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What Does it Mean to Find That One is a True Love in Life
Love that Holds Your Heart
The Love of Your Life
Do you believe everyone has a soulmate? Someone predestined to be the love of your life?
In life, we may fall in love many times. Does each love compare equally the same as to that one true love? The one love, you are meant to be with, to spend together for the rest of your life?
So how do you know you have found that one true love? It takes some vulnerability to wear your heart on your sleeve. Break ups in love are heart wrenching. As you wrestle with yourself over the loves in your life, which one counts and which one doesn't. Is there a balance to liking someone verses loving someone?
When you see so many marriages fail these days, what do you think? Does it create a sense of fear in making a commitment. Why did that marriage fall apart? Did they just give up on each other? Did life get in the way? Relationships are multi-faceted and unique adventures. Why does one marriage fail while another survives?
In today's society divorce is so common. The real work resides in staying in the marriage. Fighting for it, doing life together takes a real commitment. Those marriage vows made months, or years ago were originally spoken in truth, out of a pure love. A love with all the hopes and dreams of a bright future.
Finding that one true love in life requires work to keep the flames growing. Mutual attraction may spark the relationship and fanning the flames may keep the embers burning, but when the winds of change come along the fire starts to die out. All relationships take work, they require compassion and understanding.
Finding that One True Love
Love sprouts and blossoms
What does it take to survive a crisis in love?
There are many questions to ponder. For any love to survive, there must be some real sense of friendship. To say you are friends first takes into account a different sort of relationship.
Focal-ism focuses on one thing and blurs out everything else. Our brains are appetites with a hypersensitivity to our desires. Love is something we all need, it breathes life within us, and it holds us captive. We do so many things out of love. Making foolish choices, stepping out on a whim, we lose sight of our future, all because of love.
Starting out as friends creates a special bond between two people.
That bond is trust, honesty and compassion. A bond that produces, with Love's assurance, they always got your back. True friends don't set out to hurt you or manipulate you. Sincere friendships are like pillars in your life. When the world around you starts to crumble, the truest of friends will stand beside you, holding up those pillars.
They are your safe-keepers. They keep your secrets and hold your dreams locked inside their hearts. A true love begins to form when the friend becomes something more than a friend. Knocking out any competition, the true love works over your heart. Their presence envelopes your soul. Everything is consumed by their ultimate love.
Throwing back and risking it all on chance, this single precious love grows over time. As a seed is rooted in the ground, the friendship foundation is rock solid. When the seed sprouts, the friendship changes into lovers. And when the flower blooms, the love begins to blossom.
Like the beauty of fresh flowers, love capitalizes on fresh fragrances. A love like that needs no bounds, it is free with grace.
It rests in the heart of the lovers, in the presence of life. Withstanding all temptations, this love fights for success.
It may take an entire lifetime to find that one true love, the soul mate that connects two hearts into one.
Life is not wasted during those empty years, as the soul prepares for that adventure of love. Sometimes, oh yes, sometimes the love is found early in life. When everyone else has a marriage falling to the ground, this early love is penetrating the survivors.
When life's unpredictability challenge the relationship and when it appears doomed to fail, this love stands up with joy and shouts. I'm here, I never failed you, I'm never giving up on you. I'm here for the long haul. When you get sick, I'll be right by your side. When you lose your job, your family, your riches or wealth, I'll be that pillar which holds it all together.
When it feels like everyone in your life is slowly slipping away, thattrue love will embrace your wounds and keep you safe.
True love means growing old together. It means sacrificing your own desires for the condition of another. Honest love never trades away one person for another.
Love holds no wrongs. It does not count the misgivings, nor does it tally up every hurt or pain that is inflicted. Love withstands the test of time. And finding that true love which lasts an eternity makes all the difference.
For when one person dies before the other, the love remains. Carried it the heart left behind, carried in the heart into paradise.
Love never fails us. Finding that one true love is the most enriching, blessing anyone could ever receive.
Soulmates forever. The memories begin and they last forever. Nothing compares to finding that one true love in life.