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Explore The 5 Hidden Secrets That Enable You To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
We do not learn how to maintain relationship with boyfriends in schools. That is why when we make mistakes in relationships, we need to solve and fix them on our own. Luckily, we get to read sources from internet or books in guiding us how we can fix the problems we meet in relationships. It is understandable that how wonderful our lives are when there is loved one who shares all these great moments with us. However, not every relationship can last till the end without any obstacle. Many couples encounter break up and they either choose to move on with another or be together again. If you opt to get back your ex-boyfriend, you need to equip yourself with the following knowledge that can help you to achieve your goal.
What are the 5 hidden secrets that enable you to get your ex-boyfriend back?
1) Stay Strong after the Break Up
Normally, what women at large do after a breakup is crying out hysterically and shouting out with pains. Only very little portion of women will act rationally by staying tough after break up. These little portions of women live happier lives than the former. It is true that it is difficult to go through a break up, I understand that, as I have been through before. However, that is not the end of your world. He would be so excited if he knows that you cannot live without him as this satisfies his egoistic but that does not mean that he wants you back. Hence, admit to yourself that a break up has happened, accept it. My ex-boyfriend told me that he regretted breaking up the following day. See, it is not impossible that your ex-boyfriend won’t return to you. So, stay strong after the break up.
2) Appear the Best in Public especially in front of Your Ex-boyfriend
The worst thing you must avoid in doing after a break up is to look like you are being dumped by your ex-boyfriend. Even that is a fact, you do not need to show it out to the public, especially in front of your ex-boyfriend. Your ex-boyfriend will not pity you at all, he will only think that, “Thank God, she is no longer my girlfriend, can’t believe that she walks out like that.”
Even your target is to attract your ex-boyfriend but not others; you still need to appear the best in public. When all the guys are eyeing on you and attracted by you, they would convey this message to your ex-boyfriend and said you looked hot. The best is when you create opportunity to bump into him accidentally, the thing you want him to have in mind is, “Gosh, the break up with her is the most stupid mistake I have ever made!” Therefore, dress like you are the most gorgeous woman on earth after the break up. Make sure you look confident as this is one of the most attractive characteristics that can attract a man.
3) Trigger his curiosity
You should know where your ex-boyfriend normally hangs out at, you too hang out at those places with your own group of friends. However, do not do this too often as he will realize that this is your trick. Once in a while, hang out at places where both of you used to go. When you met him, make sure he sees you with a group of friends. Appear happily chatting with friends around you and show off the most gorgeous and confident look of yours. Try to make some new friends including guys, who know you might find a cuter guy than him. Let him see that you have new guy friends around, this can trigger his curiosity and he will start wondering who they are. This is the time when he wants to know more about what you have been doing lately.
4) Be cool
Do not try to initiate any conversation with your ex-boyfriend when you see him. Just hold on, the most you can do is to give him a smile as greeting, but immediately turn to your friend and start chatting happily about something else. Wait for him to initiate conversation with you. He might not dare to do this in front of your friends. Most likely, he will message you through mobile or instant messenger.
Once he does that, do not reply him immediately; let him wait for some time. If it is a text message, you can reply him before you are off to bed, just said you have been busy the whole day and just get to reply his message by then, send your regards to him and said goodnight. Then, off your mobile and he will wonder what have you been busying the whole day. If through instant messenger, make sure you reply him after 5 minutes, when he thought that you are not in front of your laptop or computer. However, do not reply a lengthy message, just replied hi. When he feels distance from you, he will take action to get closer to you.
5) Move on is what you must do
As mentioned earlier, it is never the end of the world when a break up happens to you. No matter how difficult it is to stand up from the break up, you still got to do it. You must move on with your life after the break up or else it only causes regrets and delays to your original life plans. Imagine if you give up on doing something (e.g. to pursue a degree in university) after the break up, you will regret years later for making the worst decision ever. By giving up your plans in life will not help you in getting your ex-boyfriend back at all. Especially if he has moved on with his life, you will be the only one who remains at the same point and no one is going to pity you.
Therefore, tell yourself repeatedly that, “I must move on to make myself a better woman”. If you are determined to move on, you would definitely look more attractive than women who give up everything because of a broken up relationship. This can make your ex-boyfriend to think carefully again, whether he has made a wrong decision.
Now that these 5 hidden secrets are revealed to you, all you required to do is to follow them. If you are really following these 5 tips, you will find that your life is still exciting as before you meet your ex-boyfriend. You want to look good even on your own. Only when you love yourself by living a good, healthy and fun live, your ex-boyfriend will regret for breaking up with you and think that you are the best partner he should live the rest of his life with. Till that time, he will beg for your forgiveness and ask for chance to be with you again.