- Gender and Relationships
Being single is okay
Society is always putting pressure on girls to be in relationships. If you are 24 and single you feel like there is something wrong with you. People and family may ask you "why are you single?" It could be annoying but at the same time there is nothing wrong with being single.
1) You have your freedom. You could stay out all hours of the night and not have to explain to anyone where you've been.
2) You don't have to worry about someone cheating or abusing you. Not all relationships are great. Some people get into the wrong relationships for the wrong reasons.
3) You could flirt and date whoever you want. Flirting can be a lot of fun. You could flirt without feeling guilty.
4) You don't have to miss out on other guys. If you are with someone and another guy asks you out you have to say "I have a boyfriend." If your single you don't have to worry about that.
If your single today, don't let it get to you. The right guy is out there. Some people ask you why your single because they have nothing better to do. Maybe being in a relationship came easy to them. Always know that it is better to be single than to be with the wrong person. Never settle, just go out there and have fun. There is a right person out there for anybody. Don't listen to people who make you feel insecure. Being in a relationship can be great but it won't cure your insecurities. If you are with someone to feel good about yourself than you don't love that other person. As the saying goes "In order to find love first you have to love you." So have confidence, be around people who make you feel good, have fun and at the right time you will find that special someone.