- Gender and Relationships
Bella Cheated On Edward-- How People Ruin Their Lives With A Fling
What? I still don't know why he fell for HER!
Why Do People Choose To Throw Their Lives Away In The Heat Of The Moment?
This is an open letter to Kristen Stewart, and any other betrayers who have flings outside of relationships in the heat of the moment. Look, I get it. I'm hormonal too. Shoot, I'm 40 and inundated with testosterone. If anyone should be letting go of their inhibitions, it should be me. Even without the wine.
But here's the deal.
I was 22 when I got married and became a mother. I never cheated, or even had salacious thoughts of straying, even in my 15 years of marriage. I believe Kristen Stewart is 22. What is your problem? I saw your BF. He's HOT. My ex was a complete joke next to Robert Pattinson (a.k.a. "Edward"). And you know what? I was Happy! I had no moment of "indiscretion." What is that, anyway? Did you become blind and your cheating partner sounded exactly like Robert?
I'm Not Buying It.
I think I speak for millions of fans (and decent women out there) when I say you messed up a perfectly good thing with a great man. I don't know Robert Pattinson personally (lucky you), but reading that he would "never cheat," I got angry.
You see, I was cheated on. I know how it feels to be sick to your stomach when you realize that the one you love is slapping skin with someone else while you believe he or she is "working late." [or whatever excuse a cheater uses]. I don't wish that ill feeling on anyone.
Meanwhile, I have the utmost respect for your Brit beau. Time and time again I've wished for my life path to cross with a man who could respect me, love me, cherish me, the way Robert did for you. You blew it. Irony. I hope he finds the kind of woman who will appreciate all that he is (as I wish that for myself-- in a man, of course).
You, Kristen, have no idea what emotional footprints you leave in this world. Really? A married man with kids? I'm a single mother raising three of my own.
One day, hopefully (unless you're a narcissist), you will wake up and realize all the hurt you've caused by your choices. It's not just about YOU or HIM, but everyone else related to the triangle of deceit. Way to go for a 22-year-old.