- Gender and Relationships
Being Second Place With a Crush
There is nothing worse than feeling that like you are second place to the guy you really like. No matter what you seem to do you get nowhere. He asks other girls out instead of you and your heart breaks.
When someone is in your heart it is hard for them to leave. They may never leave but just because you care for someone does not mean that you have to let yourself get hurt. You deserve to be with someone who appreciates you and puts you first.
If you keep going out of your way you are going to keep getting hurt. You could try everything but if it is not there than it is not there. You cannot force someone to love you. You could only hope for the best.
If you like a guy but he is not giving you the time of day than take a step back. Ask yourself "Do I want to keep on getting treated like this?" If you really want to find better than you have to forget about him and let in someone great. If you keep on focusing on the wrong guy you will miss out on an amazing guy.
Never let yourself be second best to someone. You deserve way much more. Get your focus off the person who is not giving you a chance and focus on yourself and put your energy towards the person who will give you a chance.
Another thing to do is love yourself. Know how awesome you are and you don't need a guy to make you feel lovable or special. You have to love yourself because if you do not love you, you cannot expect anyone else to.