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"Can My Wife Love Me Again" - Why Its Not Impossible to Win Your Wife Back

Updated on August 30, 2013

"Can My Wife Love Me Again"

No need to worry if you're asking yourself about the possibility of your wife falling back into love with you again. There are lots of guys who are in your situation and they're probably asking the same question - "can my wife love me again?"

The first thing you have to realize is that it is possible for your wife to love you again no matter the cause and no matter who was at fault.

If your wife loved you at one time then she can love you again. So look on the bright side of things because you will need a positive mindset in order to work things out.

The next thing you need to do is to look at the possible reasons your wife drifted away from you in the first place.

Maybe you cheated on her. Or you made her feel unappreciated. Took her for granted. Cheated her with disrespect. Whatever the reason, you'll have to find an objective way of working this out with your wife.

I guess if you're asking yourself if your wife can love you again then you want to do everything possible to get her back. Ask yourself another question. Are you prepared to make the necessary changes to win her love back?

The thought of losing your loved one is frightening, especially if you've shared many years together. Hopefully these insights will help you reach your goal of winning back your wife's love and putting your family back together. And no matter what your situation, it's never too late to start over with a brand new slate.

Crazy In Love?

Still think its impossible for your wife to love you again?

Below is a short news clip about the true story of the jealous and abusive Burt and his wife Linda Pugach. Imagine a guy who hired a man to throw acid in his lovers face, did jail time and she still took him back after 16 years and married him!

I wouldn't advise any woman to stay with someone that abusive but this is just a testament to what is possible when you're crazy in love with someone.

If Linda Went Back...

The Magic of Making Up has helped over 50,000 people in 77 countries resolve their relationship problems and can help stop your divorce, break up or lovers rejection even if it seems impossible.

Seven Effective Suggestions for Saving a Marriage

Nearly 60% of all marriages end up falling apart. Lots of couples try to evade being a part of these statistics. Some marriages cannot be fixed, but some can. In order to save a marriage a couple must be determined as well as committed irrespective of who was at fault or for whatever reason.

Allow me to share seven effective tips to help save your marriage. For these to work, however, both parties need to be focused on following the 7 tips and work together to resolve their differences

1. Remain calm. It is usually not hard to become upset when you are having marital issues. It doesn't help the situation to be disrespectful to your wife. See if you could keep your cool as much as possible and deal with the situation with a level head and calm voice.

2. Communicate. This is absolutely essential in making a marriage work and last. You both need to openly state your feelings, your beliefs, your wants and needs to each other. By discovering what each of you feel is wrong in your marriage, you'll be able to work towards a solution.

3. Established goals. Goals give you direction. Make sure to set goals in your marriage that reflect both of your views and determine what you both need to do to get there.

4. Compromise. It takes two in a marriage, so both of your views need to be respected. If you give a little bit, you may get a whole lot and be happier.

5. Forgive and forget. Depending on your situation, this can be difficult, particularly in the event that your wife was with another man. If you would like to save your marriage in spite of her infidelity, you should try to forgive her in order to work together to preserve your marriage. Forgetting about what they did definitely isn't easy either. If you want to move on, it is essential that you are not dwelling on the past. Focus on the present and what you both can do today to improve your marriage.

6. Have patience. It takes time to work on problems in a marriage. Make certain that you are patient with your wife as well as with yourself as you work towards fixing problems. Hastening to fix things can have a negative effect.

Regain control of your relationship with The Magic of Making Up

7. Get counseling. When all fails, see if you can get counseling. A good counselor can help you with guidance, support, encouragement and give you unbiased views that can give you insight on how to work out the problems facing your marriage. They can help you find the right solutions and methods based on what is best for you as a couple for the problems you are experiencing.

It is very important that you both agree to counseling and plan to take an active role in your sessions for counseling to be an effective tool for help in your marriage. When choosing a counselor, ensure that they are licensed professionals and that you feel at ease working with them.

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      MONICA 

      3 years ago

      After being in relationship with him for 7 years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by reffering him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster He also help me to win lottery, his email: drehijelespellhome1@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS:drehijelespellhome1@gmail.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEM

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      Lola Pratiwi 

      3 years ago

      Hi my name is Lola Pratiwi am from Australia with this tears joy and happiness in my heart i want to say thanks to this great man Prophet Lord of dr.rivershebalist@gmail.com for what him has done for me , This is my story i was 24 years old when i married my husband and we were both living together happily no fighting . but i was not comfortable with this married because after 4 years of our married i have not be able to give my husband a child doctors reveal we are capable of bearing children but we have no child to call our child so i was worry thinking of what to do so i can be able to give birth. inside all my thinking for a solution for my problems my husbands families came and they accuse me for been a barring women so i have to leave their son alone so i was been push out of my husband house so i went crying looking for a solution to my problems because i love my husband very much and don’t want to loose to another woman so all my mind think is him so i cry all nite to get back with him . one Friday evening when browsing i came across a testimony shared by miss Sharon July how this Prophet Lord helped her solved a similar problems so i decided to contact this man about my own problems and to my best surprise he also help me out and to day am happy not only because am with the man i loved but still because of i now have a child of my own .so for all this help from you Prophet Lord of dr.rivershebalist@gmail.com i want to say thank you once again so friends if you know you are into such or any kind of problem contact this man and i guess he will also help you out good bye

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      Greg 

      8 years ago

      Ok I'll try my best because I love my ffamily.

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