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Can Marriage be saved by one spouse

Updated on October 3, 2015

The truth is, you are in a better position to be your wife's husband than anyone on earth. You are married to her and you are the father of her child. The reason she wants a divorce is that the disadvantages have far outweighed the advantages for so long that she has made this very painful decision for her it is painful! But it is even more painful for her to remain married to you.

.What causes the problems in marriage?

Peaceful and loving couple will have a healthier and happier life, but when everything changes unexpectedly or one of the partners is having an affair out of the marriage, the marriage will try to come to an end. Normally both partners will have to make a big contribution to maintain the peace within the marriage. You have to be a better person to achieve that situation in the marriage but will it be possible without the cooperation of the other partner. There are several ways that you can use to make yourself a better, understanding and reliable person in your marriage.

In any marriage, there is bound to be problems, but it should be kept under control at least by one partner who understands the mindset of the other partner. They could go for marriage counseling, either together or separately to understand the difficult issues behind their marriage and then find ways of resolving it. If you are an intellectual person who understands, that married life sometimes could be tough and you have to have enough patience to deal with the problem carefully and tactfully. But, that doesn’t mean that you have to run away from the marriage without facing it and resolving the problems around it. Having said all these mostly woman faces the controlling attitude of the man, which includes, not allowing to talk to friends, control over spending money and many more. If this type of behavior continues the woman will become lonely and depressed, she will be looking for ways to leave the man and take possible action to get a divorce.

How to resolve the issues.

As a man, he has to show her the love and care, and has to be trustworthy to restore the good relationship. The man has to go a long way to prove it to her to earn the lost trust. Better relationship also could be restored after a conflict, by developing the respect and love between them, taking care of each other, which will lead to restore the lost love in their marriage which is an important factor to have a happy married life. If the couple has a child, the woman will have the best interest at heart for the baby and the man has to get involved in taking care of the child like the mother. If not, the mother cannot handle everything on her own and will want to leave the husband looking elsewhere for comfort and help.

The woman will have a lifelong link to the child in her heart, and the man should accept it and accommodate the fact that he is also responsible for the child’s welfare. The woman will be withdrawn as her difficulties are not being accepted and recognized by the man, and he has take the situation on board and be helpful to the woman and be a good friend to her particularly in times of her difficulties. It is purely the man’s responsibility to bring the family to close together but the woman will certainly accept his change of attitude then will come forward to save the marriage.


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    • dashingscorpio profile image


      3 years ago

      Can Marriage be saved by one spouse? No, I don't think so.

      It only takes one person to move out to end a marriage.

      This is especially true if your mate has "fallen out of love" with you.

      By the time someone vocally mentions the word "divorce" it's usually after they have (contemplated it for many weeks or months).

      They've already figured out what their living arrangements might be. And in some instances may have already begun dating someone else.

      Couples therapy is oftentimes simply a box to be checked off on the way to divorce court. It allows them to say: "We tried therapy" to their friends and family but couldn't make things work. It's out of obligation.

      If you or your mate has to "change" your (core being) in order to make the marriage work there is a good chance you choose the wrong mate.

      When it's all said a done a divorce is nothing more than a public admission that someone made a mistake in the mate selection process.

      There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them as (is) or move on. The choice is up to us!


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