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Don't let Others Opinions Influence What You Want

Updated on December 29, 2014

In today's society people try to influnce other people's decision. That is why it is important to have your own mind.

Some people feel that when you are young that you have to go out and party. They think that is the only way you will meet someone. While partying could be fun and you could meet a guy at a party, it does not mean you have to. There is nothing wrong with staying in and watching a movie. If you want a homebody or a family guy you are not being limited. You just want a good guy.

People may tell you how you should live your life but you know what is best for you. You do not have to do what everyone else does to succeed in life. You do not have to sleep with a guy within a month to have a loving relationship with him. You do not have to go out drinking to find Prince Charming. If your guy likes the outdoors but you hate it, you do no thave to do it. You should not change your likes and dislikes for somebody. When someone loves you, they love you for who you are.

You should never give up the guy you like because your friends do not agree with his job. For instance just because they want a cop or a doctor does not mean that you have to go and get one. It is nice to have money but money does not guarentee you a happy relationship. You could have a guy who is rich and still feel empty inside. What matters more is that the person loves you and how he treats you. If you do not have respect than you should not be in a relationship, no matter how much money the guy has.

If you like a guy who works in retail, is a pizza delivery guy, a personal trainer or whatever and he treats you right that is all that matter. Just because a guy is a doctor does not mean he will make the best husband. While it is nice to have money, money is not everything.

Do not give up a good guy just because of his career choice. If he is a hard worker and treats you right that is all that matters. Your standards are not low just because he does not have a job with a high income.

If you have a friend on the backburner but something has not happened yet do not give up. Do not wait around. Go out with other guys but keep this guy on the back burner because you never know what will happen in the future. Down the road friend could be more.

Do not listen to your friends when they say they only way for you to be happy is to forget about someone else. You could be in love with more than one person at the same time. There are some people who married someone else but deep down they will always have feelings for their first love.

Do not let other people's opinions change who you are. You have your own desires and beliefs in your heart. If you listen to what other people say and do what they say than you will never be happy.

If you want a homebody then you should go find a homebody. You are not being limited if you want someone who is not at a club every single weekend. Everyone perfers different things when it comes to having a romantic mate.

You will not be happy if you give up your dreams because of what other people say. Giving up on someone or something you love just because other people say so, will make you unhappy. If you want to be happy have your own mind and stick to what you believe in.

Don't lost yourself by listening to other people. Do not go against your values because of what other people say. The right person will love you for who you are. They will respect your values and not expect you to change. Everyone is differet in the world and at the right time you will find the right person.

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