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Get Away to Grow Closer

Updated on March 14, 2013

Weekend Getaways Can Help

Relationships take work. In a perfect world, we could all just go about our daily lives and always come home to the person we love with a smile on our face; never a frown. However, that’s not the case. We need to actually work things out and grow together as couples. But how do we do just that?

One way to help spice up a relationship and make things work is by taking an annual trip with your loved one. It’s amazing how some alone time can go a long way towards making a relationship stronger. Whether it’s a weekend getaway at a local bed and breakfast or a fancy vacation far away, getting away together can be effective.

If you and your special partner are looking for ways to strengthen your relationship, consider getting away. Below are some reasons that an annual trip can be just the right thing for an experienced couple looking to mix things up.

Mental Break

The daily stress from work and other responsibilities can take a toll on any relationship. Sometimes, taking a break from it all can re-charge the body and mind. When you’re away from home with your loved one, you finally get the time to relax and worry only about yourselves. Here are some reasons why a couple’s getaway can offer you that mental break you might be looking for:

  • Worry about yourselves. Being away from home allows you to focus on you and your relationship.
  • Quiet time. Enjoying each other's company can be done in the simplest and most quiet way, such as bathing in the sun or even enjoying a nice nap together.
  • Ignore Technology. Straying away from your cell phone and computer can help remind you what’s important in life and why you were originally connected to your partner in the first place.

Getting away from your daily routine can be beneficial to your mental health. Taking your loved one with you only helps put things into perspective. Try doing this at regularly and you’ll be shocked as to just how refreshing this can be for your relationship!

Relive Old Memories

The nice thing about a weekend getaway or vacation is that you can go wherever you want. If you’re struggling to find a new place to visit, why not revisit somewhere you and your partner once had a fantastic experience? Reliving old memories is a great way to rekindle your relationship and fun way to spend your vacation.

Here are some quick ideas on how to relive those memorable experiences with your loved one:

  • Go back to that one restaurant the two of you loved so much. Try to remember what you both had to eat and get it again. This should spark those fond memories you have from the last time you were there.
  • Try to one-up yourselves! Go do the exact same fun activity you two did years ago, but try something else that activity has to offer. There’s usually at least one thing people look back upon during a trip and wish he or she would have tried differently. Well, now’s the perfect time to do so.
  • Visit that same romantic spot. Most couples find one spot during vacation to sit down, relax and enjoy time together. Whether it was a park bench or ocean side view from a hotel room, find that spot again. You’re bound to revisit some wonderful memories.

There’s nothing wrong with reliving past memories. This might help remind the both of you why you got together in the first place. Additionally, you can always add to older memories, so don’t feel pressured to relive the exact same experiences.

Make New Memories

If you and your partner are into new experiences and adventures, try going somewhere you both have never been to before. Making new memories is always refreshing and can help increase the bond between a couple. Here are some fun ways to ensure that your new experience together will be worth your while:

  • Try something challenging. Go hiking on a tough path or do something that faces your fears. This is an enjoyable way to rebuild your teamwork and experience an accomplishment together.
  • Do something random. Out-of-the-blue activities are sometimes the most fun. Wake up one morning and do the first thing that comes to mind. If nothing seems to pop-up, ask a local; he or she probably knows of the best things to do around the area.
  • Enjoy unusual cuisine. Trying the local fare or some type of food the both of you have never had before can be quite pleasant. You’ll never know if you don’t try, right?

Give It A Shot!

These are some short and easy answers as to how and why you can enjoy a romantic getaway with your partner. Doing this regularly gives the two of you something to look forward to every year. It’s a great way to build a relationship as well as continue the beautiful bond you might already have. If you haven’t thought about enjoying an adventure yet, try giving it a shot; you’ll be surprised how rejuvenating it can be. Good luck!


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      Charlotte Lenard 5 years ago from Oak Park, IL

      Thanks guys :))

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      Tijani Achamlal 5 years ago from Morocco

      Thanks for the advice.It s very useful.Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance. The tips you listed here are very important .The amazing one is a fancy vacation far away.

      I voted up

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      lovedoctor926 5 years ago

      Great hub! voted up awesome!

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      breakfastpop 5 years ago

      This is a terrific piece of writing. It's useful and awesome.

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      Eiddwen 5 years ago from Wales

      A great hub with so much useful advice ;I vote up and share.



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