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Flirting Tips for Men and for Women

Updated on June 25, 2013

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Tips on Flirting

Flirting is a state of mind and body in a coquetry mode towards people of opposite sex. Flirting is a special way of behavior to show that two people are sexually or romantically interested or attracted to each other. Once you see an attractive person you can't help it but flirt. The process of flirting may be shown by body language, eye contact, tone of voice, touch, or a combination of any of these actions. It's a kind of way to get attention to your personality and as more efficient your flirting skills the more attention you will get from your companion.

Flirting is much more than just a bit of fun: it is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. Flirting is a basic instinct, part of human nature.

People flirt for many reasons, some want to find a mate, some people flirt simply for amusement, other flirt to transfer relationship on a new deeper level, but no matter what the reason is, we just love it, it's fun, it's fascinating, it makes our hears beat faster and generate adrenalin in a blood.

Flirting is often playful in natural way and may be very elusive at times and very obvious at other times. There is an art to efficient flirting, and the best and the most exciting way to get progress at it is to practice online.

Flirting online has become extremely wide spread for the past few decades. It's a new trend in meeting people and finding a date.

Tips on flirting with men

  • Show interest. Show you're interested in him, smile, look at him, find ways to attract his attention.

  • Initiate a conversation. Find out what does he like, his interests and start talking loud, or ask his opinion on the subject.

  • Be ready to make the first move. Guys are very nervous about approaching the girl they like, so maybe it's better to make the first step by yourself, just give him a hint that you are interested in knowing him better.

  • Ask questions. This will show you're interested in getting to know him, not just interested in talking about yourself.

  • Be flirtatious. Use feminine charms. Good sense of humor,body language, eye contact, voice intonation, so on.

  • Break the touch barrier. Finding small ways to touch him is an obvious signal that you're flirting, and shows him that you're willing to make a small level of physical contact.

  • Don't be a pain in the neck, keep it light. Nobody likes boring people, if you make him bored you'll lose your change to date him for ever.

  • Pay him a complement. Say something like this: “You look great today, or nice t-short my favorite color, or love your shoes.”

  • Now when to live. First communication shouldn't be too long, you have to stay mysterious for him, to make him want to know you better.

Tips on flirting with women

  • Be confident. Women like confident” Alpha males”, who can initiate a conversation, make the first move.

  • Smile. Women find genuine smile is very sexy.

  • Be playful, funny, and smart. This is a killer combination that women can’t resist.
  • Pay compliments. Women love to hear compliment about their beauty and cloths.
  • Make her feel like she's the most important at the moment. Women love to be cherished.
  • Be a gentleman. Don't offer sex on a first date.
  • Be yourself. Don't try to impress her, or pretend to be someone you're not, be yourself, be attentive, caring, easy-going.

Flirty Quotes

Some women flirt more with what they say, and some with what they do.
Anna Held

I think the eyes flirt most. There are so many ways to use them.
Anna Held

I love to flirt, and I've never met a man I didn't like.
Dolly Parton

Truth is a great flirt.
Franz Liszt

I was born and bred to be a great flirt.
Cybill Shepherd

Flirt!'s mascara is insane - I don't need false lashes when I wear it.
Heather Morris


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      Devika Primić 

      5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Flirting Tips for Men and for Women great tips here and so useful

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      Dan Lema 

      5 years ago from Tanzania

      Very insightful hub Hailey, will surely put these tips into my flirting arsenal since i've always been poor at that...:)

      Would love to add that, men should learn to read the situation of the girl they're flirting with and the place they're in, in order to bring up genuine tailored flirting line instead of memorizing cheesy pick up lines which don't reflect himself.....sometimes being charming and your best self is all it takes to break the ice....

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      Amanda Jones 

      5 years ago

      Sweet hub Hailey, nice tips, I enjoyed reading your hub.


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