- Gender and Relationships
Do they really care
Do you find yourself starring at your phone for hours at a time? Wondering has the other person read your text or saw they missed your call? Do you often feel as if they don't care? Do you in result to feeling lonely go buy your favorite liquor and listen to those sad depressing songs? Do you say forget and go hang with the homies? In the mist of this chaotic confused world we live in. Do you believe that it's hard for someone to really love you? Sometimes we have to stop resulting to that way of thinking. We fall victim to lack of attention. Sometimes you have to ask yourself first. Is everything okay? Maybe they are busy. Do you remember the conversation you had when they said "hey I might be busy around this time"? Or maybe you're going through something similar to me. If your past relationships didn't require love, how can you learn to love overnight? If you've been used and played in all your past relationships do you think overnight it will be just down right easy to love because you love them? Maybe you know how to love, but to them even though it feels good it's scary. "What if I really fall in love and get hurt again"? Every relationship is different. So I wrote this article to say this. Think positive before negative.Your significant other probably had a long day and instead of just jumping into hoe they feel, they may just need a minute or two. It's not you. When a person changes they will do it for the better or the worse.I don't dwell on negativity because I don't accept it. If you are having problems pray about it also.Then make sure you indulge in positivity. Negativity causes stress, and stressing solves nothing. So does your significant other care about you? Even though sometimes they seem busier than most days? Communicate and talk about it, because communication is key.