DATING 101: Fun date activities for couples on a budget
We're deviating a bit from the usual topics of my hubs but I think this is something that is worth writing a hub about. Most kids these days engage in dating without really knowing what it is really about. Let us first define what dating is just to make sure that we are on the same page.
Definition of Dating
Dating is when members of the opposite, or sometimes, same sex, agree to go out and do something together in pursuit of closer ties and better understanding of each other. It is the phase when the couple can talk about their hobbies and interests or do activities that they both enjoy.
Kinds of dates couples can go on
These days, it is pretty common for couples, even the really young ones to go out. Listed below are the kinds of dates that couples can go on.
- group dating - kids these days often use the term "hanging out" to refer to group dates. This happens when a couple goes out with a bunch of other people in order to get to know each other without the awkwardness of a first date. This way, the interested parties can observe and converse with each other while still gauging and assessing each other whether they are "boyfriend/girlfriend material".
- friendly/casual dating - this is when friends go out together casually to talk and catch up. Usually, there is no romantic intent when going out on this kind of date. Typical destinations involve coffee shops and cafes or quaint little restaurants. The purpose is to enjoy and there are no expectations between the two people involved. They can freely date other people as there is no type of commitment in this kind of date.
What to do on your date
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- blind dating - aptly called, blind dates are usually arranged for people who do not know each other and are set up by people they both know. Concerned people believe that due to maybe some of their hobbies and interests, the two of them might get along well and maybe even have an exclusive, romantic relationship in the future.
- speed dating - there is usually a third party here who organizes the event. In this kind of dating, people are given 10-15 minutes with other interested parties in order to assess whether it's a GO or a NO. If a couple hits it off, they can arrange for another date in the future by getting each others' contact details.
- exclusive/romantic dating - this is also often called going steady. During this phase, a couple officially declares that they will not be going out with people other than their partners. A friend of mine once said that lunches are for friends and dinners are for lovers and I think there's a little bit of truth in that, that's why most couples who are exclusively dating choose to go out at night.
Things to consider when planning a date
For couples who are exclusively dating, it is imperative to know what your partner is into to plan the date perfectly. Ask yourselves some questions to help you decide where to go, what to do, and how much to spend.
- Is s/he outdoorsy or adventurous?
- Is s/he a foodie or coffee person?
- Is s/he into sports or books?
- Is s/he into music or arts?
- Is s/he laid back?
- Is s/he stressed with work?
- Is s/he a homebody?
- Is s/he romantic by nature?
These are just some of the questions you can ask yourselves then from there, plan your date with your special someone.
What kind of date would you most likely take your partner on?
Fun (and sometimes Free) Date Ideas for Couples
When you're done asking yourself about your partner's interests, you can start thinking about what to do that the both of you, especially your partner, could enjoy.
If you're both adventurous, sporty, and willing to try something new, you might like indoor wall climbing, wakeboarding, and parasailing. If you're both the laid back type, you can just hit the beaches near you and soak up the sun. There are a lot of beautiful beaches and resorts that don't hurt the budget around the metro.
If you're both the foodie type, why not try a cook-off? It's a day where both of you surprise each other with meals you both cooked personally. No take outs. Another variation can be cooking together. If both of you aren't confident with your cooking, you can still trying cooking, even just a dessert. Just spend time engaging each other while cooking. You get to see and personally learn how the person really is like. Cooking will test your patience, perseverance, as well as creativity.
Head over to the nearest public library with coffee, tea, or hot cocoa and read a book together or play a board game. You can also go to the park or a coffee shop and discuss the kinds of books both of you are into. Bring along friends. The more, the merrier. BONUS: Bring a book that you think your partner will love and give it to him/her on your date. :)
With these kinds of partners, you can ask them to hit the gym and play a sport of your choice. Engage yourselves in friendly competition and you'll learn more about each other. Bowling, table tennis and other indoor sports are perfect if you don't want to go out.
If your partner is into music and the arts, you can go to concerts or art exhibitions. These are nice dates for minimal costs. You can also hit artsy bars with live performances for a cozy night out. You can also head to the park, bring a guitar or a musical instrument of your choice to serenade your partner. Show off your skill. You can also hang out and watch musical plays or movies and just enjoy each other's company.
Watch movies at the comfort of your own homes. Minimal costs. Prepare food that's within your fridge and get cozy while watching your favorite movies. Get a bit intimate with wine and a nice dinner. You can even decorate your house with candles for a more romantic feel. Surprise your partner with breakfast in bed. The possibilities are endless!
If your partner has been stressed with work/school recently, why not treat him/her to a day of pampering? This doesn't have to be expensive. You can try to learn a few massage techniques before your special day and when the day comes, you can do it yourself for your partner. It is also very romantic to have someone touch you in such a way.You can light scented candles and play soothing music while doing your thing. If you're not confident with your skills, you can just both head to a massage parlor/professional masseuse so both of you get to relax. My boyfriend and I went to one recently and got a full body massage. It was really a satisfying experience.
Dates need not be expensive. The main goal is to enjoy and get engaged in each other. To learn to know more about each other and to appreciate each other's quirks and weird habits. Through dating, you get to interact with your partner and you get to know more about him/her.
Just remember that when dating, you need to be open. You need to be able to adjust. Dating is often a preparation for a serious relationship, after all.
Do you have other date ideas that you'd like to share? Please feel free to let me know via the comments section. I would love to hear from you.
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