How To Get Rid Of A Stalker By Stalking Them
Get Rid Of A Stalker
Is He/She A Real Stalker?
If you're wondering if this person is a REAL stalker, then this list may help you to decide.
1. If they show up where you are when they were not invited.
2. If they call or email you after you've told them that you want no further contact.
3. If they make any contact at all with you after you've clearly stated that you want nothing to do with them.
The Stalkers Agenda
Stalker's normally have an agenda. They'll make contact with you just to get attention. Every time you respond to their attempts, they'll figure out new ways to get under your skin.
Talk To Friends And Family About The Stalker
If you were once close to your stalker, talk to their friends and family about the situation They'll be helpful by making your stalker realize what they're doing is wrong.
Ask about their past relationships. Find out if this is how they usually handle rejection. In most cases stalkers are repeat offenders. Get as much information as possible, this may be helpful down the road.
Stalk Your Stalker
Collect as much information as possible. Here's some information that you should know.
1. Where they work
2. Where they live
3. Who their friends and family are
4. What car they drive
5. Their daily schedule
*Be sure to keep a record of the information above. Also write down all of your interactions just in case there's need for legal action*
Warn Your Stalker
Once you've established that this person is indeed a stalker, and you've collected all of the information above, make it clear that you want no further contact.
Ignore Your Stalker
This is the most underestimated part of getting rid of a stalker. People will say that they told their stalker " numerous " times to leave them alone. Numerous? That indicates that you continued to respond to their attempts to seek attention. Stalkers thrive off of this.
Make it clear that you want no further contact with them. They may test whether or not you're serious by doing things to get your attention. DO NOT give them the satisfaction.
Never Compromise With A Stalker
You CAN NOT compromise with a stalker. Do not have a back and forth relationship with them. They'll think that you are not serious. There are numerous people with restraining orders that are arrested after going on a date with the person they were warned to stay away from. You can't have it both ways. NEVER go back on your word. They'll only use this to justify stalking you further.
My Stalker Is Sorry
They may appear remorseful or even buy you a gift to draw you in. DO NOT accept any gifts or apologies. DO NOT offer to met them anywhere. This could send mixed signals.
My Stalker Is Angry
Once they realize that you're ignoring them, they may become angry. Document any calls, save voice mails, and archive emails. If they begin to make violent threats, contact the authorities immediately.
The Good News About Your Stalker
The good new about your stalker is that they'll eventually disappear. The majority of stalkers are not violent. Usually they're heart broken people that have a hard time letting go.
If you're still having trouble getting rid of your stalker, use the information that you collected about your interactions to get a restraining order.
*If you ever feel threaten in any way contact the police immediately*
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