Break Up With Your Ex
You literally just broke up....
The main issue that we ALL run into after ending a relationship is actually ending the relationship. What does it take to completely end a relationship?
- No communication
- Get rid of all pictures
- Delete their number
- Delete them off social media
- STOP TALKING ABOUT THEM
Are these all realistic? Absolutely not. Even I struggle with deleting them off social media, how else will i creep on their new girlfriends?
Why do we stick around?
By not cutting them completely out of our lives..... we will run into some issues.
- You will run to them when you're lonely
- You will get jealous
- MOST IMPORTANTLY, you will probably continue to have that emotionally attachment
The problem with everything in that list, is that we are just continuing to hurt ourselves even more. We end up reliving the break up over and over again.
So why do most of us put ourselves through this? Because we are afraid of change, being lonely, or we just don't want to accept it.
Just let go...
It is time to accept it. Move on. Be strong, you are strong. There is something better out there, and by lingering on your ex.... you're missing out on that. No one wants to the date girl/guy that is still hanging around or talking to their ex on a regular basis.
I'm not saying that you can't ever be friends with an ex, I usually ending up being cordial with my ex's. But until you have moved on... you really should delay the whole 'friend' thing.
Break up with your ex!