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5 Signs a Gemini is in Love
The Gemini often referred to as the child of the zodiac due to their charming and playful personality are often witty and most of them are great communicators. A Gemini male will often disarm any lady with its irresistible charm. These traits make them for a great company and literally the life of a party.
Your Gemini guy can easily chat up anyone with ease and confidence, appearing to know everything that is up and about. He has the gift of gab and can spun magic with his words. Though this may not sit well with women who prefer a loyal and faithful lover, the fun and vibrant Gemini personality can easily charm anyone.
A Gemini man is often characterized by a dual personality which often makes him a walking contradiction. He can be sweet and warm one second then cranky or moody the next.
He is one who declares his loyalty to you once second only to run off with the hot gym babe in a little later. Even if a woman manages to catch his fancy, he would still wander off in the quest for something new.
Geminis are also known to move from one interest to the next in their quest for new experiences and adventures. He is known to be indecisive in every aspect of his life often leading to him maintaining multiple relationships all at the same time.
Most of which by the way he may not take seriously. This same characteristics makes it hard to know whether a Gemini man is in love or simply being his natural flirty self.
He is ruled by his intellectual side, hence, emotional expressions are not his forte. He can be sweet but do not expect serious declarations of love. Therefore, saying 'I love you's is not one of those things one can expect from a Gemini male.
Gemini love signs
For women who are dating a Gemini man, here are a few ways to find out if he has caught cupid's arrow for real.
1. He wants to spend more time with you
A Gemini guy loves freedom and variety. He seldom stays in one place and with the same company for too long. Like a butterfly, he prefers to flit from one group of friends to another.
If he spends time with a particular girl more than usual, she must have something that keeps drawing him back. Perhaps he likes her company too much or he could be in love.
2. He communicates more often than usual.
He love intelligent women and would even go for someone who is not that physically attractive as long as he believes that the other person is mentally stimulating to him. Being a great communicator, think that it is an honor if he zeroes in on a girl because this means that she is interesting to him.
If he loves talking to a girl all the time, that can mean that apart from simply picking her brain, this Gemini has narrowed down his choices and she is on top of the list. Love could be in the next corner.
3. He checks on you more than the usual
If a Gemini were an object, he is a mobile phone. He simply loves talking all the time, he is often always engaged in an animated conversation whether in person or over the phone.
If a girl is on his speed dial and he constantly checks on her every so often, it definitely means he is interested.
Catching his eye is one thing, but capturing a Gemini's attention for long is a totally different matter. Consider yourself lucky if one particular Gem guy call or messages you more often than not.
But then again, he could just be being his chatty self and you should not give much meaning to the attention he gives.
4. He can be a little bit possessive
A Gemini often does not want to be constricted and he would often not be the jealous and possessive type. However, he can be possessive in his own way which is a sign that he might not agree with the idea of the other person spending some time with another guy.
If he asks about who you're with and what you do on a regular basis, he is not simply engaging in small talk. Once he gets a little possessive that is a sure sign that you may mean more to him than he would like to admit.
5. He opens up and shows his emotional side.
Since a Gemini is ruled by his intellect, he would not be caught dead showing his emotional side. He'd rather hide their real feelings because they present a vulnerability he can only risk to show to people he trusts.
If he has no qualms showing his emotional side to you, consider that on foot in the door of this Gems heart. Him opening up to you could mean that he likes you enough to let you in and see his vulnerability.