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How To Find The Right Girl For You

Updated on February 7, 2012


Finding The Right Girl For You

When you are single there is no worse feeling on earth than feeling alone and unloved especially when everyone around you seems to be attached, walking down the street hand in hand with their girl or sitting on the park bench kissing with her whilst you are stick out in the crowd being the only single person around, well thats how it feels anyway,

Where is my love? Why am i alone? Why do girls not like me? Whats wrong with me? So many questions so few answers.

Love comes to everyone even when you are not looking for it, like a bolt out of the blue it strikes and there is absolutely not a single thing that you can do about it except to go with the flow.

Sometimes we try too hard to find love we go out to clubs, we join dating sites on the Internet and we try to force our attentions on girls to try and get them to like us and we sometimes get so desperate that we get our friends to set us up with blind dates.

Some of us are so busy searching for love that we don’t realise that that it is already there staring you in the face.

You may wonder what I mean when I say that love could already be there staring you in the face but if you read on you will find out.

Desperation can reduce your chance of finding love because it makes you come on far too strong and no one likes it if you are pushy.



Love is everywhere around us but sometimes we try to hard to find it that it makes us desperate, desperation leads to mistakes and can make you look very foolish.

Through desperation we tell lies we make ourselves sound better than we are, "i am a movie director, i am an executive in a law firm, I am a proffesional sportsman" or things to that effect.

Saying things like that may work on the short term but if your relationship starts to blossom your lies will be caught out and trust will be lost with your girlfriend and no relationship can ever work without trust.

Truth will win out everytime, telling lies to a girl at the beginning of your relationship may impress her but if you want a long term relationship with love and companionship honesty is by far the best policy.

When you find true love the girl of your dreams and you find that she feels the same way about you it wont matter a bit to her what you do for a living even if you work down the sewers so long as you are honest from the start.

I Dream Of My Love But I Dont Know Who She Is Yet

So Where Is My love

Somewhere out there is your dream woman but at the moment you just don't know where, the thing to remember is that if you are looking for the love of your life then the love of your life is also out there looking for you.

In the end you will both find each other and hopefully live your happy ever after

Finding your soulmate is a matter of elimination you talk to girls you get to know them their thoughts and dreams, you share time with each other and you will know soon if she is the girl for you , if not you move on to another girl until you find The One.

She may be a girl that you have known all your life and have been friends with for a long time or she could be someone you suddenly bump into as you walk down the street, finding love is not actually something that you do Love actually finds you always like a bolt out of the blue you realise that you have found the love of your life and when you realise it you feel like a million dollars.


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      6 years ago

      Very Nice & True Hub!!!!

    • LizzyBoo profile image


      9 years ago from Czech Republic

      What a great hub. It is nice but always hard to make it. I like the way you make your hubs. Well done Mr.

    • 2patricias profile image


      9 years ago from Sussex by the Sea

      Both of us met our Wonderful Husbands in quite ordinary circumstances - and not while we were particularly 'looking'.

      Good advice about not telling lies!

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      Hello, hello, 

      9 years ago from London, UK

      Thank you for a lovely hub and very thoughtful.


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