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After 30 years, I found my long lost love.......
If you miss him, find him
After going through one bad marriage and existing in another, I decided one night as my husband lay snoring on the couch to look up my first love of 30 years ago. I signed on to reunions.com and nervously typed in his name. It took me a while to click the enter button but I said to myself "what is the worst that can happen? He can respond and want nothing to do with me or it can go the other way" so I did. I received so many hits to this unusal name but I did not respond to any of them. It just didn't feel right or honestly, I got nervous about it so I cancelled my subscription. About a week later, I received another hit with a picture. Remember, this was 30 years ago but somehow, I knew it was him. So I took the plunge and responded to him. I gave him alittle background of when we dated and loe and behold, he responded back and he remembered me. We started e-mailing each other everyday. He had a girlfriend and I had not yet filed for divorce. We started an online chat almost every night. Then one night he sent me his phone number and the very next day, we talked. It was as if I was a teenager again when I heard his voice. Then we talked every day still talking about our relationships. We live in different states so this wasn't going to be easy I thought to myself. I filed for divorce and three months later, I went to see him and spent a weekend with him. Our previous relationships disolved and things have been better than ever between the two of us. We are now talking about our lives together. I never gave up on him. So girls, if there is someone out there that you miss terribly, please, take the plunge and find him. The internet is a powerful tool and can create wonderful things. Life is too short to wonder.... what if?