- Gender and Relationships
CHEATING (Misguided Love)
"All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players: They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts"
A woman would find life less broken apart after a misguided love affair, if she could feel that she had been sinful, rather play the fool.
We all fall victim to cheating spouses, lovers, etc.. Some more than others; but the one thing that is for sure, a misguided love affair will leave you scarred. The one you loved betrayed your trust and all the love you gave. They cheated on you with someone they barely knew; but, let me ask you this, How well did you know them.? We spend time in relationships getting to know one another or so we think, letting that person get to know you and them letting you know what that they deem appropriate for the time being. The person whom is cheated upon, put alot of love and effort in the relationship when the cheater could care less.
Cheaters are selfish individuals, whom, only thinks about the notches in their belts or bedposts; especially men, who for some reason, sees it as a game. If caught, the last thing they want to do is sit and talk about it. Their cowardly ways, are to blame you and leave. We all make mistakes and some men realize they were actually wrong. They make the efforts to fix the pain they have caused their significant other; but does these efforts, make it right? Does this make the relationship salvageable? This depends on the level of hurt which was caused. He or she says they will never hurt you again; because they was just out of their minds. (?) They feel foolish for letting you down, so the question is....Why Would You Stay.?
They will beg for your forgiveness, but, is it because they were caught or is it, they truly realize just how much you love them? My favorite part of the begging process is when they say: Lord, be my witness, I never meant to treat you this way. So my question to them is....would you be doing this had you never gotten caught? NO!! Many of women have made it down the aisle because they left their man, once he was found to be a cheater. So many mistakes and not enough tomorrows. Why, would a woman, marry a man, that has been found unworthy of her love? He's going to do it again. You deserve a better man and he's not it. Same thing applies to the cheating women as well! Cut your losses, know you deserve better and never look back.
Women have been brainwashed to believe that since there are more women than men that it is "expected" that a man is gonna cheat....BULLSHIT!!! NO WOMAN is immune to being a sideline ho! Almost all women have dated someone that already had a "Boo" or was dating someone else; better yet, married. MEN and WOMEN LIE all the time about whether their single or not! Men always say they are single until they get married whether they have a girl or not,,,you gotta investigate a person B4 u open urself up to em....be smart!
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