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Couples and Mud Wrestling
mud wrestle with each other?
Is it a good idea for couples to
A local radio station, here in Seattle, has Therapy Thursdays where they choose a listener's problem/question for other listeners to call in and give their advice about.
I was intrigued by a question from a woman whose husband is building a mud wrestling pit in their basement. He told her it would help them both get some exercise in, as well as being a bonding experience for their relationship. The wife wanted to know if this was just “too kinky” or not?
The callers were fairly divided on their responses. A lot of female callers said she should go for it, but many of them admitted they wouldn’t do it themselves.
So, is couple mud wrestling a good idea?
Sure it is! As long as you don’t mind getting dirty, go for it. It really can be a fun, bonding experience as long as both people involved truly want to do it. Some people might feel uncomfortable doing this in a group situation, but how about doing it privately? Imagine wrestling, playfully, with your partner in the mud. The two of you will be having fun together, making each other laugh, burning calories, and your happy endorphins will kick in because you raise your heart rate. What do you gain from mud wrestling with your partner? You smile, laugh, have fun, exercise, and feel great—you will gain these memories and feelings, and since you are doing it with your partner, he or she will also be tied into those feelings of happiness.
After a few rounds of mud wrestling, you can continue the bonding experience by taking a shower together. Washing the mud off of each other will create a sensual experience that can bring you both closer together.
When is it a bad idea to participate in couple’s mud wrestling?
You shouldn’t do something you truly don’t feel comfortable doing. If you have serious issues about doing this with your partner, don’t feel like you have to do it. Forcing yourself to do something you are not comfortable with could damage your relationship, and you might begin to connect your partner with your negative feelings you have with this activity.
Fun Mud Wrestling Vidoe
If mud wrestling is something you are comfortable with, enjoy it and have fun. Who knows? Maybe you will end up attending a mud wrestling party…or, even hosting one.
Plus, think about how great your skin will feel after all of that mud!