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Getting Ready For Sex

Updated on June 24, 2015

Sliding beneath the sheets and getting slippery with someone isn't as easy as it sounds. Actually it takes quit a lot of preparation in many ways. You have to be ready or it won't be an experience you want to remember,

To start with your head's got to be in the right place. You've got to feel relaxed and comfortable. Being rested, well-fed, and exercised helps to set a foundation for your happiness with regards to any sort of interlude.

Before you go off to meet your partner you want to clear the decks around your home. Get rid of any clutter, clean, and organize things. You'll also want to send overdue emails, and pay bills that might be laying around. Make phone calls and talk to people. Get everything out. Make sure you don't have anything left on your list. The last thing you want to be doing when the time comes is to notice all of the little jobs you have to attend to. You certainly won't feel like you can totally indulge yourself.

Next, you want to make sure you've got all of the items you'll need for ensuring a great time. A good stocked bar is a must. You don't want to be running out to the liquor store at the last minute. But, while you're at the store you'll want to stock your frig too. It's nice to have a few things on hand in case you want to make a little snack. And don't forget the whipped cream, chocolate sauce, and powdered sugar. After you do that you might want to visit your local romance shop. Even if you don't need any of the special items, you still might want condoms, lube, and DVD's.

When you get home you have to think about your body. You are going to be sharing it with someone so it's got to be in tip top shape. Yes you do want to stretch and flex your body be fore any workout, including having sex. There is something else to consider though. It's the hair on your body. Nice smooth skin is a must today, and it feels oh so good. Very sexy. So wax, shave, and smooth yourself. It's great to bring this to the bed. No one wants rough hairy skin.

There's a reason people go on dates prior to having sex. It's good to set a certain tone for your time together to separate yourselves from everyone else for a time. Long enough for you to feel connected in some way. It really doesn't matter what you do as long as you go off and get involved in an activity. While you're there you'll find moment to laugh and play so that there's an air of fun among you. Make time to flirt with your partner. It's all of this behavior that will carry over into the bedroom. Everything you do can be a prelude to sex. It's great to have fun and anticipate what's to come next.


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      Lisa Brown 3 years ago from Michigan


      Thanks for your comment. You know you've got to think about these things if you're going to be having fun. I'll tell you we have a great time by the fire during our long Michigan winters. :)


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      dashingscorpio 3 years ago

      Voted up and useful!

      "And don't forget the whipped cream, chocolate sauce, and powdered sugar. After you do that you might want to visit your local romance shop. Even if you don't need any of the special items, you still might want condoms, lube, and DVD's." Whomever you're dating is a verrry LUCKY man! :)

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      Lisa Brown 3 years ago from Michigan


      Thanks so much. I'm glad you enjoyed it. :)


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      Robert Loescher 3 years ago from Michigan

      I cannot believe you don't have like a billion responses already. Great stuff Lisa. One thing you forgot to mention is that you have to have your hubpages account open so you can write a great article about your evening activities. They used to say "Kiss and Tell" but I guess in the new day of the Internet it would be "Kiss and Hub". LOL


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