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Flirty Text Messages to Send to Your Significant Other

Updated on September 3, 2016

Text Messages for Flirting

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Texting Your Sweetheart

Whenever possible, communicate in person to your significant other. Unfortunately, that's not always possible. Whether it's a long distance relationship or not, text messages give you a chance to stay in constant contact without being available all the time.

Text messages can be sent to your special someone any time of day or night, so texts are a great way to express feelings when inspiration hits. Flirty text messages allow you to keep a conversation going, almost as if you're continually on a date. The pace of the conversation can be as slow or as fast as you check your phone and text a response.

As you send romantic texts, you may begin to run out of fun ways to communicate your affection. When that happens, you can use lists of romantic text messages like those below to help you keep things fresh and fun.

Flirty Texts

  1. My phone is in my hands, but I would rather be holding you.
  2. Actions speak louder than words. I don't just want to tell you that I love you, I want to show you.
  3. I love you the way the moon loves the sun. You light up my face.
  4. Here's a secret code for you to decipher: XOXOXOXO
  5. Guess what I'm doing... I'm texting the love of my life.
  6. It's your fault that I have a smile on my face right now.
  7. My mind has been in the gutter since I've been thinking of you.
  8. My friends are upset about you. They're mad that you're taken.
  9. You are on my to-do-list today.
  10. How many hours until I get to see you again?
  11. I woke up happy today, and it's all your fault.
  12. I must be in a black hole, because I'm constantly falling in love with you for eternity.
  13. There's nowhere you can go that I can't be with you, as long as you have your phone.
  14. I need more than words, but that's all I have right now.
  15. Do you believe in love at first text, or should I send you another message?
  16. If you don't love me, text me the words "I love you." If you do love me, then just tell me so.
  17. I love you the day after yesterday and the day before tomorrow.
  18. A smile from you is worth a thousand words. A smile from me only costs three: "I love you."
  19. I read some of our old messages, and it put me in a romantic mood.
  20. I'd be lying if I told you that all I want to do is send you a text.\
  21. I'm in the mood for a good cuddle.
  22. When I'm with you, time flies. I wonder why that is.
  23. I like you the way flowers like the sun.

Complimentary Romantic Messages

  1. These texting fingers want to run through your flowing, beautiful hair!
  2. One text from you can make my day.
  3. You are my favorite half of us.
  4. The problem with sending you text messages is that words cannot describe the feelings I have for you.
  5. I'm texting my most favorite person in the world.
  6. I love that you love me.
  7. I couldn't ask for a better person to get to love.

Texts to Ask Someone Out

  1. I don't think I want to be your friend any more. I want to be more than your friend.
  2. I am too nervous to ask you out in person, so I'm sending you this text.
  3. Let's finish this conversation in real life. What are you doing tonight?
  4. Since our phones have been talking so much lately, my phone would like to ask your phone out on a date. Let me know a good time that your phone is free.
  5. I'm planning on having fun with an amazing person this weekend, I'm just not sure yet if his schedule is open. Can you check your calendar?
  6. You: "Do you know who you look like?" Response: "No, who?" You: "You look like my next girlfriend. Do you agree?"
  7. What is your phone doing this Friday evening? Can you bring it on a double date with my phone and I?

For Him

  1. I don't know how much longer I can wait to be held by you.
  2. I've been thinking about an amazing guy. Guess who.
  3. My job is to love you well, and I enjoy the work. I'm still the boss though.
  4. Oh man! How's my man?
  5. Hey big guy! My mind hurts because you have been on it a lot lately.
  6. There's one person in the world I want to give a big hug, and I'm text messaging him now.

Next time I hug you, I probably won’t let go for a long time.
Next time I hug you, I probably won’t let go for a long time.

For Her

  1. A text message will never be as good as holding you in my arms, but it'll have to do for now.
  2. I had a beautiful dream, then I woke up happy. I have the most beautiful girl in real life.
  3. When I text you, "Good morning," I'm really trying to tell you that I wake up thinking about you.
  4. My phone keeps making me send texts to a beautiful woman.
  5. I wish I could put you in my pocket and carry you around everywhere just like I can with my phone.

My thumbs are dancing for you! I’m looking forward to dancing with you.
My thumbs are dancing for you! I’m looking forward to dancing with you.

Flirty Questions

Questions can be very flirty, and may start a topic of conversation that will continue and develop further. Use these questions to get a little steamy,

  1. How did I get so lucky?
  2. Who do you think I've been thinking about a lot lately?
  3. What's your favorite part of me?
  4. If I was with you right now, what would you want to do?
  5. What should we do for fun next time I see you?
  6. What happens if I highlight the words “Your clothes” and then I press delete.
  7. Do you know who I want to spend time with more than anyone else in the world?

Funny Flirty Come-backs

Use a Quote in a Text Message

"There is no remedy for love but to love more." -Henry David Thoreau
"There is no remedy for love but to love more." -Henry David Thoreau

Quotes for Flirting

These are a few quotes you can use for a flirty text. These are not original, and the source is given in the cases where I know the original source:

  1. "Not many people can take my breath away, but you don't even have to try." -unknown
  2. “Without you in my arms, I feel an emptiness in my soul. I find myself searching the crowds for your face - I know it's an impossibility, but I cannot help myself.” -Nicholas Sparks
  3. "You want to know who's amazing and has the cutest smile ever? Read the first word again." -unknown
  4. "I smile whenever I get a message from you." -unknown
  5. “I love you more than there are stars in the sky and fish in the sea.” -Nicholas Sparks
  6. I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. -Roy Croft
  7. "I’m in my bed. You’re in your bed. One of us is in the wrong place." -unknown
  8. “You are, and always have been, my dream.” -Nicholas Sparks

“I never loved you any more than I do, right this second. And I’ll never love you any less than I do, right this second.” -Kami Garcia
“I never loved you any more than I do, right this second. And I’ll never love you any less than I do, right this second.” -Kami Garcia

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