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Does He Truly Love You?
The words "I love you" can be used so loosely sometimes that we forget what it truly means to love and be loved. Everyone has their own way of showing or expressing their love. Sometimes love can be confused with feelings of lust and the excitement of romance. What is love? Does he really love you?
He Wants To Know Who You Are
He asks you questions about your past, your family and friends. You find yourself talking about your childhood. He listens to you with an open heart. He asks you about your future and your goals and gives you his opinion about your ideas and encourages you to fulfill your dreams.
He Respects Your Time
He would never stand you up or leave you waiting for him. If he tells you he is going to call, he does. He doesn't make you feel guilty when you have something to do or you are busy. He appreciates spending time with you and he thanks you for being in his life.
He Respects Himself
A man that walks tall and proud next to his woman is a man in love. He will dress like a man, act like a gentleman and walk with confidence. This shows that not only does he respect himself and the beautiful woman that he is with, but he demands that his woman be respected by others as well.
He Makes Love To You
There is a huge difference between having sex and making love. When a man makes love to you, you will know. It is the most beautiful experience to know that a man loves and respects your body. He wants to explore every inch of you, and know you on the most intimate level. He pays attention to you when you make love, looking for signs that he is pleasing you, and he will go above and beyond to make sure that he is responsible for you feeling like his queen.
He Would Never Hurt You
Let's face it, some relationships don't work. But he will approach it with respect, attempt to make it work and if not, he end it in a respectful way. Yes, it may hurt, but it is done with respect. Cheating, lying and disappearing are by no means a sign of love. A man that loves and respects you will never hurt you.
He Speaks The Truth
My Grandmother use to tell me, "The Truth Rings a Bell", and in some ways she was right. When a man speaks to you, no matter what the situation, he should be sincere. Even if the truth hurts, its far better than being lied to. A man that loves you works for your respect.
You Feel His Presence When He Is Gone
A man that loves you will hold a piece of your heart. No matter how far apart you are, in life and in death, you will always feel his love.