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Drop your no good man like a bad habit!!!!!!
Before The Break Up
Alright now ladies in life we go through so many break up's and make up's, and all that good stuff. At some point in a relationship we just get so fed up that we just want out of it. As easy as that is said for some reason it does'nt seem that easy to make it happen. Though we may mean it, we don't know how to go about it to really say it and mean that this is the end.
I had this boyfriend who for some reason i just put up with just because. At first everything was cool, but as time went on i noticed that we were on 2 different pages. He was on the first page of the book and i was on page 1,000, if you know what i mean. His reading was going no where fast. So anyways i soon became tired of him , he knew this but he continued to do nothing, and he continued to come around. I think that was the hardest part about breaking up with him. Every time i would say it was over and he would leave, when he showed up again it would go back to us being love birds. And i hated it. Fortunately the time care were when i said i was through i was actually through.
Methods i used of ending the relationship (tips)
- Do not break up with your bf at your home. That way when your done saying it's over you can leave or hang up.
- Do not except phone calls from him until you feel as though you can think clearly and stand beside your decision.
- WHen you do except calls strictly let you ex know that you refuse to talk about the breakup
- Do not let your ex visit you until you are stable enough to stand beside your decision.
- Get your miund off him go to the mall or out with friends.
- Send email if your not comfortable talking on the phone.
- Love yourself and no that you are the most important person here.
- Last but not least who cares what other people think know that your decision is based on what you want, and think is best foir you.
Your finally through
When it's finally over it just feels so good. Though at first it may seem as if your not sure you made the right decision, the results will leave you feeling refreshed and ready to take on the world. Dropping my man like a bad habit it truly sensational to say the least. Ladies continue to have the courage, and your life will be everything you want it to, in the words of inspiration.