- Gender and Relationships
Getting Your Ex Love Back And Keeping Them
Getting Ex Back
If you find yourself wondering how to get your ex love back, that is probably because you are still in love with your ex, if your ex has walked out of the relationship the first thing you need to do to win your love back is take some time out and think about your relationship, get your head together, make sure that you take some time to sort yourself out.
What you need to do now first and foremost is look after yourself, meaning that you are going to have to avoid any contact with your ex, this step alone is not going to be easy, but it is one of the most important steps, contacting your ex at this point just might make you weak putting you in a negative and vulnerable position, especially if your ex has asked you to leave him/her alone, if you are always calling or just trying to see them you might become less appealing to them, so you might want to leave them alone and give them some space for a while.
Use instead that time to work in yourself, make sure you don't waste your time thinking about your ex, thinking about them right now is a surefire way to depress yourself and recovering from depression is something that is going to cause some other problems that you don't even need, go out and reconnect with your friends and family, may be you could meet new people and have yourself some fun, I know this is not going to be easy but if you want to get your ex back you might want to do it.
Soon after you get recovered from the shock of the break up, you should think of the role that you played in the break up, it might be easy to blame your ex for everything but remember that it takes two persons to form a relationship and two to break it, make sure that you are very honest with yourself and take claim of the break up if you are at fault, if by any chance you made a mistake that caused the break down of the relationship you need to figure out how you are going to fix it.