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Fast Flirting: Flirting Tips For Guys

Updated on September 19, 2014
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What is Fast Flirting?

Probably it’s a secret for many people. So, fast flirting is an effective way to show interest in a girl without wasting plenty of time. It allows people to decide rapidly, whether or not they are attracted to a potential partner.

In today’s dynamic world the traditional flirting and dating between men and women requires a lot of time.

Imagine how many hours a day you spend looking for flirting signals? It’s just wasting of your time. If you encounter a woman you are interested in, you should take action right away.

To flirt with any girl that you like, you should know some flirting techniques. For sure the seduction can take place pretty fast, than you think.

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Fast Flirting Tips For Guys


Many guys think that seducing a girl has to be very slow process. Just the contrary, seducing is something like a game that can be played fast, but you have to be a professional “player”. In order to impress desired girl you need magnetism and connection.

Bear in mind, that when building connection with the girl, the first seconds are very important. Consider that no one is born as a “master of flirting”.

So, you can learn how to practice it, just study the “masters of seduction” and copy their body language. Don’t miss the greatest handbook”Art of Seductions” by Robert Greene for more advices.

Take a Risk!

Most of the guys don't take chances. Women are friendly and believe me or not, they need attention. Many girls admit the same thing-too many guys don't have the guts and the confidence to come and say hello to them.

Glance and Smile

This is the first thing you should do. Use your killing smile to seduce any woman. There is no time to waste. The longer you let time pass by, the more likely to lose your chance to be with her. Use the power of smile. If your desired girl smiles back, don’t hesitate to make the first step. It’s a sign that she noticed you.

Plan wisely your flirting strategy and you’ll see the result faster than you expect.Maybe you have no idea how important it is to make a woman laugh. So, humour is the key to any long-term relationship.

Prepare Something to Talk About

It could be a fun story, somewhere you went to, etc.Don't count on that the girl will do most of the talking.Yes, there are outgoing and talkative types, but many of them are just as shy or twice as shy as you are! Don't mistake that for unkindness.

Also, don't ask the same “twenty” questions like everyone does. Leave that to the interviewer! Clear your head up and look around you, surely you’ll see something worthwhile to talk about.


Use it carefully–don’t flood her with them.Wait a bit for the right time until she has earned it. When she has said something that is really original, go ahead and compliment her about it.

Don’t say she is awesome when you've just known each other for ten seconds.It is odd and senselessly.Youhave to build genuine connection-both emotional and physical one.

Body Language/Contact

You should know that your ability to flirt in the right way is exceptionally important. Learn how to use the body language to communicate. Send her a warm smile and show that you are interested in her, making eye contact. Continue to keep up a friendly face when she is talking to you. Make her laugh and she is all yours. Don’t leave your sense of humor behind, compliment her.

Probably, you know that a big percentage of our communication is non-verbal. So, be careful! If you say something comically but at the same time your body language indicates you are nervy, it won’t work. The key is to train every side of your body language to ensure that it looks as confident as it can be.


The most common mistake when trying to attract woman, is lack of confidence. If you want to be one of these guys who attract beautiful girls easily, work on your confidence, but turn your arrogance off. Don’t forget your confidence is important part of flirting fast.

Be Unique and Original!

To win her heart you must be unique. Most of the attractive women are “bombarded”daily by too many men. So, you should be different from them. Stand out from the crowd!


Maintain concentration during the conversation. Don’t look over the place when flirting and never stare at another girl (golden rule!!!).

What is your preferable flirting technique?

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    • Mellonyy profile image

      Mellonyy 5 years ago

      Yes, alocsin, I hope so. Being single is a huge problem of our society nowadays. Take care!

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      alocsin 5 years ago from Orange County, CA

      Hopefully, a lot of single guys will read this article because they seem to have a problem with flirting nowadays. Voting this Up and Useful.

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      Mellonyy 5 years ago

      randslam, thanks for your positive comment! For me it's pleasure, too.

      Take care!

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      Rand Zacharias 5 years ago from Kelowna, British Columbia

      This is so true...voted up and interesting, and useful, and beautiful. I've been seeing the affectation that a smile can have for decades...and confidence, absolutely...great advice.

      Thanks, Mellonnyy...and it's a pleasure to have you following me...I returned the favour.

      Ciao bella...he says...with a smile and a friendly no arrogance.

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      Mellonyy 5 years ago

      Thank you, chelseacharleston! I'm trying to give readers my best.

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      chelseacharleston 5 years ago

      Good advice :)

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      Mellonyy 5 years ago

      Bob, saying that will make you laugh, but maybe you forgot women like confident men:) Though, be careful, use the appropriate dose of compliment. Take care!

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      Bob Bamberg 5 years ago from Southeastern Massachusetts

      Amen to that! Until last October I owned a feed and grain store, and when a woman (even regulars who'd been coming for years) would come in I'd compliment her dog, or perhaps her nail art, but I wouldn't dare tell her that what she was wearing looked good on her or that her haircut is nice. Harmless stuff, but in this day and age, would likely be considered "unwanted attention."

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      Mellonyy 5 years ago

      Yes, we all missing the old good times Bob. So, should we stop flirting nowadays? No, of course not. The human in today’s world is eager for gain and the sexual harassment is part of it. Probably wonder why? Simple, it’s easy money. A lot of celebrities(and ordinary people as well) use it, longing for a better life. Maybe you are right, today we have to be tight-rope dancers most of the time, because of the moral hypocrisy of our society.

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      Bob Bamberg 5 years ago from Southeastern Massachusetts

      Mellonyy, where were you when I needed you.....back in the 60's??!!

      Actually, what passed for flirting, or "boys will be boys" back then would clearly be sexual harassment today and would land the flirter in serious trouble. And everything you've heard about the infamous office Christmas party is most likely true. I can't believe the things we did back then. Most of the stuff was harmless, but by today's standards, unacceptable. Ahhhhh, the good old days. :)

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      Mellonyy 5 years ago

      carol7777, thanks so much for your kind words. I think flirting is all around us through the whole life.

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      carol stanley 5 years ago from Arizona

      Though I am not in the flirting business these days I thought I would give this a read. I liked the hub and thought your ideas were clever.