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Advice for Men- How to Make Your Woman Want You

Updated on April 10, 2015

Things you can do to make your woman want you

A couple of days ago I sat down with some of my closest friends and had a conversation about our dear, well-meaning, wonderful husbands. One of the girls suggested that I write an article about what turns us women on.When we really started to get into the conversation, I realized not one woman suggested anything the man was doing ‘inside’ the bedroom. In fact, every bit of input that I got from this group of women, was all about the things our men do in our everyday life that turn us on. Yes, we are moms and wives, and maybe that makes us a little different in this category, but really it isn't as difficult as you men think.

If you feel like your woman is too busy or has lost interest, that probably isn't the case, in fact our sex interest is the same as it has always been, even with kids, jobs, and all the other demands life has put on us. Being a mom and a wife doesn't make us want to give up on those times with you in the bedroom.However, it does make the things we find sexy change a little. So okay men, listen up….here are eight things that we came up with that our husbands can do to turn us on.

Eight Turn-Ons for Women

1.Be a good dad.There is nothing sexier than a man who is a good father to his children.If you treat your kids with respect, give them your time, and have a good relationship with your kids, then you are sure to make your woman swoon.

2.Help her out unexpectedly.We get overwhelmed with everyday things, and often that leaves us feeling deprived and sometimes even resentful that we don’t get to spend more time with you.Do the dishes, or clean up around the house without us asking, and suddenly we have more time to think about getting some time with you alone.


3.Smell good. There is nothing sexier than the smell of your husband’s skin mixed with some amazing cologne or aftershave.Be sure to give us a nice big hug and show us how good you smell so we can be reminded.

4.Worship us. Sure, we may not look like Pamela Anderson, but that doesn't mean you can’t make us feel like we do.Let us know how beautiful you think we are (imperfections and all) by being simple but sweet, like wrapping your arms around us and telling us how much you love our body.That is a sure way to get your woman interested in more than just cooking dinner tonight.

5.Be romantic. Dance with us in the kitchen, bring us a random flower, or sing us our favorite song.A romantic man is a sexy man, so think outside of your comfort zone and do something romantic.

6.Be protective. A man who is protective of his wife (not possessive) is a turn on. When we feel vulnerable, no matter what the situation, there is nothing sexier than for our man to be protective and shield us from the rest of the world.

7.Have a good sense of humor. Make us laugh, keep things light and fun, and make your woman swoon.Women love a man with a good sense of humor, and if you keep us laughing during our day to day lives, we will find you irresistible when it comes to alone time.

8.Have your own interests.Yes, we want you to be protective, worship us, be romantic, and be the center of your world, but not the only part of your world. Having interests that don’t involve us is often sexy.Some of my friends love it when their husbands go fishing, golfing, or just off with the boys.Absence can definitely make the heart grow fonder.

Being sexy to your wife isn't about having the perfect body or being a perfect lover. Women can be very complicated, but when it comes to making us want to be with you intimately, it comes down to attention, love and respect.The 8 tips above will help you lure your woman into the bedroom.Good luck guys!

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    • mathira profile image


      5 years ago from chennai

      Man is sometimes very practical and miss out the intricate things a woman wants from him. Your hints are absolutely true and it made great reading.

    • ezzly profile image


      5 years ago

      I really like the point about the aftershave, I keep trying to get my man to wear aftershave but he won't lol !

    • Michael Tully profile image

      Michael Tully 

      5 years ago

      Excellent advice, Mandee. Having practiced at least most of your suggestions during my 37-year marriage, I can attest that they really do work.


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