FAMILY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP: Common Mistakes Of Women In A Relationship
How to make him miss you?
Men don't seem to get that picking up the phone every day means everything to the woman he loves. No matter how many times he is told this is so, it's like he doesn't believe it.
There is a simple reason for this.
The reality is that men and women view talking on the phone completely differently. Unless you are aware of this, you won't be able to do anything to change what is going on. I have read some stories - the good, the bad and the ugly. I know that there are some basic truths about calling. It is important for women to understand what they are in order for a relationship to succeed. I bet you have your own story about the "guy who got it," and was attentive and called as well as story about the "guy who was thick as a post" and acted like the phone didn't even exist. It is not that you are doing anything wrong, but that there are things you could learn to do that are more right.
Here are two basic truths about calling:
Truth #1 - For men, the phone is something to use for information only - who, what, why, where and when.
Truth #2 - For women, the phone is another means to form and strengthen emotional connections. Right there you have the central of the problem. Women want to talk in order to feel connected. A man sees it that is useful for scheduling only.
Here are the most common mistakes I have seen women make that just kill a relationship:
Mistake #1 - They nag the guy to call and share on demand. Calling and connecting are not in a guy's mind. The more you demand or try to force him to do it, the more he is going to show displeasure in you and see you as controlling.
Mistake #2 - Women let the guy NOT call. Respect yourself and control your emotion. Being too accommodating is not the way to go either because you are totally sacrificing something that is important to you and you will begin to resent him.
Get him call you more!