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Lesbian Dating Services
If you are looking for lesbian dating services or gay dating, you have many options available online. Although the gay population is a small minority of the entire population, it does not mean that you can’t find love if you are dating a lesbian. On pretty much all of the big dating websites you can simply say that you are a female looking for a female or a woman looking for a woman. As such, virtually all of the major dating sites are lesbian dating services.
I selected one random major dating site (it happened to be Yahoo! Personals) and did a test for a woman looking for a woman for my area, a middle sized city. I was pleased to find out that there were close to 150 women who were seeking a relationship with another woman. Keep in mind, however, that not all of the women were seeking a relationship with a lesbian. In fact, most of the women were just looking for a friend. Despite this fact, if I or you were to look at each of these profiles, we’d find a lot of lesbians. The amount of results will also very by what city you live in. For example, a search for the New York City area will give you a lot of more results than for the Buffalo area.
Aside from Yahoo! Personals you can check out the other major dating sites including Match.com, Chemistry.com, eHarmony.com, Lavalife.com, Plentyoffish.com, and Okcupid.com. In fact, I found a lot of lesbian profiles from the free to use Plentyoffish.com dating website. Although there were a lot of women here looking for just friends, there were also a lot of woman looking for a “long term relationship” with a woman. As such, Plentyoffish.com can be thought of as a free lesbian dating service or site.
If your search for “lesbian dating” you’ll likely stumble upon “niche” lesbian dating services sites including lesbiandatingpersonals.com and curiouslove.com. One popular dating site for the gay community in general is gay.com. Curiouslove.com and lesbiandatingpersonals.com are both free to use, as is gay.com, which has a “premium membership” however. I can’t say how effective these niche sites are (in terms of real profiles and not some 5 year old un-deleted profiles) because I’m not a lesbian. Regardless, even if you can find one partner from all of these niche sites, your online dating search would be a success!
You should be aware that all dating sites, not just the niche lesbian online dating services, have their issues. Common problems are the fact that a lot of profiles may be outdated, that some profiles may be fake, that there can be communication problems between the members and non-members of a site, and that some people make themselves out to be better than they really are.
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