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Relationships, Attachment and Questions
Being attached, co-dependant whatever you call it, it's stupid It's absolutely pointless and brings about nothing but heartache.
It's negatives out weigh it's positives by a fair margin.
I enjoy solitude. Probably, quite a lot more than the average person, but I still do like having company.
I can co-exist with pretty much anybody by simply keeping to myself. That's when I'm at my best.
With some people though, I'm just smitten. I can't think of anything but getting to know them.
I can't go five minutes without a thought of them crossing my mind.
I'm a quiet person and don't say much to anybody, but with people as special as they come, I want to spend every second of every day conversing with them. Learning with them.
As fun as it is being interested in someone else, it brings about questions that are hard to answer: 'Am I worthy of her?" and "Is she worthy of me?"
The answer to both those questions are too subjective to be given a definitive answer, but they need to be answered to maintain a functional relationship.
The only thing to do then is to communciate. How hard can that be?