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Get Back At An Ex - How To Make Him Come Crawling Back To You On His Knees

Updated on March 1, 2011

Get Back At An Ex - How To Make Him Come Crawling Back To You On His Knees

If you've just been dumped, it's perfectly normal for you to desire revenge on your ungrateful ex boyfriend. You may even think that you'll feel better once you make his life a living hell. But what if you could make your ex take back his words? To make your ex lover regret leaving your relationship, read these 3 methods I outline in this article carefully. Your ex boyfriend will know better than to mess with your affections once you implement these strategies.

"Before taking him back, make him take you on lots of your romantic dream dates first!"

Strategy 1 : Ignore your ex boyfriend ruthlessly.

If you want to exact revenge on your ex, you must resist making contact with him. It is common for an ex boyfriend to still keep in close contact with the girl they dumped - because he still wants the familiar feeling of being loved. By not allowing your ex to enjoy the 'good feelings' he had while you were still a couple, he begins to feel needy for you. In other words, by ruthlessly ignoring your ex boyfriend, it will definitely cause him to miss the good times you spent together - which will give you the upper hand. However, don't make the mistake of taking your ex back too fast... or he'll just take you for granted. You become more precious when he has to work hard to get you back. So let your ex want you back for about a month or so before accepting him (make him take you on lots of your romantic dream dates first!).

Strategy 2: Distract yourself by going out and having fun with your friends.

This strategy works in 3 ways:

  1. You distract yourself from coming across as needy and desperate to your ex.
  2. You get to hang out with your friends, feel happy and enjoy yourself.
  3. Give your ex time apart from you so he realizes he's lost your fabulous attention. 
It's time to hang out with friends and party now that you're single! Take this chance to bask in the sun of single-hood where you do not have to report your location and activities to anyone. Hang out with your buddies/soul-sisters as much as you can because very soon, your ex is going to want you back when he remembers what a fun gal you are!

Do you still remember how to be the fabulous woman your ex fell in love with?

Strategy 3 : Fall in love with yourself first.

Many experts will advise you change what your ex didn't like about you. While their advice is valid, they didn't tell you that, on top of learning new stuff, you must also learn how to fall in love with yourself first. Yes you may have acquired a huge amount of knowledge about how to change yourself. But remember that it was your present character that made your ex fall in love with you in the first place. Hence, if you want to win back the affections of your ex, you must focus on enhancing your own natural beauty by falling deeply in love with yourself first. You will be astounded by the inner beauty that shines from deep inside you. Keep believing in yourself until you get the love you want!

Do you feel satisfied after getting back at your ex?

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      Frank 2 years ago

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      AMANDA 2 years ago

      After being in relationship with Harry for Five years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. but one day I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in love spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: you can email him or called him on +2347056683626 if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

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      Lyn 3 years ago

      Need to share this on Lots would benefit from reading it

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      miss Nicki minaje 5 years ago

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      I had to write to you even though I am now at work…a beautiful vase of red roses was just delivered to my office….from the man of my dreams…the man I contacted you about…and through your magic, he returned to me….all differences worked out, no more mistrust, no more lies…because Dr.dodogods realizes we are spiritual Beings first, you can contact and help our spirits and those we love….my red roses are proof of that! Thank you. he can still do it for you contact him now email posted by miss Nicki minaje

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      dors 5 years ago

      I lost my 10 years relationship during April. My ex left me with so much pains and since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 15 spell casters and 10 of them has rip me off my money without any result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster till i was directed by a 16 years old girl to with At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items, it took him three weeks to convince me and something occur to mind and i said let me give him a trial.

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      kristine 6 years ago

      thanks for the tips! it works! :)

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      Joy Martin 6 years ago from Singapore

      Paul - LOL I'm doing my best not to =) I'm sure these advice will work for people/couples who are willing to give themselves another chance.

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      Plarson 6 years ago from Alabama

      Joy- GRRRRRR stop giving out all our secret weaknesses girl!! Just playing, if they will listen and take the advice, it just might work for them too! -Paul