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5 Signs a Gemini Man Loves You

Updated on December 30, 2018
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Shan is a dating niche writer (her hubs with over 1 millions hits overall), holds a masters in HRM and currently working on a law degree

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Discovering the Gemini man

Gemini ruled by the planet Mercury (messenger of the Gods) is also referred to as the child of the zodiac. They are generally charming, playful, witty and are often great communicators. These makes them easily the life of any party.

Their amazing communication skills make most Gemini men real charmers no wonder more than a few women are drawn to them. It is difficult to resist his oozing confidence and gift of gab. This makes a Gemini man a real fun partner and every moment with him quite a wonderful experience if you want someone the opposite of boring


A Gemini man is often characterized by a dual personality which often makes him a walking contradiction. He can be sweet and warm one second then suddenly cranky and moody the next.

He might declare his loyalty to you one day only to run off with the hot gym babe the next day. Even you manage to catch his fancy, he will still wander off in his quest for the next new experience. Don't fret though, as long as he has you in his heart, he will tire and get back to you, so get used to it.

Geminis are also known to move from one interest to the next in their quest for new experiences and adventures. He is known to have a difficult time deciding making him prone to having multiple relationships at the same time. Most of which by the way he may not take seriously.

He is ruled by his intellectual side, hence, emotional expressions are not his forte unless he has prominent water signs in his chart. He can be sweet but do not expect serious declarations of love. Therefore, saying 'I love you's is not one of those things one can expect from a Gemini male. This makes it hard to know whether a Gemini man is in love or simply being his natural flirty self.

Signs a Gemini is in love

For women who are dating a Gemini man, here are a few ways to find out if he is in love with you. It is not an easy task to know what is really in his heart.

1. He prefers to spend more time with you.

A Gemini guy loves freedom and variety. He seldom stays in one place and with the same company for too long. Like a butterfly, he prefers to flit from one group of friends to another.

If he spends time with a particular girl more than usual, she must have something that keeps drawing him back. Perhaps he likes her company too much or he could be in love.

2. He communicates more often than usual.

He love intelligent women and would even go for someone who is not that physically attractive as long as he believes that the other person is mentally stimulating to him. Being a great communicator, think that it is an honor if he zeroes in on a girl because this means that she is interesting to him.

If he loves talking to a girl all the time, that can mean that apart from simply picking her brain, this Gemini has narrowed down his choices and she is on top of the list. Love is therefore not far behind.

3. He checks on you often

If a Gemini were an object, he is a mobile phone. He simply loves talking all the time, he is often always engaged in an animated conversation whether in person or over the phone.

If a girl is on his speed dial and he constantly checks on her every so often, it definitely means he is more than interested.

Catching his eye is one thing, but capturing a Gemini's attention for long is a totally different matter. Consider yourself lucky if one particular Gem guy call or messages you more often than not.

But then again, he could just be being his chatty self and you should not give much meaning to the attention he gives.

4. He can be a little bit possessive

A Gemini normally does not want to be restricted in his movements and he is also not the jealous kind. However, he can be possessive in his own way which can be a sign that he wants you all to himself.

If he asks about who you spend most of your time with or what you do on a regular basis, he is not simply engaging in small talk. Once he gets a little possessive that is a sure sign that you may mean more to him than he would like to admit.

5. He opens up and shows his emotional side.

Since a Gemini is ruled by his intellect, he would rather be caught dead than reveal his emotions. He would rather hide his feelings rather than appear vulnerable to a new person.

If he has no qualms showing his emotional side to you, consider that one foot in the door of this Gemini's heart. Him opening up to you could mean that he likes you enough to let you in and see his vulnerability.

© 2012 Shan Moore


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