will be the best boyfriend in the world.
  • Do you know how special you are? If you don’t, let me show you.
  • Fair fairy, let’s write our own fairy tale?
  • I want your brain and your heart to sing with gladness EVERYDAY.
  • Jewels and riches cannot compare to the value of the affection I will give you.
  • I can assure you of this one thin—you’ll never regret it.
  • My unconditional love is all that you’ll get.
  • I will give you many reasons, more than 10000000 reasons, to enjoy life every day.
  • I will make each day you spend with me taste sweeter than honey mixed with sugar, candies, and ice cream.

Messages For Men

  • Have you ever felt as though you are the only woman on Earth? Well, try me and you will get that feeling.
  • FUN AND LOVE NEVER-ENDING will begin the moment you connect.
  • I wanna create love seasons with you and become your reason for living.

Messages For Women

  • What can I do to feed your ego?
  • Do you always want to be politically correct when you deal with women? Always wanna be gentlemanly? Or you mix it up by being wild sometimes?
  • What is your favorite sports team?
  • Which automobile brand is your favorite?
  • Which is more important to you, making money or giving a woman your time.
  • Let’s establish a king-queen relationship.
  • Have you ever considered that I may be carrying the rib God took from you to create me?
  • I am a love doctor and I want you to be my patient.
  • Mr. Bachelor, I am the most eligible bachelorette for you.
  • I am not a coquette. I am a serious lady and I want a serious relationship which I hope will end in marriage.
  • I can assure you I don’t trifle with the affections of men. I will treat you right.
  • I lay my affections at your feet. Conquer me, take me over and make me over.
  • Let me be your farmette so that I can grow beautiful things in your life.
  • I live in the exquisite mountain of love and I want to take you there.
  • Do you think I ‘m a beautiful maiden?
  • I’m Miss Nymphette and I wanna fete you and be your pet.
  • I cast my vote for you over other men. I think you are awesome.
  • Scared you will hit a brick wall if you come forward? Don’t be scared. I am your usherette and I will usher you straight into my heart.
  • Love Adventurer, treading the love road alone feels boring, right? Let me be the adventuress by your side who helps make the journey enjoyable and fun.
  • I want to occupy the number position in your life—the position of True Friend.
  • Hello, I’m Miss Love Ambassadoress. Love sent me with a message for you. WE BELONG TOGETHER.

Messages For Women

  • I am the love composeress sent to create beautiful music in your life.
  • I am your electress and I elect you to be the president over my heart.
  • Don’t you think such a beautiful empress should have an emperor in her life?
  • Hunter, I’m game for you. Come get me!
  • Are you bold enough to be the hunter or you want me to be a huntress?
  • Love guest, guess what. I wanna be your hostess.
  • I’m Miss Mistress and I want to make you miss stress in your love life.
  • Bang! Bang! Lemme murder the loneliness and boredom in your life for I am an accomplished loneliness and boredom murderess.
  • Prince Incredible, I’m you princess.
  • I’m the stewardess sent to make sure you experience comfort.
  • I can assure you I’ll never be a traitress. I will never betray the affections you will shower on me.
  • Mon homme, my man, come home here on eharmony. Come to me!

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© 2019 Isaac Yaw Asiedu Nunoofio


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    • Papeeebooks profile imageAUTHOR

      Isaac Yaw Asiedu Nunoofio 

      2 years ago from Ghana

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment!

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      Dianna Mendez 

      2 years ago

      Quite interesting and surely helpful for those seeking a good relationship.


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