ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

DETECTING SIGNS OF ATTRACTION IN OPPOSITE SEX: HOW TO KNOW IF A PERSON IS INTO YOU.

Updated on June 9, 2010

Detecting signs of attraction in opposite sex

Have you asked yourself if you have the ability to detect when someone is into you through his/her body language? Do you? How would you know if a person is giving you a sign of attraction through his/her body language? Can you interpret these signs?

If you can, well, good for you. But if you can’t, then you may have been missing a lot of people you might have had a great relationship with all because you couldn’t identify the signs they were showing to you.

Then the question becomes “How can one identify and detect signs of attraction through body language?” Well, the most peculiar way to notice the opposite sex’s attraction towards you is to acquire some knowledge about their body language. But you must understand, human beings are dynamic and therefore not every body language is applicable to everyone. It can change from person to person.

So you have to be smart to identify and understand which particular gesture is being showcased to you. Also you must understand that not every of these signs mean a sign of attraction. I mean, a married woman or man may show you these exact signs but still may not have interest in you. Such signs could be staring at you directly with a very radiant smile. These kinds of signs (gestures) could be misleading.

As we know from general understanding and experience, men have always had a very difficult time reading a woman’s mind and gestures.

Traditionally, man should do the first move when they are attracted to a woman, but it’s only fair to men that women should give them some signs to signify a “green light” and make things easier for them.

As in the case of women, they don’t need to read a man’s mind. Not in the way men read theirs. A man can approach a woman anytime he wants as long as he can detect the woman is attracted to him.

HOW TO DETECT THE SIGNS OF A WOMAN.

Well, knowing women’s gestures has been a great deal for men. But the most obvious signs of a woman can be seen through her eyes. What do I mean?

When you are together with a woman and the woman’s eyes are so wide open while talking, noticing every move you make, it could mean a major sign of attraction. If both of you are strangers to each to other and the woman keeps looking at your direction that her eyes are so reluctant to leave your direction, it shows to some extent that she’s interested in you.

In addition, when the woman is with her friends or with some business associate and she is laughing and making some jokes but constantly looking at your direction. It really shows a strong sign of attraction. The woman is absolutely into you when you see these signs. But you have to be very careful because knowing women’s feelings and thoughts at any situation is very decisive.

HOW ABOUT A MAN’S CASE?

Women could ask- How do we know the signs of men? How can we tell when a man is interested in us? Well, a man doesn’t show and do a lot of gestures. Just being himself is enough to show his attraction. Having so much confidence to show what he feels is a powerful way to get a woman’s attention. But women, you should not underestimate or neglect the power of the eyes. If a man is constantly staring at you while sipping his coffee, beer, or just chatting with friends, then somehow he could be interested in you. A man could also show a woman some signs of attraction by simple gestures like pulling back her hair which is hanging in her face or just holding her elbow when she moves in another direction like he is guiding her to the right direction. Men can also use these gestures to know if a woman is interested in them. When a man does these gestures, he could easily notice the reactions of the woman and tell if she is interested in him. If she didn’t object to these gestures and that in fact she feels comfortable with them, it could mean a major sign of interest in the man.

If you are highly skilled in reading the signs of the opposite sex’s feelings and gestures, you are ascertained of what they are thinking and feeling at any instance. Whether it is your first time of meeting or just dating for quite sometime or even when you are already in a relationship. It is not hard to notice signs of attraction. All you got to do is be yourself and be very observant.

Do not underestimate the power of the eyes and learn to be very decisive. Women and men could show some signs which are not spelt out in this article but could be/mean a sign of attraction. But in general, your ability to detect signs of attraction depends on the condition/circumstance and also in your ability to be smart and learn to decipher meanings from the things around you.

Do not underestimate the power of a radiant smile and the looks of the eye. These could give you a major head start in deciding if a person is into you.

Your ability to decipher meanings from circumstances should in fact be your greatest asset when it comes to detecting signs of attraction. What do I mean?

Some women are shy to the core. They can’t really look a person in the eye when speaking to him especially if they find the person attractive. If you encounter such a woman and with the little conversation you’ve had with her, you discovered that she couldn’t even look you in the eye when talking with you; it could mean to a great length that she finds you attractive. Also some women become over polite. When they see someone they like, they tend to be excessively polite. Not that they are not naturally polite but their politeness increases to a great length that it may sometimes become irritating. They tend to over laugh at your jokes and over giggle when they talk to you. Other women just can’t be themselves when they are with someone they find attractive. You may be some length away from them, but you would still hear their heart beat racing at miles per hour. They tend to crash with and break everything around them in shear absent mindedness. When you are with women and these signs begin to manifest, then you may decipher to some extent that they find you attractive and that in fact they like you.

So you see, apart from taking advantage of every opportunity that presents itself and being able to understand the power of a radiant smile and the looks of the eye, you must also have the ability to understand a situation and decipher meanings and implications from the situation.

If you employ and bear in mind these tips, trust me you will never miss a lady or man with whom you will have a very romantic relationship in the future.

But you must bear in mind, human beings are dynamic. Not every of these actions/ gestures signify a sign of attraction.

Looking forward to your success story.

Ciao!!!


Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • profile image

      HELEN TERRY 

      8 years ago

      HOW WILL U KNOW THE REAL GUY. U KNO SOME COULD BE DECISIVE. U THINK U GUYS LOVE EACH OTHER,THE NEXT THING,THE GUY IS GONE.SOME OF THEM DATE GALS IN ORDER TO HAVE SEX AND AFTER THAT,THEY LEAVE YOU TO YOUR FATE. PLS TEL ME HOW TO KNO THE REAL GUY.I VE HAD HEARTBREAK AND I DON'T WANT TO ENCOUNTER THAT AGAIN BECAUSE I DON'T WANNA MAKE MISTAKES AGAIN. MY EMAIL IS Akeelah81@ovi.com OR Dobbyzapzatb2k@yahoo.com. My mobile number is +2347033415507. Tnx!

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)