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A Man Will Cheat On A Perfect Woman

Updated on October 13, 2016

Granted no woman is perfect. Nobody is perfect. But if there was a perfect woman, there would be a regular dude to cheat on that perfect woman. Why would a regular dude cheat on a perfect woman you would ask? Because he can. It doesn't mean that he doesn't worship the ground that this perfect woman walks on. It simply means that even after a perfectly delicious meal you'll always have room for dessert. You will see me use food as a metaphors, because food can be erotic. Food is an addiction just like any other drug. Sex can be an addiction as well and just like any addiction, you can never have enough no matter how good it is.

Why do Men cheat? Because they can and because we won't hold them accountable for what they do. Men will only do what you will allow them to do. Men don't care who they cheat with as long as she's giving it up. So it's not about the woman he's cheating on. It's all about getting sex from somebody who's willing to give it to them. If they're giving it away they have no problem receiving it. Just because he cheats it doesn't mean that he does not love you. It just means that he was willing to get something for free and not think of the consequences. It's sad to look at it like that but it's true. If you think about it when you've been cheated on the man usually cheated with someone that wasn't better looking than you. She didn't have a better job than you. Her body wasn't in any better shape than yours. She didn't cook better than you. She didn't even have her own place. She was just a random. It's because he didn't cheat for looks and all of that other stuff. He cheated because it was there for the taking. Has anybody ever offered you a plate of your favorite food and it didn't matter if you were on a diet or not, you still ate that food. Why? Because it was offered to you. I know somebody may look at this and be like, "Oh you don't know what you're talking about." If you look deeper you will see that it's so ridiculously true. Men simply have bigger appetites than women when it comes to sex, similar to how it is with food. A man can out eat any woman on any day. It doesn't mean that he's greedy or just an overeater, that's just who a man is. So when a man cheats on a woman it doesn't mean that he's not being fulfilled sexually at home, he just has a bigger appetite for more. I have talked to a lot of women who have gone through relationships where they have been cheated on. Beautiful women, women who feel that they have given their men everything he ever asked for, needed and wanted in the bedroom, but he still went out and cheated. You can find the most beautiful woman in the world chances are she's been cheated on before. You can find the most freakiest women in the world chances are she's been cheated on. You can find the most beautiful, freakiest, sexiest woman in the world chances are she's been cheated on a lot. No not all men are like this don't get me wrong. Just the greedy over indulgers, who go out and cheat on their mate simply because they cannot control their cravings. Although this may seem a little weird to even think about it's true and if you think about it, it's just like any other craving that a person may have. There are just some people who can control those urges and some that can't.

I remember getting cheated on and it was the worst thing that I had ever went through at that time. It was horrible. I felt like I was the ugliest woman in the world. I felt like my self-esteem was depleted all at once. I felt as though he never loved me if he cheated on me. I could not believe the audacity of this man to cheat on me and then come home and lay beside me as if he did nothing wrong. And I guess in his mind he didn't do anything wrong. He just went out for an extra serving. After I fed him this fool must have still been hungry. His decision to cheat had nothing to do with me. So you know what I did. I went and got me a man who can control his appetite. Having a man that can control his appetite means having a man who is mature enough to know when he's full.


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      dashingscorpio 16 months ago

      "Granted no woman is perfect. Nobody is perfect" - True!

      "Why do Men cheat? Because they can and because we won't hold them accountable for what they do. Men will only do what you will allow them to do." - Not true! (The only person you can control is yourself!)

      Imagine a "player" scrolling down a list of profiles on a dating site. He sees your photo and reads the following: "No players, no liars, no cheaters!"

      Do you really think he is going to say to himself:

      "All snap! She ain't got no love for the players and the liars!. Oh well I guess I had better move on to the next profile." Seriously!?

      A player or cheater only cares about himself!

      The goal of most cheaters is to hold onto all that is "good" in their primary relationship while addressing their other "needs" on the side. Very few cheaters have a desire to replace one relationship with another.

      I believe there are three basic types of cheaters

      1. The Incessant Cheater

      This is someone who has NEVER been faithful in long term relationship. They get bored very easily and are always in search of the thrill that comes with being with someone "new". For them monogamy is the equivalent of going on a "strict diet". It's not a matter of (if) but (when) they will cheat. Their motto: "Variety is the spice of life!"

      2. The Unbelievable Opportunity Cheater

      This person is not proactively looking to cheat. They may have a secret crush or someone or thinks a certain person is "hot". One day this person actually hits on them or makes it known that he can turn his fantasy into reality. Circumstances might be he's out of town on a business trip or his significant other is out of town which greatly reduces his chances of getting caught. He may also be immature and sitting with friends in a bar who egg him on to "go for it". He caves in to temptation.

      Sometimes this type of cheater will confess weeks, months, or years later in attempt to remove the guilt they've been carrying around.

      3. The Discontented Cheater

      He or she blames YOU! If you hadn't started or stopped such and such they never would have been "ripe for an affair". In essence they claim you stop making them (feel special). You no longer showed an interest in sex, always complained and seldom complemented, took them for granted, stop making time for them, and the list goes on and on.

      It didn't take much for a stranger to put a smile on their face and in their heart. Some flirty banter, a few complements, sexual innuendo, or an empathetic willing listener to how they're treated at home.

      Oddly enough this is the one cheater where many betrayed people are likely to give a second chance. This assumes they believe their behavior contributed to their mate's decision to step outside of the relationship.

      Ultimately cheating rarely has anything to do with one's appearance. Everyone for the most part has been cheated on even models or actresses like Halle Berry or Sandra Bullock.

      Your (mate's value system) will determine whether they cheat or not.