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NPD- Online Boyfriend Minces Cyber Girlfriend's Heart

Updated on July 22, 2017
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Be wary of the seasoned Lulz. He will be your best friend and confidant, then use it all against you, so as to laugh with his circus clowns.

Ensnared

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Catfish

A "Catfish" is someone who pretends to be someone they are not, using Facebook or other social media, to create false romantic identities, to deceive their victims for financial, emotional, physical abuse (later on down the line), or simply for the sake of the sadistic gratification of traumatizing another human being.

Baiting

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Lulz

A Lulz is the slang term used to describe the laughter rendered at someone who has been purposely victimized, gamed, or pranked, online. The way one would use this term would be to say, "He played with her emotions, online, just for the lulz of it". Many times, others are secretly involved behind the scenes, as well, joining in with the offender's howls of laughter.

Mirror Man - Henderson

Online Relationships


Online boyfriend;

digital prince!

For the sheer,

glitzy lulz of it,

her heart,

he did mince.


Cyber girlfriend;

his virtual fool!

Over her

unsuspecting eyes,

he did

"pull the wool".


Online soulmate;

digital man!

Her life,

he colored,

with his

erasable crayon.


Cyber lover;

his virtual woman!

He darkened her sunshine,

as his devotion emitted,

not one single,

lumen.

Lulz

Though it is painful to be deceived and pranked so viciously, be proud that it is not, you, who is the deceiver, and prankster.

Narcissists

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Narcissists Wear Masks

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Victim Role

Online Predators

Have you ever been gamed by someone, online, who pretended to be someone that they were not?

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© 2017 Tamara Yancosky

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    • Tamara Moore profile image
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      Tamara Yancosky 2 months ago from No Idea Where

      Thank you, Galaxy. Writing has been very healing for me :-)

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      GalaxyRat 2 months ago from The Crazy Rat Lady's House

      Beautiful, great poem. I don't believe you had to go through this!

      :(

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      Tamara Yancosky 3 months ago from No Idea Where

      Thank you, Jodah! Unfortunately, I learned about "Catfishing" through the experience of being "cat-fished", but at least I can now share these experiences, and help others to not get baited, and ensnared. It is an insidious lure, and hook.

      Hugs,

      Tamara .

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      John Hansen 3 months ago from Queensland Australia

      This was interesting, Tamara. I learnt some new terms.. Lulz and catfish (in that context). Nice job.

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      Tamara Yancosky 4 months ago from No Idea Where

      Thank you, Manatita! I do so appreciate your kind comments :-)

      Tamara

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      manatita44 4 months ago from london

      Very informative. Great way of expression through poetry. Well done!

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      Tamara Yancosky 4 months ago from No Idea Where

      Thank you, Luke! No, I have never heard of the term Catfish. But, I will look it up, and might put a link on this post about it. I will check it out right away. Thank you for your very kind, and thoughtful, advice.

      Tamara

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      Luke Holm 4 months ago

      Tamara, I'm sorry for your poor experience, as expressed here. Be careful who you confide in online. Anyone could be anyone. Have you ever heard of the term catfish? If not, check it out. I think it would be a nice addition to this hub. Hang in there. Keep your wits about you and your heart on a short leash (until it's time to let it fly). Take care. Keep up the good work!