- Gender and Relationships
Finding the Right One
You know when they say that sometimes your true love will find you when you least expect it, well I can truly say it did for me. After many times of hoping to find someone and looking, who was to know that one day I would find someone.
One thing that I learned about myself is that I am very patient because when it comes to finding that one right person, it was easier for me to just let that moment come instead of just looking in desperation. Yes, there comes a point in a persons life that desperation will come because they have not met that one person that will make them happy; however, when one doesn't think that way and they just live their life, a little surprise may come.
After being alone for so many years, I just knew the right one would come into my life even if it took a little longer. I would see my friends all getting married and having children, while I was still single. My parents would tell me to just wait because one day the right guy would come and sweep me off my feet and I can truly say they were right. I attempted to meet guys by going on online dating sites and that didn't help that much because the ones that I met just didn't make me feel right. Then people would have me meet one of their friends and that didn't feel right either.
Now I am happy because I met someone that understood me and accepted me for who I was and most of all started off our relationship as friends. Our friendship helped us grow and get to know each other better. I feel that I have found the one person that will make me happy.