- Gender and Relationships
Girlfriend Getting Tips for Unhappy Young Men (Top 10 List)
Cheer up dude!
10.Remember there a millions of girls worldwide
Yo young lad, this is supposed to be obvious, but many guys don't even realize this!
Never ever forget this. There are over 3 and a half billion girls in the world. 10 times 100,000 makes a million and 1000 million makes a billion. 3.5 times 1 billion is 3.5 billion and that's how many girls exist.
Kick yourself because you've been a loner all this while, unable to get a girl.
Girls, girls, everywhere!
You are not going to get access to the 3.5 billion girls of the planet as long as you're stuck to your computer. You might get a virtual girlfriend online, but you'll have to make do with cyber sex and an avatar for a kid.
Get off your backside and go meet people. See how cute the girl down the street is. Make friends with her brother, then make friends with her.
8.Don't be desperate
Girls hate desperate guys. Nobody has been able to explain why, but that's a fact. Over the course of human history, countless scores of otherwise exemplary lads have messed up their chances because of desperation.
I'm mama's boy, but girls avoid me.
7.Make eye contact
When you see a girl you like, its quite likely she won't notice you unless you make eye contact with her. This is because, if she's caught your attention, she's probably caught the attention of 150 other guys too, and 149 of those guys are likely too darn scared to look her in the eye. She'll go for the guy who makes the proper kind of eye contact with her.
Proper eye contact is from your pair of eyes to her pair of eyes. It's not from your pair of eyes to her bosom, or from your pair of eyes to her reverse. Get clear on this.
When you look at a girl you think you'll like, make a short glance initially, then wait a bit, make another short glance, then wait a bit, and then make another short glance. This is meant to entice her without giving yourself away. If she looks back at you, you're in luck. If she doesn't then move on. There are over 3.5 billion girls in the world.
Important: Never ever stare intensely at a girl you've just seen for the first time. You'll freak her out.
You just blew it bro!
6.Remember sex is secondary
Girls are very intuitive. They know when a guy is only interested in sex.
No matter what you think as a guy, the fact is sex is secondary. Forging a relationship based on trust is primary, and no girl ever trusts a guy who is more interested in having sex than is growing a meaningful relationship.
Notice how this lady is totally into it?
Ogling is appreciating someone's features when they aren't looking. Don't do it. If you are noticed, you'll blow your chances.
4.Stop showing off
Most girls don't appreciate boastful guys. Be normal. They are many ways to impress a girl and showing off is not one of them.
Most girls detest guys who keep boasting all the time. They are only interested if you'll be a good fit in terms of compatibility.
So you've got talking with that pretty girl? Include subtle appreciative words in the conversation. Girls, whether they make it obvious or not, love to be complimented.
Comment positively on her choice of clothes, or on how well she sings. Be subtle.
Once the conversation is over, she will run through it again in her mind, and if she has positive memories of you, then, well done! You've made a mark!
A subtle appreciative word thrown in here and there will truly endear you to her!
2.Don't rush it
Slow and steady wins the race. If you rush through things and try to escalate matters too fast, you will give yourself away. Respect the girl. Give her an opportunity to discover who you really are. Show her that you're a gentleman who's willing to take it at her pace.
Is your motivation correct?
It makes sense for you to sit back and question yourself if your motivation for wanting to be in a relationship is correct. If you want the relationship simply because it will make you look good in the eyes of your peers or if you feel you're the only one not in a relationship, you are setting yourself up for failure. A relationship is a serious life choice. It requires serious consideration.
A mature relationship takes into account aspirations of two people. A high degree of selflessness is required to sustain and prosper a relationship, else, when the initial high wears off, you will be forced to face a future of drudgery.
Be willing to listen to what the girl the is trying to convey. Make mental notes of her likes and dislikes. This will truly endear her to you, and will prevent you from saying anything foolish that will put her off.
Remember that she has loads of things in her mind, and that she wants someone she can share them with. Make yourself that guy.
2. Don't rush it
4. Stop showing off
5. Avoid ogling
6. Remember sex is secondary
7. Make eye contact
8. Don't be desperate
9. Be social
10. Remember there are loads of girls
Are you an unhappy young man who doesn't have a girlfriend?
There are single girls in the areas shown on this map. Go for it bro!
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