A Confused Friendship
Love shows in your actions
Relationships and Friendships
Do you think the married man is in love with his lady friend?
The Truth is in the Heart
The attraction between two people that brought them closer and their moments spent together are the most special moments.
He is now married and still is concerned about his lady friend.
His friendship lies in his heart. He knows she will always be special to him and won't tell anyone.
He married for so many other reasons except for true love.
The woman is happily married but also enjoys the company of her friend.
A situation that is already complicated in many ways.
He pleases his wife in buying her all she wants and deep down wishes he could have for his lady friend. Unfortunately that is not possible.
When all four individuals are together he pays attention to his wife with kisses and hugs while the lady friend looks on.
She knows his heart belongs to someone else as her heart belongs to her husband.
The married woman has lost his friendship but sees that this man still cares for her.
Occasionally, she observed his behavior. He paid more attention to her and is friendly.
Do you think he is trying to make the lady friend happy in that way?
Is he trying to please both his wife and the lady friend?
Has he developed feelings for the lady friend?
It is difficult to work out when he often does the same all the time.
His way is to please others and in pleasing both women he cares for in his life that would make everybody happy.
He once kissed the lady friend and hugged her so tightly he showed her then that he cares for her.
He is married and committed to his wife can he be confused in his marriage?
Their marriage is based on materialism and she is happy with him showering her with gifts that are her priority.
Their happiness is about just that and he feels more for his lady friend.
He knew his lady friend at least two years before he had met his wife and is still learning more about his wife.
Do you think he had fallen in love with his lady friend and had not told her about it?
The lady friend knows more about him and his wife is only now coming to know more of him as they are only married for five months.
A relationship between two people that grew as a friendship had developed into something more.
It is normal to fall in and out of love. Whether you are married or not keeping the faith between two people is not always the case as is in this one.
He cares for his lady friend and shows this in the following ways:
When at functions with his wife and in the presence of his lady friend he pays more of his attention toward the friend.
Recently, he put his arms around his wife and his lady friend and had a photography taken in that poise.
He makes sure to say hello to his friend.
Little moments are special to him when he is with her.
They have not spent alone time together always among people.
The acts of the lady friend and the now married man have grown closer and he feels happier when with her.
His time with his wife is mostly about materialistic living. When he is with his lady friend it is more about her life, the simple kind of life.
Do you think he truly loves his wife?
Love binds two people together like glue sticks to a paper but when that glue starts to fade so does love.
In this case, he married someone he barely knows and the lady friend is already married but their friendship over time had developed into something more than just a friendship.
What do you think of this situation?
The lady friend does not share his values and is married.
He found someone with whom to share his values, and his tradition and that is all that mattered to him.
If he truly loved his wife then why does he pay attention so much more to his lady friend?
Is this friendship grown into a confused relationship?
Is he a more forgiving person?
You choose a partner to spend rest of your life with you because you love them and want them to be in a certain way. He chose her because she shares his values.
It is traditional to have an arranged marriage but is he really happy with his wife?
People choose to do things like it had always been done from one generation to the next and he has done exactly that thus far in his tradition.
The relationship with his wife is different not that it is not expected to be different but he prefers to stay by his marriage in a traditional way.
The lack of communication skills allows for the replacement of materialism.
Do arranged marriages last longer than the love marriages?
Marriages can last short or long it is difficult to say how long or short a marriage can last, it all depends on each situation.
In some arranged marriages forgiveness is mostly present. However, this is not valid for many arranged marriages.
In other arranged marriages forgiveness and willingness is not shown to one another.
A barrier is naturally formed and resentment in any marriage and in an arrangement divorce is discouraged.
Forgiveness is automatically seen as a greater effect.
In the love marriage forgiveness is not always the way to go and thus the reason for the hatred and holding onto grudges, and divorce often is the getaway answer.
Also, when you marry you do it for your sake.
The beliefs of two people allow the arranged marriages to last longer. In certain traditions the marriage last longer due to personal beliefs.
If marriages are of deep value arranged marriages are good to stay.
He is caring for both women but loves his wife not his lady friend.
Life for him has changed since marriage and he wants the lady friend to feel happy.
Even though he is married and know that he can no longer can be much of a friend to her.
The friendship will be there but only in his heart.
Expressing himself to the lady friend was in the past as he did in a hug and a kiss.
What was for him now can never be he is now committed in his marriage, and chose to please both women in his own ways.
Whether is it an arranged marriage or a love marriage it can last with pure happiness.
What matters most in a marriage?
In my marriage communication, trust, respect acceptance and love all matters to us.
Our happiness grew from day one and that showed us more values in ourselves.
A true love marriage is forever
When a couple walks by hand in hand and laughs at what their partner has spoken of that to me is a well-bonded marriage.
You are together and working it out truly.
Happiness is very important and no one can give that to you it is normal for you to experience happiness from within not from gifts.
If you depend on materialism in a marriage when the money dries out then what would you have to stay to together?
The true value of a marriage is about special moments spent together.
The fact that you can experience all times through together can hold for you and your good marriage.
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© 2014 Devika Primić