- Gender and Relationships
Cheating Men and Cheating Women
Most Couples Cheat
Most women cheat equally to men
You were shocked and what you felt was most difficult to explain when you found out your partner was cheating on you.
His excuse for the hickey:
He had no idea what had happened because he fell asleep from the alcohol.
After all that you still care for him and don't want your family to break up, and you stay together.
Would you regret staying years later?
Sometimes a woman tries everything to keep a marriage together, but there comes a time when they have had just enough.
It is time to leave that guy.
Betrayal is like a deep cut, it hurts the most, and the pain doesn't go away very easily, especially in the following case:
A woman found out her husband was cheating on her with two women.
This happened to be on the evening of their tenth wedding anniversary.
A wonderful gift indeed!
She noticed her husband sending a message from his mobile phone, and what a sly being during their dinner he was at it.
When she later looked into his phone there were explicit pictures and explicit texts.
The woman remained calm that night, and approached her husband the following day.
He begged for forgiveness, and that he would change and start all over again.
Shamefully, she gave him a second chance but he did cheat again, this time she moved out.
All the time she put herself last, and wanted to make everything right, and each time she tried he betrayed her over and over again.
Life for her was different, and she moved on to her way of life in putting herself first, and thinking for herself. Just like she should have right from day one.
A few years ago a woman caught her husband cheating on her.
She knew something was wrong, and when she confronted him the only words he could say, ''Stop thinking like that.''
Without trust you have anything in a relationship.
He went out with some friends and played a bit of snooker, he got home very late that night.
While he was asleep she hunted for his cell phone and saw a message, ''Sorry babe, you can come back again, the police are no longer here.''
After giving him her best years of her life and that is what she got back in return.
He cheated on her and had the courage to explain his affair. They are still together.
How would you approach your cheating partner?
A long distance relationship that went on for over three years, and after speaking to her boyfriend she realized his conversations are happier.
He had a friendship with another female.
The problem here you feel threatened by another female that is physically next to him.
Another issue with every other girl.
He stood his ground and didn't respond to their advances. However, with this one girl, he didn't stand his ground, and she preferred to have him as more than just friends.
Someone you knew!
Would you be crushed if you saw an email from him to her with the words, '' I love you?''
You gave him three years of your life, and he betrayed your trust.
I wouldn't focus on him he is not worth my time.
There is absolutely no purpose for the empty promises.
Your partner was cheating on you, and off-course you never thought it would happen to you.
An affair which went even further, with another man with whom he has been friends with for a while.
It can be extremely hard to understand when such things happen to you.
A friend making your life miserable, and yet you never saw anything strange from the beginning.
With poor communication and understanding things got out of hand.
He didn't talk about anything to her, about his doubts, and about his differences.
Healing from this is hard, closure is needed but even that is far fetched.
How do you find closure if your husband had an affair with another man?
A woman can feel shocked, or numbed from finding out about her husband having an affair, and sometimes withdrawn from it all.
So you find out your husband is having an affair, and after confronting him about it, he becomes very sick and requires heart surgery. During which time you feel bad for what had happened to him.
Would you forgive him while in a hospital bed, very ill after heart surgery?
It is hard to trust someone after an affair, and if they often tell you, ''I love you.''
What does ''I love you'' mean to them and you?
Affairs start online and off line, and in many relationships
If you are married for many years or in short relationships, sometimes you can't control how you feel about these situations and fall apart in the process.
One can become lost, and in many cases, the marriage has to be saved for the sake of the child.
A problem can't be solved if it is from the same kind of mind which formed it.
A woman cheated on her husband before marriage, and once a cheater always a cheater.
She lived in miserable life for a couple of years. He found out after their over twenty years of marriage, that she had an affair before their marriage.
He saw the affair as cheating on him even though they were not married at that time.
Do you think there is hope for this couple?
Whenever, there is a subject on cheating, he gives her the cold stare, and would not sleep for days, Eventually he would make up for the awkward experienced moments.
Most individuals don't admit their faults, and it takes a great person to admit their faults openly.
Would you trust him or her again if they cheated on you with your good friend?
Is it tougher on a man or woman if they are cheated on?
How can you commit to the other if you have been cheated on?
A man who cheats on his wife doesn't respect himself or a woman.
Most men want respect from another man, but see most women as objects. They would get what they desperately need, their pleasure and what satisfies most men the most.
Both husband and wife cheated on each other for many years.
After talking about their cheating behavior he still feels it is right to be in contact and to be friends with those types of women.
A couple that found it hard to trust each other again, and the wife doesn't think it is a good idea for her husband to still be friends with those women.
How would you cope with the problem of cheating?
Imagine your husband cheating on you after marriage, with someone from his past, but you forgave him. Later you find out that he wanted her and had decided to leave you.
After spending time with that girl, he finally saw that the grass is no longer greener on the other side. Instead, he wanted his marriage back.
Would you take him back, and still love, and trust him all over again?
Men cheat on their wives when they feel they can get a woman to do anything in the bedroom, they decide to pick up Prostitutes.
Would you stay with him and work things out?
Such situations can be difficult as love finds you no matter where, or what kind of person you are. There is no way to avoid love.
Remember to be the confident person, man or woman, and get out of a cheating relationship or a marriage.
Cheating has increased over the years and more woman are being caught out just as men.
Apart from the mentioned stories above, men and women cheat equally.
The longer you stay with a cheating partner in a marriage, or relationship, the cheating will not stop.
Have you cheated on your partner at any time in your Relationship?
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