- Gender and Relationships
Early or late marriage: which is better than & why
What type of marriage is preferable?
Early or late?
Early marriages are preferable than late marriages if you can handle the minimum livelihood expenses though you are not rich. .
It has many advantages like.
You have a support with you permanently.
This support can help in mutual progress of two partners.
Your parents might also be satisfied that you are independent.
You can have your children at young age so that you can look after them well through their career and up growth as you have age below 50 by the time of their marriage and settlement.
Since the chances of mishaps are many, it is better to get married quickly and have your siblings for your family sustenance.
It also gives a feeling of settled in life and plan further goals and purposes in life.
Staying together requires some good level of adjustment at mental, physical and social planes so early marriage can provide more time for couple to understand each other and once done can help you enjoy family life even better for long.
You can also have sufficient sexual satisfaction from your partner and you may not need to go for adultery and also keep away from sexually transmitted diseases (STD).
Requirements for early marriage:
Get into some earning mode at an early age preferably by 22yrs.
Have sufficient level of social relations and friends. Because this helps you manage family and career related issues and take proper decisions.
Attain proper maturity by formal and informal education. It gains you respect from people around .
Have pleasant physical build up by regular exercises and proper diet regulation.
What is your idea? Early or late marriage
Some of them feel late marriage is better in order to complete higher education as they believe that marriage creates disturbances.
Some delay marriage as they wait for their elder brothers or sisters to get married.
Some of them don’t think of marriage as they feel it is the responsibility of their parents.
Even some feel marriage is not prerequisite for better life. So they might not think of it.
Very few delay it due to their aversion for opposite sex :-).
You maintain your freedom of life without compromise to your spouse.
Your expenses are kept at minimum and can take more time for settlement.
The chances of becoming addict to something like drinks or frustration are rare (as you can see in cases where couple has no options to divorce and so are resort to addictions etc :-)).
You may need to compromise your sexual life and may resort to masturbation or adultery etc. This poses chances of STD, improper health (as sex is believed to contribute to health).
You may lose valuable age suitable to conceive, carry and beget children. Health experts believe that age of below 30 years and above 18 years is the best suitable for the purpose of conception, pregnancy and delivery.
Chances of mishaps are frequent these days so it’s advisable not to delay marriage so as to avoid chances familial lineage discontinuance.
These are just the thoughts and not intended to impose anyone else.