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Falling for Mr. Wrong
Most girls are searching for Mr. Right their whole life. They dream of having the perfect wedding and living happily ever after. Unfortunately life is not always like the movies. You go through many bad dates and boyfriends until you find the one. It's great when you finally find Mr. Right but it's horrible when you fall for Mr. Wrong.
Mr. Wrong can come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes it's the bad boy. The one you have always been warned about. He has good looks and a tough exterior. He is into bad things and you know you should stay away from him but you can't. What do you do?
If he has a criminal record do you really want to get involved with him? Think things through before giving him a chance. Of course when you are in love a chemical is released and it is hard to to think straight. Your heart has all of these wonderful feelings in it but your head know's that it is not right. This is the one time to listen to your head. Think of your future. Remember. If he goes down you are going right down with him. You do not want to throw away your future over a guy.
Know that you deserve better. Bad boys do not know how to treat girls. They are disrespectful to them and will often abuse them. No female deserves to be talked down to or abused. They will also cheat on you time and time again. He will lie to you and tell you anything you want to hear just so he could get on your good side. Then when you least expect it or believe that he has finally changed he will hurt you all over again. If you want to be treated better go find someone who will. There are good guys out there and they may be hard to find. Don't let the fear of being alone get to you. Being alone is better than being with someone who treats you like garbage. There are a million guys out there and one day you will meet the guy who will treat you like a queen.
Know that you can't trust him. You do not know what he is up to. He could tell you he is doing one thing but he could be doing something totally different and bad. He could even get you involved in things that you do not want to. If you do not want to start committing crimes then stay far away from him.
Think of the future. He can't give you the things you want unless you want to live on the streets. A bad boy is used to life on the streets. If your with a guy who is unemployed with no real goal and is spending his days on the couch smoking and drinking then you are never going to get anywhere. You are never going to get a dream wedding or anything nice. Money does not buy happiness but you do need it to pay the bills. As long as a guy has a job and is a hard worker that is what matters. If he is a bum and drunk all the time with no plan you are no going anywhere either
Have you ever fell for the bad boy before?
Know he will hold you back. You want to go out and see the world and he wants to drink and smoke all day and all night. You are two opposite people and he won't be there to support you when you need it. You can never depend on him and you will always have to pick him up because he is making a mess out of everything. If he is into bad things you will also find your hard earned savings gone because he used it to buy things that he should not be buying.
There is a saying "You have to kiss a lot of frogs until you meet your prince." Don't stay stuck on Mr. Wrong. When you are with someone who is bad news the best thing to do is move on. It may be hard at first but overtime it will get easier. It is for the best. As the saying goes "Time heals all wounds."