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Do You Really Know How To Love?

Updated on June 19, 2016

Satan In Us Is Only Against Us

He can be deployed in us like a self-destructive device over time. Our minds determine whether we allow him to do so or not. If we appreciate life we must knock Satan out of us because with him in us we are our own worst enemies. Many of us are diseased because of Satan. We hate. We are negative because of situations that we should have forgiven someone or people for. We are insecure because of past situations that we should have gotten over.

How to love is only taught from one source. Being successful and sustaining at how to love is included from that source. To love is to apply an action. The meaning of the action is meaningless unless the action is given and received. To love deserves to be loved in return. That is simply how it works.


Where How To Love Comes From

To know, to understand and to initially feel where love comes from is out of the Bible. We must love God in return. He loved especially what He made alive. God inspired men to say and express all that God wanted man to know, to understand and to feel. In order to understand God’s love we need to have faith sense it and to understand it.

To Know How To Love

To know how to love is by first, having the faith and being obedient to God’s Word and His Will for us. It is most imperative for us to know that God created all of us for His and our own goodness. As said in John 3:16: For God so loved the world that He begave His only begotten Son… If we all believed in that scripture and applied it to our lives then we would all have what we are living for. We must do what is commanded of us to do because self-righteousness is being too selfish. We need to be commanded to do what God needs us to do. In doing His commands, we learn to love because by doing what He commanded us to do instills discipline along with love in our hearts and being obedient to His commands helps us to develop the habit to naturally love. We develop the notion to love others because they are children of God whether they show it or not. There should be no negativity associated with love after deriving love from God first; allowing Him through prayer to order our foot steps daily. We should want God to lead us through the life that He designed for each of us. He designed for us to be in His institution of a successful marriage. He did not intend for man to live alone. In the Garden of Eden He created a wife for man right away. So, when a man has accepts God’s standard of living then he is prepared for God’s greatest gift: woman.

God’s Love Is The Regulator

Love from God is the only love that is regulated to balance out a relationship and allow it to be fair. No other love can do that. Remember, through our own love we cannot help but to be selfish and demand more than we should of others or run the risk of having our hearts taken advantage of. The relationship can become one sided (being loved or having love for someone conditionally). Do you want someone to love or be interested in you because you make $100,000 per year, have a big 4 room plus house and is a money splurgier? God is here for the purpose of seeing to it that His creation is properly cared for versus the devil trying to defeat God’s purpose in us.

Knowing How To Really Love and Be Loved

After allowing God’s love to mold you properly then it is time to love someone whom you consider special. That someone special should admire you because of your love for God. That person show understand that if you so love God then they shall so be loved and willing to love you so, unconditionally.

God Has Been Associated With Love Daily

God has been associated with love daily since the beginning of time because to love, is His nature. In order for us to achieve salvation we must be sure to love every person whom we come in contact with. We must show it and express it. Why miss your blessing when it is so easy to get. Do not let love be out of your live just for a moment. It is too valuable of a quality and asset.


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      Dana Tate 2 years ago from LOS ANGELES

      Love- a four letter word with a lot of power. There's beauty, healing and mercy in that word. We can love, when we understand how much the Lord loves us.

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      Word 2 years ago from Chicago

      Hey Besarien, Thank you for coming by here. Thank you for such wonderful comments. I appreciate your presence more and more.

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      Besarien 2 years ago

      Great hub that reminded me of some very wise words:

      "That’s love, you see. It is redemptive, and this is why Jesus says love. There’s something about love that builds up and is creative. There is something about hate that tears down and is destructive. So love your enemies." -Reverend Martin Luther King Jr.

      Voted up!

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      Word 3 years ago from Chicago

      mdscoggins, It was great to see you. I'm happy to have given you this wonderful reading to wake up to this beautiful Sunday morning. You are welcomed and I hope you had a beautiful rest of the day! I did! :-)

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      Word 3 years ago from Chicago

      Jodah, I thank you for the cosigning. No wonder your writings are blessed! You know absolute truth!

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      Word 3 years ago from Chicago

      Devika, What a great anylization of yours. Thank you so much for stopping by!

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      Michelle Scoggins 3 years ago from Fresno, CA

      Great connection Word55. Seems like we expect God's unconditional love, however, to often we are bound by pride and fear and thereby love conditionally instead of what was given to us. What a great message to wake up to this Sunday morning. Thank you for that. Have a great day.

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      John Hansen 3 years ago from Queensland Australia

      Good advice word55, on how to truly love. The Bible has wonderful definitions of love, and you're right we need to love the Lord first and then everything else falls into place.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      LOVE is such a word and often baffles many individuals. The act behind the word is so important to get into our minds. It is special to love and to be loved. You made it all so clear here.