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A Lot Can Change in a Year

Updated on March 27, 2017

It's amazing how for so long you think that someone is perfect for you. You want them for so long. You think that you have a special bond with them. When things go bad you fight for them. You cry over them because you remember when things were once good. You want to be the one they choose. You are miserable without them and so many people tell you to "move on," but you can't because that person is the one you want. Then after months of crying and being miserable suddenly someone wonderful walks into your life. You soon begin to smile and laugh and the tears soon stop.

A couple of months later you are talking about things that you used to talk about that make you happy. You have inside jokes with someone new. Something that you could have never done with this other guy in the past. It then occurred to you what was so great about him? Why did you let him bring you down the way you did?

When that happens ackowledge what happened. If someone keeps pushing you away and comming back they are not for you. You deserve someone who wants you in their life and will stay in your life. Not someone who makes excuses as to why he can't be in a relationship with you.

Don't let it get to you because the truth is everything is going to be okay. A lot can change in a year. You may be crying over one guy now but by next year you could be smiling with someone even better. Everything happened for a reason. There is a reason why the universe removed this person from your life. Do not go chashing him back. He is not worth your time and tears.

There are plenty of guys in the world. Just because one guy didn't appreciate your worth does not mean that there is not another guy out there who will. If a guy feels he is young and wants to play around then let him. Do not wait around until he makes his mind up that your the one for him. You could be waiting a long time and your heart will break watching him hook up with other girls all the time. Not to mention other girls will also be trying to compete with you. You don't need to compete with anyone. You deserve a guy who wants you and only you.

Do you ever look back and realized how much things have changed in a year?

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Go with the flow and release when things do not look like they are going your way. It only means that something better will come along. Nothing lasts forever. When you go through pain it is only temporary. One day when you least expect it the tears will stop and you will begin to smile and laugh again. You will begin to sing and dance and feel great. You will get all your self- esteem back and you now know how you deserve to be treated. You will never let anyone treat you less than you deserve to be treated ever again.

Try not to tell your friends everything. Sometimes people try to help you but they get in your head. Instead of helping you get through something they make you keep focusing in the problem and make you feel that it is your fault it is happening to you. You do not need that kind of negativity in your life. You just need to let go, believe something better will come along and not let this situation get the best of you.

The truth is a lot can happen in a year. One minute you can be crying yourself to sleep all the time and the next you could be smiling and dancing. It is all about the people in your life and how they make you feel. You do not deserve to have anyone toxic in your life. You should be with someone who makes you happy and not makes you cry. He is out there. You just have to believe it and not settle for someone who treats you wrong. If your are patient and have faith the right guy will come into your life when you least expect it.

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